THE BATTLE OF THE MIND AND THE HEART..MEIN KAISI MAA HOON 5/23/17 UPDT

Ishra scene

So raman is ready to be a part of the wedding..ishita asks him to stop the wedding..he said why?..and then she says that she knows everything...she had tears and couldn't even get it how is this even possible?

I...He's already married...

R..he was forced ..and the marriage is annulled..

I...what are you saying? Do you even know what you're saying?'..she couldn't accept it at all..

R...let the wedding happen. We will talk later..

I..aaliya needs to know the truth

R..yes she does..but after the wedding..

I..she said something..didn't get it..how can you forget..he was married...aaliya needs to now now, they are beginning their married life, they love each other a lot, and she loves adi a lot..how can he lie to her..

Raman has lost it now

R...why do you say he lied...he was forced...he prolly thought he might loose her...what kind of A mom are you? Can't you see the helplessness and love on your sons face?

I..I'm the worst mom...mein bohot buri maa hoon,,

R..what are you saying now?i..

I...i lost today..mein kaisi maa hoon?

R..ishta yaar please ..

I..if my son can't come to me and tell the truth ..toh mein kaise maa hoon?

R..ishita tum

I..if my son is unable to trust be or can trust me enough to come clean with me..then what kind of a mother am I?...i thought my son is my pride , i thought I bought him up well..i don't have to doubt my upbringing..i thought my son respects women,respect his wife.. he abandoned his wife , in a strange city, if he can't respect a woman's dignity, toh mein Kaisi maa hoon?

She knew she's a failure, this sealed her as the worst mother...she's beginning to accept it now..the hurt and heartbreak ...times infinity..

Raman tries to talk to her

R..I understand what ever he did is wrong..i accept that..maybe, maybe, because of you, he must have gotten cold feet, scared, maybe he thought he fell in your eyes, or even look at you, listen to me, can't you see the difference between the adi then and now?... its coz of you, he loves you and respects you, but our son was helpless, don't parents do anything for their children?

I..true..but parents don't let their children commit mistakes or show them the wrong path or encourage that..

R,..so we have to let their lives ruin?

I..aaliya is also my daughter..just like adi...i can't let this happen..

R..they are also my kids..i do care for them..what if aaliya takes a wrong decision and does the unthinkable..what happens then?

I...what happens if she comes to know about it after the wedding? What then?..what if she never trusts adi at all throughout their married life..never trusts adi at all?

R..ishita look marriage is annulled..I'm begging you let the marriage happen..that marriage is not a marriage at all..it was a forced one..

I..a lie is a lie..that cannot be changed..

R..ok fine why don't you understand..

I..pleas understand raman..it has to be aaliya's decision whether to go ahead or not.

R..I'm folding my hands..it's upto you to keep you to stay quiet..rest is left to you..

Ishu at this point is quiet..she doesn't know whether to go ahead or support raman...let the marriage happen.

I..both are my kids..you have no idea what I'm going through right now..what ever adi did, he did out of his own free will ...but aaliya has the right to know the truth..

R..ok fine..if you don't care about your kids future..do what ever you want..

I...Aaliya's life will be spoiled, and aaliya will never trust adi ever, which i cannot let it happen when they are embarking on a new journey..its her decision..

And she tries to leave...Raman stops her

R.. for the last time I'm asking you, let the wedding happen, anything you do will ruin their lives , please, think about it, for me atleast, for your upbringing ...

Ishita is now in a dilemma whether to go ahead or stay quiet

Aadiliya are wondering where they are, and all are wondering where they are..

And they enter..roshni was able to gauge the situation..

Everyone are happy...Mani too sensed the tension

Raman to ishu...look at adi how happy he is, don't break his heart..please.

And so the ritual start

Judge was about to leave... romi stops him..and he starts..and altercation goes on..judge says well neither the family nor the to be wife knows anything but it..if he's not a thief..then why can he come clean...

Romi couldn't agree..he says he didn't want to trouble anyone

Judge again calls adi a fraud..romi looses it...

He says annulment is not done. Not even registered yet..and he's marrying another girl?..Romi gets physical with him

So the pehere begin..just then the ghadbandhan get severed..all are shocked...

So ruhi goes to retie it..Ishu is more worried now..these are the signs of its not meant to be

So the 7 pehere begin.. adi first and the blessings begin with flower shower ..raman is tensed and looks at ishita's reaction..

So the panditji explains the 7 pehere..ishu is completely broken ..she has fbs of gagans words..and ishita thinks..is my love for adi more of truth it is more than humanity? I'm a mother to aaliya, and adi is hiding this from his to be wife..should i stay quiet after witnessing all this?

At the same time Roshini was also thinking about it..I think now she too is understand the meaning of marriage and vows..

1st..respect, 2nd...then 3rd..sickness and health, truth, no lie..thats it

Ishu stops it...and all are wondering what's going on..Ishu steps up...Raman is super furious

She goes straight to aaliya..says she wants to talk to him in private..nowAnd takes her away..

Mani wants to know where she's taking her

Raman is trying to stop her...raman says he has no idea...even when shagmani questioned him.

In the room

Ishalu

Aaliya wants to know what's going on and ishus says she does have something to tell her and confirms if she trusts her.

Aaliya ..do you even have to ask?..I trust her more than me..what is it?

I...ishu is tearing up..i have to tell you something.,.its very important that you know before the wedding about adi.,

Aaliya..what is it? why are you crying?

Ishu holds her hands..and with tears streaming down her face says aaliya..adi is already married.

Aaliya...couldn't believe it..she simply drops on the coffee table...

Ishu...I'm sorry..he didn't want to betray you, he loves you a lot, we just came to know about it, you know what happened..in khandpur he was forced to marry..he didn't want to hurt you,neither do I...at this time of the wedding...I'm sorry..if i didn't tell you, I'm betraying you, i cant inform you after the wedding is over,,..I'm very sorry AAliya is speechless and too numb..

I...He didn't want to betray you , neither do we, but say something..

Mani and shagun is now asking whats going on to raman..and as usual shagun starts, toshiji steps in and supports ishita saying..there has to be something, behind it..she will never do this unless theres a valid reason .

But shagun Is shagun..screeching and screaming..and blaming..

So shagun heads straight to the room followed by mani and Raman, romi, adi too..the whole family

Informant has informed someone ..about the wedding coming to a grinding halt..

And now judge too has vendetta and he gives the contacts info to that person..it has to be gagan...ashok wants this wedding to happen...not gagan he tried to stop it ..possible Ashok too...for stopping the annulment...

All are in the room and all are questioning aaliya..

Aliya is shocked and mani is asking ishu so is shagun

Adi comes there and sees Roshini..she's quiet

He heads to aaliya..and tries to touch her and she screams NO...and pushed his hand away..now adi is shocked

'AAliya...Why did you lie to me...adi ..why did you hide it...you're a liar Adi you're a liar..why didn't You tell me the truth..

Shagun what truth what did he hide?

AAliya...He's already married...shagun mani are shocked.

Roshini was she happy?...couldn't gauge it....

All are shocked..raman looks at ishu..

And aaliya is broken down completely

Precap

Yes you were helpless back then, not now, you could've come to me and told me the truth , and come clean with me I would've understood you better, why hide it , you never had trust in our love, and there's no point in this relationship ..raman looks at ishu ...The girl is yet to be revealed..

Krishna was damm good..perfect emotions ..

Looks like Roshini was a but relieved with the wedding coming to a halt..Roshini...i think after the explanation of the 7 peheras...she's might be having a change of heart...

So blame game in a milder form is commenced...

Loved DT she's as damm good ..the scenes where she was battling with the mind and heart..superb emotions..and when she said mein toh buri ma hoon...man she was brilliant, how does she do it?...the simple nuances..patting aaliya's have before telling aaliya the truth...calming aaliya and herself...beautiful ...Ishita was right...its better to tell her now...marriage is based on trust...period

Raman...was right too..ishita IS infact a worst mother and couldn't see the kids/anyone happy how much this word has affected her..even after all these years.. she couldn't come out of it..the damage was already done..but now its resurfacing how and she's reliving it again..her confidence shattered....Ramans warning ...and his deadly glare ...will this lead to something else? ..the significance of the saree tear as mentioned by @raji ...about Ishra relationship ..looks like it might come true..

As I've said in my earlier posts..ishita thinks long term fix vs raman who thinks short term..deal with it when the time comes..when the need arises...thats what we saw post leap scenes..tit for tat..never thinking the damage it might cause in a person and in a relationship..

Shagun had sindoor too..

Kp was good

Ishra scene was intense, heartbreaking for a mother who questioned herself on her upbringing...

Ishalu scene was touching...

Loved the panditji's teaching them the meaning or the significance of the 7 steps

More drama in store..hoping history doesn't repeat Overall superb episode ...don't miss it

Dialogues were damm good...very real..

In the battle between the mind and the heart...mind won today...

Originally posted by: zindagi4pyaar

Yes bhallas dont give a daam... Wen it cums 2 der children...

God knws wats in d store... But one thing is sure dat at d end i will b ishita who will b blamed 4 everything... Being it d upbringing of children, bringing roshni home.. N every daam thing...

P. S did ny one show SS LATEST insta post

Originally posted by: ramishi

It is good that ishita told the truth to aliya...she has all the right to know about the person's past whom she is about to marry...

Time and again it is proved that when it comes to their family members specially kids bhallas don't give two hoot about right and wrong or ethics...

Originally posted by: zohakhan7

Today Ishita was absolutely correct

They have no right to keep a girl in dark about the boy n his past n they should leave the decision on Aliya whether she wants to marry Adi or not after knowing the truth

Raman ,Romi and Adi were very very wrong in hiding the truth n moving on with the wedding as if nothing happened

Raman instead of blindly hiding the truth should have let Aliya know the truth as even he has daughters

Its not right to hide the truth

Ishita was absolutely correct saying what if Aliya gets to know the truth after her marriage then her trust would be broken for forever

Also society will call her a second woman in Adi's life without any fault of her and that's not correct.

Waise to sab se pehle they need to scold Romi for hiding such a big ruth n for not caring a girl's life n emotions but then Romi hasn't ever considered that ever

But Adi he wasn't like this,he respected girls n women's n their emotions n he indeed was betraying Aliya by hiding this truth n going on with the wedding as if nothing happened

KP and DT were sheer brilliance

Its sad to see Raman who was a man of ethics n morals is agreeing for bigamy to happen n is not considering about Aliya's emotion when the truth will be out

I still Remember he thrashed Romi when he got to know he impregnated Sarika or when he got to know about Param molesting Ishita n throwing him out n when he got to know Romi made Mihika's mms

what have they done to Raman's character ?

He wasn't like this

This over efficient n over smart Romi needs to be confronted

Firstly as an elder he should have explained Adi to speak the truth to ishra when he got to know about the wedding but no like coward he made Adi shut up n now is threatening the judge

I mean I knew Romi never cares for the girls n emotions but this was the limit

Romi is also at fault for hiding the truth n for supporting bigamy

Originally posted by: Mdwst

Yes she was..it's upto aaliya to decide...

Marriage IS Trust ..aaliya was right...when there's no trust...there's no marriage..

Romi was wrong..but raman going along was unacceptable...he is older...he should've stopped it,.i understand he's looking for kids interests...but that's not how it should gen dealt with...ramans character is changed ...from preleap to date...his values have changed...just my pov..no offense menat..