Kamla Bhasin on rape and honour

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Saw this on my tw timeline,thought to share it on here.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I'll never understand the social norms of a society where a rape victim who suffered a horrific crime "lost her honour", and people who kill their children for daring to marry their own choice "restore their family honour". Honour has lost all meaning to this people, it's just a tactic to oppress and silence the victims.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: communion

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I'll never understand the social norms of a society where a rape victim who suffered a horrific crime "lost her honour", and people who kill their children for daring to marry their own choice "restore their family honour". Honour has lost all meaning to this people, it's just a tactic to oppress and silence the victims.



Exactly I have heard it many times in BW movies 'Uss larke ne uss larki ki izzat loot li'-this doesn't make an ounce of sense 😕 what does 'larki ki izzat' have to do with rape?
Edited by Dhoodh_Ki_Dhuli - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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hits on bulleseye, i have one more , wen a man marry with these girls y ppl make him god or put him on pedestal as he did some big sacrifice n big charity ,y de say de gave her honor wapis to her n gave her respect by marring her , y rape victims r dependent on a man for their respect n honer , ek ne cheen liya dusre ne accept karke wapis kar diya n y de say he accepted her by using dis word de indirectly give hint det girl had a kami ,she has something missing n by accepting her man did a favor on her n return her lost honour n respect to her

y girl honour lives in her virginity 😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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And sometimes in villages, the panchayat gives judgment that the rapist has to marry the victim ..it's his punishment and justice to the victim.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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BRAVO!!👏👏 Thank you very much for sharing this.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I watched this Episode when aired on TV.

She was absolutely spot on. Such clarity of thoughts. Bravo. 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have never heard it put up this way. Loved her words! Spot on!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I had watched this episode when it aired and was applauding mentally throughout! This lady nailed it, what a firebrand she is! 👏

This is the horrible mentality of Asians/ desis that Honor is lost by the rape victim, and not that the rapist is dishonorable monster!

They dont know the meaning of Honor, because they are not Honorable people.
I also hate that in TVshows or films, they show the rape victim as bechari, helpless, music of pathos plays in the background.
WHY PATHOS, WHY NOT FURY?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Another interesting piece of writing that i've came across on tw,give it a read guys:


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