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saumiee

@saumiee

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Posted: 8 years ago

The opinions on today's episode will almost entirely depend on our perspectives.

For some, the only way to bring the evil on the right track is to be kind with them . To not stoop down to their level to beat them. To kill their conspiracies with kindness.

That the world can be won over by the goodness in heart.

For the second category, It is futile to be good with those who don't deserve it. Its tit for tat. .And it is foolish to give away your own rights for a person who doesn't even acknowledge your goodness.

Some of us may have loved Sonakshi's gesture, it must have win their hearts over. .For some it might be utterly stupid.

I am not sure about which of the categories I belong in, but certainly as much as I am pleased to see how big our protagonist's heart is, I was kind of disappointed with how she is rolling back to what she did in Season 1.

Seeking Validation!

7 years back, she bore with so much of GKB's drama. . Sona was a kind hearted girl even then, she tried to establish the bond with her back then too. . Did it change GKB at all?

Did it change her today?

Was it a right step for Sonakshi to actually bypass Ishwar I'd role in handing over the keys to whomsoever she pleases to?

After all, is it not Ishwari's house?

And how could they show Mami crying as if Ish had snatched their rights? Was it not her who grabbed the opportunity to get control of the house..When Ishwari and Dev were the weakest? Now that they were strong enough to take back what was theirs. .It is making her insecure.

I wish Sonakshi hadn't compromised her bond with Ishwari to establish a connection with GKB. . Someone who would never willingly participate in it.

Or maybe they are actually planning to show a change in stubborn GKB's heart.🥱

Another thing, of course. . That little Devakshi moment was beautiful when Dev just asked her to sit down and talk. To relax and she, exhausted with all her responsibilies . .Just dozed of to sleep on the shoulders of whom she loved the most.

I am actually dreading Sona's steps to 'repair' everything immediately. She has a heart of gold but woah! Woah! Sona! You definitely need to slow down a bit.

I was instantly reminded of the tulsi puja day, where Sonakshi woke up at 4 am even when Dev said it was completely okay to not do it.

Tired and exhausted, she had slept on the couch. .To be woken up by her husband's peck on her forehead and breakfast.😳

Such a beautiful parallel but what Sona is doing may pr ove to be toxic to her relationship with Dev.

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@2728..1113

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Posted: 8 years ago

Thanks that you share this post..

Really, Sona is again trying to erase the complexities even by hurting Ishwari. Though Ishwari didn't Confess that she was hurt, I think it's natural to be hurt by someone whom she had believed and give responsibilities.

Sona gave the keys to GKB. But she didn't take permission not told her about her decision..But she also apologised for this...

We know that-Black takes no other hue. So, I don't think the makes have any plane to make GKB guilt for all her work...

Anyways, bohot bak bak ho gayi..

Let's see ahead..

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cscs

@cscs

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Posted: 8 years ago

Saumiee lets welcome Sonakshi back not only to IN but her role as super bahu as well.

I don't wanna say anything on Sona's chaabi lautao and achai dikhao session. Bcz that's so like Sona n sorry but she is behaving like Gopi bahu ATM. Doesn't she know how GKB is, what she did 7 yrs back and even after her return. She herself said that GKB cannot think good for Dev and Dixits then how the hell GKB is the "one" who can handle "Ishwari" Niwas. Seriously !

If she wanted to return, she should have gave it back to Ish, told her that's its her right to handle the house till she is alive. Or atleast tell Ishu about her plan to return the keys to GKB. I felt bad for Ishu today. yes she did her fair share of mistakes, but it doesn't mean she has to tolerate every thing that Sonakshi does, just bcz Sonakshi is always "Right". I am sorry but i won't buy it anymore. I do understand Sonakshi's emotions but she is doing same mistake what she did 7 years back. Handling everything on her own n do according what she feels right.

If Dev n ishu should realise that they did wrong, Sona should also realise that her "right" is not right for everyone even if she has done it with good intentions.

The saddest part is Devakshi will be ignored in all this. I wanted to see their love story, their healing, theiir talks,their pain of 7 years but now we will watch Sona at rescue mission of Dixits.

If i was disappointed yesterday, i am super pissed today. M actually regretting leaving my HP. -_-

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cscs

@cscs

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Posted: 8 years ago

N Devakshi are behaving as if Sona went to her mayka and returned after a week.

It doesn't feel like they are together after 7 years. -_-

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Shaavi

@Shaavi

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Posted: 8 years ago

Saumiee, wonderful post as usual. And I totally agree with you. Today when Sonakshi gave back the keys to maami, it reminded me of Harry Potter. In the book "Prisoner of Azkaban", HP saves wormtail and shows mercy. When Harry tells Dumbledore about it, the later feels very happy. As he knows that now there is somebody on Voldemort's side who has an obligation to Harry. And what Dumbledore said proves right when Wormtail hesitates to kill Harry in the last book. 😃

This is exactly what I felt when I saw Sonakshi give back the keys knowing everything. I have a good feeling about it for 2 reasons. Maami is greedy, but not like Vickky. She still has little bit of that feelinngs for Ishwari and Dev which Vickky lacks. Now whether maami likes it or now, sub consciously she is the recipient of Sonakshi's goodness. Right now she might dismiss it, but everytime she does something wrong, it will sting a little in her heart. And when the time is right she will question herself and about what she is doing and say am i doing right. She won't be able to ignore it. The other is maami's inherent greed. Now that Ishwari had taken her key away, maami has that insecurity that Ishwari might take it away. It is very similar to Sonakshi's insecurity that Dev might ask her to leave because his mother said so. Similarly maami adding with Vickky might do something drastic to keep Dev's wealth with them leading to Dev losing everything. Here Sonakshi cannot point fingers at anybody or blame anyone as she is the one responsible for this downfall. She will have to take the responsibility of having given the key to maami resulting in negative consequences. And yes Sonakshi needs these life lessons and she is someone who learns the hard way. 😊

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_Payalj_

@_Payalj_

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Posted: 8 years ago

Even I feel as if the story is going in the same loop but with different results this time. Doesn't happen in real life but this is serial land so GKB will improve and so will Vicky. Only in serials mummy and baby viper can become Docile cows.

A normal woman would be concentrating on improving relations with her husband at such a delicate time but sona is a serial bahu. So the husband and his needs can take backseat and the problems of mami, chachi, behen, dhobi, maali etc have to be catered first.

By the way my mother actually appreciated sonakshi's gesture and said she is acting sensible and doesn't want to create fights in the house. Also with this gesture she has ensured that GKB now knows that the keys have been given to her by sona. She has ensured peace in the house and also changed the power equation.

I guess perspective always changes with age.

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Shaavi

@Shaavi

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: cscs
Saumiee lets welcome Sonakshi back not only to IN but her role as super bahu as well.

I don't wanna say anything on Sona's chaabi lautao and achai dikhao session. Bcz that's so like Sona n sorry but she is behaving like Gopi bahu ATM. Doesn't she know how GKB is, what she did 7 yrs back and even after her return. She herself said that GKB cannot think good for Dev and Dixits then how the hell GKB is the "one" who can handle "Ishwari" Niwas. Seriously !

If she wanted to return, she should have gave it back to Ish, told her that's its her right to handle the house till she is alive. Or atleast tell Ishu about her plan to return the keys to GKB. I felt bad for Ishu today. yes she did her fair share of mistakes, but it doesn't mean she has to tolerate every thing that Sonakshi does, just bcz Sonakshi is always "Right". I am sorry but i won't buy it anymore. I do understand Sonakshi's emotions but she is doing same mistake what she did 7 years back. Handling everything on her own n do according what she feels right.
If Dev n ishu should realise that they did wrong, Sona should also realise that her "right" is not right for everyone even if she has done it with good intentions.

The saddest part is Devakshi will be ignored in all this. I wanted to see their love story, their healing, theiir talks,their pain of 7 years but now we will watch Sona at rescue mission of Dixits.

If i was disappointed yesterday, i am super pissed today. M actually regretting leaving my HP. -_-

@bold pink. This is exactly what I have been trying to say for sometime now. But then Sonakshi needs lessons in life that too practical ones. She doesn't learn anything the easy way. She prefers the hard way. And this is the hard way. Now I have a glimmer of hope that Sonakshi's retribution is on the way. 😆

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saumiee

@saumiee

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: cscs
N Devakshi are behaving as if Sona went to her mayka and returned after a week.
It doesn't feel like they are together after 7 years. -_-

Yes! I don't understand where exactly is the longing and the happiness of being with each other after being through so much!

All the spark has gone out of the window kya?

Not wanting to see romance if they don't want to focus on it, but atleast show something real and not entirely sideline their emotions at this point of time!

Dev immediately rushed to talk to mummy after seeing the decoration -_- and Sona ke toh kehne kya, she left the room to return the keys to mami, instead of spending time with Dev

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surenkal

@surenkal

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Posted: 8 years ago

Totally silly this move. She should not have taken the keys from Ishwari and said it then and there. It was sneaky what Sona did

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sp12

@sp12

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Posted: 8 years ago

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@cscs Agree with each and every word.
I can hazard a guess why Sonakshi is doing this.
What happens when the same point is drilled into person's mind again and again, the person takes that point to his/her heart and starts behaving accordingly, the same is happening with Sonakshi it has been drilled again and again into her that she is always right and as if the Bose family was not enough now Dev and Ishwari are also drilling it so it is natural that Sonakshi thinks whatever she does is right.
#therightsyndrome

Just my POV, no offence.

Edited by sp12 - 8 years ago

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