Harman's Reaction to Saumya's Drama :Reality Vs Expectations

Here are my views for Friday Episode ...Sorry for being late but I was under the weather and could manage time only today .. Friday saw yet another controvertial episode with Saumya saying some unbelievable words against Harman's family which was all a staged drama by Preeto and Saumya both followed by Preeto slapping Saumya and finally Harman taking his parents side for the first time against Saumya ... So yeah no wonder the entire episode was controvertial and we have already seen extreme reactions for it on twitter 😆

To b honest I m actually scared to give my viewpoint because I know whatever I say , one side will feel disappionted and I cannot please all the sides 😆 ..So whatever I write here r purely my views that I felt while watching the episodes .. All r free to agree or disagree with it 😃 ..

I will divide my take into 3 parts today .. First part will b what actually happened .. Second part will b Harman's reaction .. and Third Part will b what I expect from Harman .. Since Harman was the center of attraction everywhere after this episode , so no wonder my take will b more about him only today 😆

What Actually Happened : So we saw Preeto telling Saumya that her next step will b to leave Harman's room on which as usual Saumya asked Preeto to give her idea .. So its clear that Saumya continues to dance to Preeto's tune without realising that in the process she is actually stooping too low in Harman's eyes and loosing her self-respect too which is what she wants I guess 🥱 and then the scene that followed next was part of Preeto's brainwave ..In short Preeto was the director and dialogue writer of the next scene 😆..

So in next scene Saumya wants to leave the room but Harman as usual is adamant of not letting her go .. So finally Saumya starts her drama directed by Mrs.Preeto Harak Singh 😆 ..She starts throwing accusations on Harman that she is not her wife anymore and so he should b aware what such people r called who live in a man's room without any relation ..Just then Preeto with her entire drama company reach the room to stand in Harman's support and start her mother india act 😆 ; I can clearly see Preeto and Saumya talking secretly through their eyes as Preeto indirectly asks her to go more extreme with her words as Harman was still not ready to give up ; So finally Saumya accuses Preeto's upbringing and asks her if all men of her family run after kinners and mayb her son dont want a wife but an escort ; This was enough for Preeto to slap Saumya while Harman was too shocked to react as the words were so hard hitting that he could not really show his open support to Saumya either .. Harman finally gives up and asks Saumya to leave the room but before leaving he tells Saumya that he loves his family as much as he loves her and so she should not never try to use his family for her own motives as his family holds a special place in his heart .. This is exactly what Preeto and Saumya wanted to hear from Harman .. So yeah mission accomplished and Preeto's Movie is a blockbuster hit 😆😆



Harman's Reaction to the Entire Drama : So Preeto slaps Saumya in front of Harman yet Harman stands there and later takes his family's side ... Whether he is right or wrong in doing so , I will come to it later but before that I want to say the reason why Preeto slapped Saumya was valid as Saumya questioned Preeto's upbringing as a mother and told her "looks like your son dont want a wife but an..." ..she wanted to say escort mayb 😲 .. So before she utters that word Preeto slaps her .. So the slap was valid in a way as any mother will slap her bahu for saying such thing about her son ...

But problem here is the whole drama was staged by Preeto herself as in previous scene Saumya asked Preeto that she only give some idea .. So we know whatever Saumya spoke was Preeto's dialogues only ...Everything from her dialogues to that slap was actually staged by Preeto and Saumya both .. So its not Saumya's words but Preeto's words .. Filth is in Preeto's mind and not Saumya's mind ...So as an audience when we watch the slap scene , it sort of pricks because we know the entire slapfest is actually staged by both Saumya and Preeto

Now coming to Harman's reaction , he had no idea about whats really going on behind his back .. So when he saw Saumya accusing Preeto's upbringing due to which Preeto slapped her , he felt bad and even told himself "why did Preeto slap Saumya" but openly he could not really stop his mother or support his wife as she was on the wrong side this time .. In a way Harman felt defeated by Saumya for the first time and when Harak and Raavi went on a rant asking Harman to take a stand for their family's self respect as his wife has accused his entire family by questioning Preeto's upbringing , he was left with no option but to verbally show his support for his family ...Till now he openly supported Saumya against his family because his family was always on the wrong side but today Saumya was standing on the wrong side by putting disgusting accusations against his entire family , so no way a son can support such act of his wife against his family 👎🏼 ; In fact when he told Saumya that he is aware she did this drama just to get out of the room , we could see that extreme hurt and a feeling of defeat in his eyes as he was feeling letdown by his ladylove for the first time 😭 but he was left with no choice by his wife and so going against his own wish , he had to stand in support of his family and prove to them that Harman always takes a stand for the right ..


So any normal man in such situation will stand in support of his family and warn his wife especially when he is totally unaware how this entire drama was staged by his own family .. Harman too did the same as Saumya did cross her limits .. So realistically if I see yes Harman is right in standing for his family's support this time ..

I really felt bad for Harman when after the entire drama both Saumya and his family leaves the room after achieving their respective goals and poor guy is left all alone in the room feeling hurt and sulking in pain 😭



What I expect from Harman : While watching any soap , we need to remember that its not real but fiction .. So just like we expect from a superman or a spiderman to be the larger than life hero who can do anything and everything that a normal man cannot do , same way we expect Harman to b the larger than life hero whose smartness and intelligence till date has won millions of hearts ..So we dont look at Harman like any normal man .. We look at him as the Hero who can never go the cliched route .. Harman's reaction to the entire situation was that of a normal man which is very unlike Harman for me as I expected him to sense it easily that the entire drama is being staged by both Preeto and Saumya especially when Preeto entered their room with entire gang all of a sudden as if she was ready for her next act 😆 ..

So what I expected here was Harman taking noone's side , neither Preeto nor Saumya , but just walking out of the room in his typical style after telling Saumya that she can leave the room .. Because in that way neither Saumya nor Preeto would hv won this round which is what I wanted to see .. Reason why I m saying this is because when Harman tells Saumya not to use his family for her motives , general viewers will actually scream saying "arre Harman u told the opposite , its Preeto who used Saumya for her motives and not other way around " .. So it sort of looked like both mother and wife make a fool out of Harman and he actually falls for it and says the opposite of what the real truth is as both mother and wife wanted Harman to say the same and he said it ..He was smart enough to guess that Saumya did this drama by accusing his family just to get out of his room because she knows his weaknesses well but he wasn't smart enough to guess that his family r equal partners in crime too along with his wife .. I expected Harman to guess both ..One may say too much expectation from him but then its Harman after all , only character in the show from whom we expect the unexpected ..right ?? 😃

I expected Harman to b at his smartest best because he knows both his mother and wife well .. He knows Saumya dont hv enough brains to make such bold statement about him or his family ..A girl who till marriage dint know what is her gender will definitely not talk about Escorts 😆 .. In fact in this one year Saumya blindly supported his family over him something which neither we nor Harman liked , so Harman knows well that if needed she may go against him but will never go against his family or speak anything filthy about them ... At the same time Harman also knows to what extreme his parents can go to separate them .. If they can send their own son to jail for false murder attempt , then they can pressurise Saumya to speak nonsense about them too just to make Harman misunderstand her 🤔.. So in short Harman knows whose brain is capable of doing what as he knows both the ladies well enough .. Thats why I wish he was smart enough to guess that whatever Saumya is speaking , there is another brain involved behind her words because thats what I expect from Harman who is known for his smartness but the fact that he actually fell for the entire drama disappointed me even more than the whole slapfest ...

That does not mean Harman was wrong .. Like I said his reaction was totally justified as any common man will react that way .. But till now Harman has never reacted like any common man or else by now like any common man he would come under his mother's pressure and marry a normal girl of his mother's choice , leaving a kinner .. But he dint do that and always stood against the majority .. Thats one reason why we expect Harman to always do something different than the rest and not follow the clich route like any other man as he is suppose to b the Shakti of the show .. The day Harman starts reacting like any common man , will b the end of Shakti actually as he is suppose to b the constructer of the show ..

Friday scene was one of its kind and being a human , Harman too can fall weak at times especially when the person he loved the most that is Saumya was putting such serious accusations on his love and family .. So he is bound to b distracted .. Its normal ..But I hope CVs dont use this as an excuse to always glorify Preeto as the ultimate winner like they did on Friday because I just cannot see the venomnous victory look that Preeto gives in the end when Harman supports his family against Saumya followed by Saumya leaving the room 😡 .. For me thats evil winning over humanity and it was more of Harman's defeat than anyone else which I cannot tolerate ...

If Saumya does anything wrong , Harman is glorified as the hero who will bring her to the right path and thats one reason why I dont mind much if at times Saumya is compromised just to bring the angle of Hero becoming the Shakti for his Heroine as thats the main theme of the show 👍🏼 ... But if Harman does any blunder , then Preeto is glorified as the smartest villian which puts all the spotlight on Preeto thus resulting in Harman and HaYa story getting sidelined .. This is something we need to remember ... Friday episode gave me a similar vibe of Preeto being glorified as the Great Schemer and the Great Mother (fake though😆) which left a bad taste in my mouth ..

So these r my views about the most controvertial scene of Friday episode 😆


Coming to others scenes , I loved when Harman asked Saumya to say thanks for fixing the entire Surbhi mess and also sarcastically reminded her how she only forced him to marry Surbhi which resulted in this mess 😆 ;Harman was really expecting a sweet thanks from her but sighh she again named it another favour on her ; I wish Saumya that time told Harman about how Preeto was the real mastermind there too but the fact that Saumya is always protecting Preeto's deeds , does not let me connect to her pain much even though I know she is protecting Preeto only because she is unfortunately Harman's mother ..sighhh ...I really hope a day comes when Saumya realises how supporting Preeto in all her evil plans was her biggest mistake and this way she is not giving any happiness to Harman but only pain 😭 ; She actually should hv realised it after trio track only but CVs like to drag everything to glorify the evil , so well .. To b honest Preeto would hv fallen flat on her face long back if Saumya dint support her wrong deeds 🤔...Only reason I feel angry on Saumya is because she is letting Preeto use her and taking every pain from hand burn to slaps just to go away from the man who loves her the most .. sighhh



Biggest joke of the episode got to b the starting scene when Surbhi takes all the credit for her masterplan in the panchayat in front of Maninder 🤣 ..As per Surbhi , it was all her plan and not Harman's plan 😆😆...But since Surbhi is a non entity in the show , so noone bothered about this scene 😆 .. But I really find it amusing to what extreme this girl can b delusional 😆

Precap looks good as Harman was again in his Malik mode giving nighmare to both Saumya and Preeto by doing his fantabulous mathematical calculation of how Saumya will hv to stay 50 yrs to pay him 20 lakhs 😆😆 ..Now thats the Harman I want to see , who knows how to defeat the negatives with his dominance


Overall I could not really enjoy Friday episode because it was all about Preeto's win .. Saumya giving in to Preeto's wishes .. Harman falling in trap set by his mother and wife .. So nothing really was positive in my view .. Hope we dont get similar episodes in future .. After Saumya , if Harman too falls prey to Preeto's trap , then whats there to watch , definitely not Preeto banging plates ?? 😆 .. I m saying this strictly from a show POV as when I watch a fiction show , I want to b entertained which is possible only if I see positive winning over the negative and not vice versa ..

amazing analysis jyoti ❤️

Originally posted by: zubeada

amazing analysis jyoti ❤️

may be they gonna give smal winning momnt for preetoo

so later she fall flat on her face and we can see her defeated face again😆

yes I think thats coming soon because after friday tamasha , I can see her getting over confident again .. so yeah her fall is coming soon too 😆

When Saumya burned her hand then Harman told her that he will never force her to be in his room so this time when saumya was packing her bags to leave his room then writers n cv could have easily shown that harman let her leave fearing that she might again hurt herself...so this all cheap drama was not even needed at first place.

Harman knows that saumya is trying her best to go away from him so why did he let all family members speak in between them..he should have asked them why suddenly they all came there n would have asked them to leave at their entry only so no drama would have taken place. He knows very well how his saumya is n how his family members r..saumya, the girl who was not even aware of her gender once , was not knowing meaning of marriage was suddenly talking this kind of language n his family who was known for their disgusting dramas suddenly became so saint n harman just get trapped in emotional blackmailing..not only he let preeto slap saumya but even warned her not to use his parents... He guessed saumya is doing drama but not caught his family drama..

One more thing, harman's silence on preeto slapping saumya, his reaction to all drama, his stand for his family, etc..when everything was like as if saumya genuinely saying all those bad words n like she is actually pointing finger on harpreet's upbringing then what was the point in showing that he knows saumya is doing drama..it could have been shown that he didn't guessed saumya's drama too.. in my opinion, this is where things went wrong.. it look like as if saumya need to do 1/2 more drama n harman, even after knowing that saumya is doing drama only, still he will end up breaking his relation with her just like he let her leave his room n if it is so then he should have done this long back..what is he waiting for...some more drama?...

I hope u will get what I m trying to say coz I myself is confused n it happens to me everytime whenever writers write such forced n useless drama, butchering characters n making them say/do something which is not in their nature..then they just spin my head n left me with no clarity at all..only writers can say what n why all this drama was n what meaning does it have just like only surbhi can say what she says n what meaning it have..doesn't she realise how rubbish she talks n mannu was also showing anger as if his darling daughter has actually done something good for saumya... all were looking like jokers with useless drama. N what does this surbhi mean by that harman wouldn't have let her declare her marriage with varun? What she thinks harman was enjoying by keeping her as his second wife in front of society..she seems to be in her own la la la land...lol..she is indeed a joker only n in this scene she even made me laugh when she took all credit of harman's drama n was giving self-praisal speech with that look...lol..

I was dumbstruck and became extremely sad after reading written update of Friday episode .

I questioned myself what made me so sad by just watching a fictional show as I don't have any problems in personal front. Why was I got affected so much ????.Then I understood its our emotional connection with the characters ,somewhere we follow them in their good deeds and idealize them .We get emotional as we own the characters as we love their personality. What is soumya for us? She is innocent, soft spoken, forgiving ,kind hearted person

Who is Harman for us ? He is dashing, well mannered, Honest and humble person. we just adore HAYA for their qualities. CV's just cant kill the characteristics of a person for the sake of twists .i feel bad when cv's try to degrade a character for illogical twists .Cv's are on a killing spree. On the name of twist ,they are butchering the main leads of the show,It started with soumya,I really hope it doesn't end with Harman.Soumya's character lost its charm long back bec of her disgusting behavior on the name of sacrifice or astitiva fight.How could a woman degrade herself by calling as "Bazar girl so many times ? using such kind of words for herself in front of everyone just to leave the room is intolerable. No woman should get such kind of monologues or scenes whether it is positive or negative character. what kind of redemption scene they show to regain her own selfrespect and dignity? .if you don't respect yourself ,don't expect it from others.I don't have any problem with her anger ,MU ,her decision to go away from Harman? Problem comes only what path she chose ,her puppet behavior ,self destructive actions and her never ending useless sacrifices .Nobody can empathize with fools .She is nothing but a fool.

The idea of MU is good but the execution is so bad that we lost connection with the characters and started disliking the female lead for her extreme behavior .The dialogues of soumya on Friday episode is beyond anybody's tolerance ,there was no need for her to degrade herself so much to bring Harman close to his parents. when did ever Harman emotional disconnect or disrespect his parents? though he was angry with them ,he always maintained that dignity and respect for them. That slap is too regressive and disturbing .Cv's started dishing out any nonsense on the name of twist .They are hell bent in proving that Indian tv serials will never change ,they do all ridiculous things to twist the story irrespective of how potential the story is.I doubt this balwinder molesting soumya is also brought only for sanjay's movie promotions as it will not add anything to the ongoing story,rather it makes us more to hate soumya who protects balwinder from Harman. Instead of slapping him ,she came to his rescue .Amazing. what msg they want to send to the public with kind of scenes? How did even rubina accept to do this? This is like mocking women empowerment ..She can keep her fight with her husband a side and should have taught a lesson to balwinder ,this would have been the right msg to the public .CV's can stoop any low to glorify side characters .Day by day we are getting pathetic episodes .Negativity in the show is unbearable, Cv's never cared for viewers emotions as its only business for them but I hope that they atleast care for TRPs,which is coming down bec of this illogical and unrealistic OTT drama and track. Sometimes I get angry at myself ,why the hell I love HAYA so much ,that I am torturing myself in a hope that I will witness some positivity and sense in the show ..Despite of having such a talented actors and potential storyline,unique concept,great social msg ,CV's are able to show only cheapness,negativity and regressive scenes .these morons are bankrupt of creativity .We can give better ideas to run the show than them without spoiling the essence of story and butchering the leads .

Well said...Jyoti...frankly...I just cant relate to anything

Thanks my dear gago for this amazing retake even if I 'm not sharing with you the same point view about HaYa I must say You have done a great retake👏 👏 👏Really friday episode was a torture for me; i watched it with difficulty and even cried watching HaYa in such situation. I have seen in tweeter fights about it and i have got more pains .I intented there to only talk less defending both HaYa and i was very careful to not enter in fights.Such method of dicussion watch them with pain bcz we can have differents POV and we discuss about with love and freindly by I watching other thing totally different .We can give an add to each other when discussion.We must settle an example that were different; have different cultures ,diffrent way of thinking and everyone have his angles to inderstand and interpret things but our difference isn't an oblstacle but reunited in a surrounding of love,respect and peace .Anyway I say again ;I respect every POV. I have no fear to express my thoughts bcz it's only mines and before writing I feel the responsibility and take everyone place ;i want be fair with what i writing.

After reading this long post my conclusion remains that Saumya is stupid. Because we have been through all that in the trio drama. Her self sacrifice tormented Harman and she slowly realised that Harnans happiness lies in being with her. Then they left the house. When they returned she told Shanno to let her live because Harman needed her. Why this U turn. What really happened I think is that the CVs wanted to create a MU track with Saumya fighting for her identity and in the process they tried to show her strong. But then they made it so extreme that it became unbalanced with people loving Harman and hating Saumya. So the stupid creatively barren unimaginative CVs introduced this self sacrifice under Preetos influence to tilt the balance of the viewers towards Saumya which makes absolutely no sense. This totally conflicts with strong Saumya fighting for her identity and instead made her a worm (hurting Harman and herself) and made viewers hate her even more. So if one or both Haya have a nervous breakdown now, for whose welfare is this stupid illogical self sacrifice drama for? If Harman drinks himself to death how is Saumya helping Harman through her self sacrifice. Can the stupid saumya even understand or realise the emotional and physical damage she is putting Harman through. He endangered his life in Bsngkok and now the drinking will affect him physically. The creatives need to show them having a heart to heart talk. But no they will carry on with their cruel imaginative process I am so disgusted with their creativity that I don't think their track is even worthy of doing a psycho analysis. They have not only made the characters negative but als made the viewers tweet negatively. Congratulations Rashmi Sharma.

Originally posted by: LuvRUBI

When Saumya burned her hand then Harman told her that he will never force her to be in his room so this time when saumya was packing her bags to leave his room then writers n cv could have easily shown that harman let her leave fearing that she might again hurt herself...so this all cheap drama was not even needed at first place.

Harman knows that saumya is trying her best to go away from him so why did he let all family members speak in between them..he should have asked them why suddenly they all came there n would have asked them to leave at their entry only so no drama would have taken place. He knows very well how his saumya is n how his family members r..saumya, the girl who was not even aware of her gender once , was not knowing meaning of marriage was suddenly talking this kind of language n his family who was known for their disgusting dramas suddenly became so saint n harman just get trapped in emotional blackmailing..not only he let preeto slap saumya but even warned her not to use his parents... He guessed saumya is doing drama but not caught his family drama..

One more thing, harman's silence on preeto slapping saumya, his reaction to all drama, his stand for his family, etc..when everything was like as if saumya genuinely saying all those bad words n like she is actually pointing finger on harpreet's upbringing then what was the point in showing that he knows saumya is doing drama..it could have been shown that he didn't guessed saumya's drama too.. in my opinion, this is where things went wrong.. it look like as if saumya need to do 1/2 more drama n harman, even after knowing that saumya is doing drama only, still he will end up breaking his relation with her just like he let her leave his room n if it is so then he should have done this long back..what is he waiting for...some more drama?...

I hope u will get what I m trying to say coz I myself is confused n it happens to me everytime whenever writers write such forced n useless drama, butchering characters n making them say/do something which is not in their nature..then they just spin my head n left me with no clarity at all..only writers can say what n why all this drama was n what meaning does it have just like only surbhi can say what she says n what meaning it have..doesn't she realise how rubbish she talks n mannu was also showing anger as if his darling daughter has actually done something good for saumya... all were looking like jokers with useless drama. N what does this surbhi mean by that harman wouldn't have let her declare her marriage with varun? What she thinks harman was enjoying by keeping her as his second wife in front of society..she seems to be in her own la la la land...lol..she is indeed a joker only n in this scene she even made me laugh when she took all credit of harman's drama n was giving self-praisal speech with that look...lol..

This scenario is almost same like the scenario when kinners faked that drama of proving Harman characterless so that he leaves with his tambu and that time Saumya kept quiet when Harman was accused

I felt friday episode was similar but role reversal with Harman keeping silent and Saumya being accused of something which was not her thinking ..

Only difference is in earlier case Saumya knew well its a staged drama by kinners yet dint support Harman .. here Harman actually dint know that the drama was staged by both Preeto and Saumya , so to some extent I can give the benefit of doubt to Harman here ..

Plus after Monday episode I dont feel much for the slap either because in flashback we saw Preeto told Saumya "Look I will slap u and then u act some more" ..Saumya silently said yes which means she was well awarre that the slap is coming .. Preeto sort of slapped Saumya with her consent .. So I cannot really feel bad for Saumya here when she herself was fine to get slapped .. 😕..it looked almost like a daily soap shoot where both parties know about the slap and was just acting 😆

My only grudge is Harman dint guess that the drama was staged by both parties as normally he is shown quite smart in such scenarios .. So I wanted him to support neither parties but like u said mayb just allow Saumya to leave the room especiallly after the pledge he took .. but again his heart just cannot let Saumya go either .. just wish he dint fell for the entire drama the way Preeto wanted