Because married men are also ever ready to cheat on their wives, forget about their kids and have fun with a young girl.
Ever questioned any married man why he didn't think of sanctity of his own relationship with his wife and kids?
Actually women are the biggest losers if you ask me. They never think about their own kind. Kangana, PC, Sridevi, Juhi, Zeenat, Rekha etc were all like that.
Not even once did they think of wives of men they had affairs with. And wives also defend husband only but fight with other woman. Like Sanjay Khan's wife thrashed Zeenat.
Women end up fighting with each other while men get to have their cake and eat it too 😆
Actually system is at fault that instead of talent and merit, industry gives work on connections. Women do anything then to get work. I mean that affair with Rajinikanth helped Amala a lot and it is said he used to recommend her to producers to cast her in films with him.
Same for Hema and Sridevi who used affair with Dharam and Jeetu to no ends for own gains.
Industry must become merit oriented instead of connection oriented or else this will not stop.
That said, power, wealth, connections, fame, maturity of a man like this attracts all women. They then start wishing for a husband or BF like that. A single, un established man who is not mature or has boyish mindset and less wealth, power is sometimes not that attractive to women.
He might not be able to provide all that lavish lifestyle either that an actress is used to.
You also have to see what all rich married men in love do to woo actresses they take fancy to. They load them with expensive gifts, film offers, flats, money, car, valet or do gimmicks like sending truckload of flowers or use their connections to bail woman or her family member out of some crisis. That's when women also fall hook, line and sinker.
Boney Kapoor wooed Sridevi by getting her mom treated in USA for some health issue. That's when she finally zeroed on him.
A single man yet to establish himself cannot always offer such support, power, money, fame, gimmicks.
Bollywood men marry much later too. So do actresses. But older woman has mucy harder time finding work or match compared to an older man. So actrsses often get desperate. Besides they often have bad reputation and no good family wants to be with them. So marrying a much older married man helps them. They can be arm candy for old married man while he is bank account and safety net for her.
Let's be blunt so called feminist Shabana Azmi is in much better position and gets too much attention today because she is Javed Akhtar's wife. Same for empowered Kiran Rao. It didn't matter to them if their hubbies left first wives after kids.
Women can be women's own worst enemies to secure own interests. No sisterhood, solidarity or feminism here.
Lastly just look at rise and power of Jayalalitha all thanks to her affair with MGR. She became Queen of Tamil Nadu thanks to her 'love story and attachment' with him😆
Edited by atominis - 8 years ago
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