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C0raline

@C0raline

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: kit0kat
The hell with "Log Kaya Kahege".. nor one needs to justify anything to these "Log"...Hopefully this mentality will change.. Women power..we have come a long way...
I am sorry.. but I believe in Women who have the ability to stand for themselves, be strong, and someone who dont play victim and dont make themselves look pitiful.. Maybe that is why I am the way I am .. and will do the best for my daughter..

We do need more parents like you. But not all parents do it for "Log". A lot of parents do it thinking that their child (even in their late 30s) is not capable of taking decisions of their own and take it for them.

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Hobby.bliss

@Kanak-123

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#12

This is reality of life...jo baccha aapne ma baap ka sunte hai ...unki vaat hi lagate hai ma baap..

Really how can a mom get 20 year old girl married to 40yr old guy...i mean seriously r u even thinking about their future or u r just thinking about urs...?

Dude shahid aur mira got married with such age difference ...but common yaar woh hero hai ...aur mira ke dad usko support kat sakte hai if these guys separate...

aur yeh mukhi lagta hai nahata bhi nahi ...

Aru will get a father from this marriage not husband...🤣

Edited by Kanak-123 - 8 years ago

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Jai Shree Ram

@Aquabutterfly

Rocker

+ 18

Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Today was the first time I thought of her as Dharmi's mother and not Aru's mom. Aru deserves better parents who wont always cover up their older daughter's misdeeds and expect the younger one to always compromise to correct the mistakes.
Today's episode showed everyone's real self 😡

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vita93

@vita93

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Ughh I absolutely agree!! How does she think putting Aru on the mandap makes anything better?? Just because Aru can always fix a problem - doesn't mean you just throw her under the bus for your own convenience??

I feel so bad for Aru...constantly being let down by people. First the boyfriend took her money and ran...then her stupid sister started all this shaadi business (by her own interest) and ran...now her mother wants to throw her down the shaadi hole...

Also, doesn't everyone know that Dharmi is supposed to become Mukhi's wife? When tomorrow everyone realises that Mukhi married Aru, how is that going to make anything better?? They will still need to explain that their rotten brat of an older daughter ran away and they had the stupidity to throw in their younger daughter as part of somr stupid plan.

The worst part here is that Aru is vehemently against this marriage. To force a girl to marry someone is actually illegal, and Mukhi himself will never accept this. It is one thing to admit that dulhaan ran away, it is way worse to trick Mukhi as well to marry someone different.

Really, what a stupid track.

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Kavila

@Kavila

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Kanak-123
This is reality of life...jo baccha aapne ma baap ka sunte hai ...unki vaat hi lagate hai ma baap..
Really how can a mom get 20 year old girl married to 40yr old guy...i mean seriously r u even thinking about their future or u r just thinking about urs...?

Dude shahid aur mira got married with such age difference ...but common yaar woh hero hai ...aur mira ke dad usko support kat sakte hai if these guys separate...

aur yeh mukhi lagta hai nahata bhi nahi ...

Aru will get a father from this marriage not husband...🤣

wait a min kanak what do you want to say ?? Listen age is not the factor...why a 42 year and 22 year cannot fall in love or what ...in real life too it happens and there is no comparision btw sahid- mira there case is different and btw mira rejected sahid at very first time however after that .they realise its better to settle ...so thats another case my mother and father has 12 years gap and its a love marrige and highly succesful...about Aru getting father it will be highly disrespectful...like dude a father seriously...hmm he can be his giude for life but not a father atleast...kuch bhi...but yes as u said...the matter is very sensitive...and totally inconvinent...i dont know what mind set arus mother hold ...what she thinks the society will welcome them as whole heartedly?

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Anupama

@prem_diwani

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: angelic8219

It always makes me laugh when they use excuses like what will happen to our family name when infact people will say things for a few days and these people don't even stick with you in your bad times so why you giving it so much importance? Why ruin your daughter's happiness to keep people who don't really care happy. When Dharmi has embarrassed them so much, seriously what is one more incident gonna do? Did they not go back to living a normal life after each kand?

@bold - so true.

what family name is left... they were living at a dharam shala and no one in their society was willing to take them in when they were on the street ...

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Hobby.bliss

@Kanak-123

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: mannu100

wait a min kanak what do you want to say ?? Listen age is not the factor...why a 42 year and 22 year cannot fall in love or what ...in real life too it happens and there is no comparision btw sahid- mira there case is different and btw mira rejected sahid at very first time however after that .they realise its better to settle ...so thats another case my mother and father has 12 years gap and its a love marrige and highly succesful...about Aru getting father it will be highly disrespectful...like dude a father seriously...hmm he can be his giude for life but not a father atleast...kuch bhi...but yes as u said...the matter is very sensitive...and totally inconvinent...i dont know what mind set arus mother hold ...what she thinks the society will welcome them as whole heartedly?

Mannu yahan baat 10/12 yrs ki nahi hai 20 saal ki hai...u can c their ideologies towards life is different ...one has to achieve something and one has already achieved everything. Adjustment is what turns out to be the next step...arus mom just thinks about good family and good boy...she knows if dharmi is runaway bride then aru ki shaadi hona mushkil hai ...ultimately money hi sab kuch hota hai

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C0raline

@C0raline

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Kanak-123

Kanak,

I guess the issue is not the age of the guy. At least not just that. It would have been wrong to make a daughter get married when she is not ready just because you want to save your skin. Period. (even if the guy was her age or education or whatever).

Sadly a broken wedding is given more importance than two lives.

A woman should get married when she wishes, and with whom she wishes (so does a man). The only reason two people should marry because they want to spend their life together, rest of the reasons are unacceptable. (while is real life it seldom happens so)

Mannu yahan baat 10/12 yrs ki nahi hai 20 saal ki hai...u can c their ideologies towards life is different ...one has to achieve something and one has already achieved everything. Adjustment is what turns out to be the next step...arus mom just thinks about good family and good boy...she knows if dharmi is runaway bride then aru ki shaadi hona mushkil hai ...ultimately money hi sab kuch hota hai

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C0raline

@C0raline

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#19

Opps, I did something wrong with the quote , unquote business. Rectified now! :-D

Pardon my lack of knowledge on how the interface works (and other things).

Originally posted by: C0raline

Kanak,

I guess the issue is not the age of the guy. At least not just that. It would have been wrong to make a daughter get married when she is not ready just because you want to save your skin. Period. (even if the guy was her age or education or whatever).

Sadly a broken wedding is given more importance than two lives.

A woman should get married when she wishes, and with whom she wishes (so does a man). The only reason two people should marry because they want to spend their life together, rest of the reasons are unacceptable. (while is real life it seldom happens so)

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