Nk an abusive father or a good one

hey this is for the weekend activity let's discuss Nk as a father do you think he is a good father or a typical father😉 for me he is a abusive father🤢 him totally destroying one son Karan with his insults while favouring other son even enough to be prepared to go to jail for him psychologically this is also known as a form of child abuse😆 why he is doing it only he knows is he ashamed of his younger son that he is willing enough to have him tucked away in a room hidden from his sight and his world😡so what's your opinion friends let's discuss

I don't think NK is a "good" father. I just don't think he is a "bad" person.

I would say he is not a father at all, he is still Sandy's little baby who like a good bay listens to mummy,

For the moment I can't really decide if he's a good father or not, coz his actions are very contrasting
He may be good to Kunal, but with Karan he's a total loser as a father
I think the first thing that should be done is removing Sandhya and her influence from NK. Only then will we be able to see how NK reacts, coz from what I hv seen till now, her influence is the major reason for him being a prick most of the times

Originally posted by: eshasrk

For the moment I can't really decide if he's a good father or not, coz his actions are very contrasting
He may be good to Kunal, but with Karan he's a total loser as a father
I think the first thing that should be done is removing Sandhya and her influence from NK. Only then will we be able to see how NK reacts, coz from what I hv seen till now, her influence is the major reason for him being a prick most of the times

Originally posted by: malikakas

I don't think NK is a "good" father. I just don't think he is a "bad" person.

I think he loves both his sons. I think he doesn't criticize Kunal because Kunal follows his wishes. Same with Kyathi. I think his issues with Karan are mostly related to Sandhya creating misunderstandings. Sandhya likely makes NK feel like Karan's issues are mostly psychological and that Karan just doesn't make any efforts in his life to be something good. That's why NK seems to be harsh on Karan.

The problem with Karan is that he reminds NK of his own failures. NK has a lot of insecurities about being a failure in life. He doesn't say it on the surface but deep down he feels like a failure because that's what Dadu and the world keep telling him. So when he sees Karan fail he behaves the same way Dadu behaves with him.. always criticizing him and never praising him outright.

I don't think NK loves Karan any less though. I think if something happened to Karan, NK would go to jail for him just like he did for Kunal. Remember in the engagement... he was also concerned that Karan got hurt. He just couldn't outright ask Karan--he had to go through Nirmala. I think with time we will see his affection for Karan come out too.

hope so yaar cause in real life I've seen fathers like Nk ignoring his other children for his son

Originally posted by: hosnraj

I would say he is not a father at all, he is still Sandy's little baby who like a good bay listens to mummy,

first he needs to grow up then become a father...

but he does loves his children, and his wife, just that he is blinded by Sandy...

may be cause Nk I think never had his mother 😆 I mean she must have died when he must have been very young he is looking more for a mother figure in sandy😆

My question still is : Why doesn't NK for once do something useful instead of trying to bring down others and his own kid just to feel superior ????
In the latest olv I guess he told Dadu that he can never become like him or doesn't want to...then what does he want ??
Being an ass all the time ???? Coz that is what he's doing !!!
NK will also never become like Dadu becoz he's too selfish and self obsessed
At least Kunal and Karan have the traits of their Dadu firstly and secondly Nirmala...luckily both boys are NOTHING like their father

Originally posted by: eshasrk

My question still is : Why doesn't NK for once do something useful instead of trying to bring down others and his own kid just to feel superior ????

Soo true may be he is mentally unstable 😕 but this is no excuse no good father brings his own child down just to feel superior 🤢
In the latest olv I guess he told Dadu that he can never become like him or doesn't want to...then what does he want ??
Being an ass all the time ???? Coz that is what he's doing !!!

Ahh I think even himself doesn't know what he wanted😕 only thing that interest him may be to outshine and outsmart his own father🤢being an ass is his usual way when he is frustrated 🤢
NK will also never become like Dadu becoz he's too selfish and self obsessed
At least Kunal and Karan have the traits of their Dadu firstly and secondly Nirmala...luckily both boys are NOTHING like their father

I Can't Decide Whether Nk's A Good Father Or Not.
His Harsh Towards Karan But Kunal His Not.