14 June. Adi illogical; Babasa, Jhanvi creepy

I don't expect anyone to agree with me on this, but that's what I feel the current story is.

Let's start with Aditya. A person who just heard from Babasa the possibility that Jhanvi feels more for him, and one who has enough instances to look back on and wonder about her as well as his relationship with her.

Right, so let's assume he completely casts aside and rejects this theory. But still, he was just told by Babasa what his and Jhanvi's relationship could be perceived as, and he is there getting blessings with Jhanvi as if they are a couple. He doesn't have the excuse of being unaware. He's been made aware. So either, he should be mindful and sort of avoid such blatant instances; or--and this is something I feel should have been the case--he has understood and recognized to himself but is mindful of the circumstances, thus allowing his and Jhanvi's dynamics/relationship to continue in the current manner, not rejecting and also not acknowledging and accepting outwardly till the right time comes.

But Aditya is made to act illogically due to plot convenience, and also maybe because they don't know how to deal with Aditya while he's still married. But that leads me to:

Jhanvi and Babasa. If the writers are wary of going anywhere with Aditya due to his marriage status, then why do they weirdly think it's okay for Babasa and Jhanvi to do what they are doing? It's actually a bit creepy. They are plotting and planning without Aditya's knowledge or consent in any of this simply because they believe and feel Aditya also loves Jhanvi romantically and that the two are meant to be life partners.

Huh?

Better it to have been a natural progression where both parties (Aditya and Jhanvi) are involved rather than this tamasha of Jhanvi and Babasa plotting to get married to a man who has actually denied the possibility and idea of marriage to Jhanvi (and one who is still married and not divorced).

If you have moral grey areas, have them. Trying to give a 'clean chit' to Aditya this way just looks stupid for him as well as Jhanvi.

Ok. So this is your POV.

I don't think that Adi is illogical rather the track is illogical. Babasa wants his son's happiness that's why he suggested him to marry Jhanvi but I think Adi is looking this marriage proposal just as his concern, love for him. He is indebted whatever Jhanvi has done for him but that doesn't mean after hearing marriage proposal he will start her loving in just one day. He may understand the hints but really not ready for love. Sometimes you respect a person a lot that doesn't mean you love him. And there is big difference between Adi & Jhanvi that Adi is a married people as well as father of two children so right now his priorities are definitely different. Jhanvi is in a age that she don't know anything other than Adi. So she is madly in love with him but it looks so childish that Babasa helping her in making food for him.

May be it looks like orthodox but I don't think that they should move the love story before the divorce. Why they can't show that Adi marrying Jhanvi & after their marriage slowly he develops feeling for her? That would be logical. And babasa should also talk to kakusa & Kakima about his thoughts.

The current track shows that babasa is pushing his son towards a extra marital affair. And as per upcoming track Nisha & Jhanvi will fight for Adi. It certainly doesn't look good as a show but I think this track is definitely made just for trp.

Please don't spoil the show by showing some cheap things. They should give priority to divorce track & after that if Nisha is plotting it would look real.

Hope CV's will understand our views.

I believe it is illogical and plot convenience for Aditya to not be aware of the possibility. It's really lazy plot contrivance, because realistically no matter if one is ready for it or not, after it being pointed out, one would think about it and wonder if it's true. And he's already been shown thinking back to certain scenes more than once. If the decision is to reject the notion that there is or could be non-platonic, then consciously there would be some attempt and awareness to distance himself from situations like the whole homecoming blessing aspect.

I actually do think some of the direction and acting hint to what I said before. That Aditya has somewhat understood, but due to the circumstances he lets the situation be as it is knowing it is not the right time to talk about it. And logically, there would be flashbacks to some scenes from Aditya's perspective. But this being a Hindi show, I have never seen such flashbacks being used. That is, scenes that are shot with some aspects of it cut and planned for reveal/airing much later--and actually aired later.

But again, this being a Hindi serial it is the lazy route to take where it becomes weird and illogical.

I don't have a problem with Jhanvi and Babasa's shennanigans if it's shown that Aditya is not unaware and is somewhat amused by all this by Jhanvi's clear attempts, or that he's noticed Jhanvi's dazed looks but not saying anything or commenting on it. It comes off as creepy for Jhanvi to be challenging Nisha will be will be thrown out of Aditya's life, while we are supposed to believe Aditya isn't aware at all of the dynamics and believes it to be strictly platonic.

I don't have a problem with the fact that divorce has not gone through. The attempt to try to make it 'sanskari' by making Aditya unaware and Babasa and Jhanvi plotting is what makes it off-putting for me.

Either wait for the divorce. Or if the show can't wait for divorce for love track, treat it right instead of this weird 'sanskari' attempt.

One thing I'm glad and don't want. I wouldn't want a marriage and then falling in love. See that enough already.