Originally posted by: abhilashasharma
After a Long time replying to ur posts. *** yayyy free time for me!!!*****
First of all I would like to bring this in, before I go on - I was wishing for jungle mein mangal like many out here. Romantic heart never dies, you know. But not possible at all --- 1. Cvs Nahin denge aisa Sukoon ke pal humein. 2. Out of character for both involved. In the sense, they never take advantage of each other whatever it be. They wud rather die than lose each other's trust and vice versa.
Exactly abhilasha. Shivaay has been an impeccable gentleman since they got married. He flirts suggestively, but backs off if she is unwilling. But he's getting to know which of her 'no's are shy uncertain ones for an innocent girl.He reads her responses like a hawk. A hand grab gets him nowhere, her shields are up fast and impenetrable. A cheek brush makes her breathless, a kiss to the forehead makes her stop crying ; she loves hugs, tight squeezy type hugs, a kiss to her hand makes her look wide eyed and curious. He almost kissed her in bed, but she moved her head away, wanting his 'out of character's words first.Raunchy looks makes her shy and turn away. He must find her really cute. 2 Rs. Cheapda ! He shows all the signs of wanting to go further, but isn't selfish about it. He has issues to settle and romance in the jungle is not how you properly make love to your wife for the first time, so I wasn't expecting that at all.Believe me , when it happens were going to hide our blushing faces and turn up the AC. !😆
It had taken a long time to trust each other. Experience is the greatest teacher of life. They have learnt to trust each other with time. Now that it is established firmly, it will be difficult to just pull it off. Tremors happen, they can only merely shake. Only an huge earthquake will be able to topple. Even the , I'm sure the remains still exist to rebuild their whole trust structure again. They know very well what is it to lose their trust on the other as well as what is it if the other loses trust. They will make sure whatever happens, the incidents never reach to shake the foundation of their relationship - trust.Trust is the only thing that keeps her with him to date. She trusts him more than she does herself. He won't break that trust ever.
Romantic moments always come and go now and then. But the real romance starts when the affection and care is evolved to love and realisation and when it firmly forms a protective layer above their foundation of trust. That will take some more time and few life shaking incidents