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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tahitien-moon

hey yaar I do have to disagree on few thing thaugh about in love and happy megnal easily beating just friends nairan it can never be easy for megnal as they only want to win for the family and their prestige while nairan is I presise determined to win for eachothers and that makes the invisible streangth of a couple . it's more streangth in a couple this selfless thaught for each other's and isn't it in a way far more stronger deeper connection of feelings than emotions that's just called love ? ( you can say you love someone for a friend husband etc but it's more deep when it's showed With action and nairan is doing it for eachothers)and Nairan are so very happy just being together with eachothers and this is even deep as well than just called happiness 😆 they don't need long run either yaar they have more understanding from the moment they met than their siblings till date😆( as meghnal flowed with the things as they came nairan made the efforts to understand and know eachothers) and we cannot say Naina's feelings involved her feelings are involved since the day she saw him playing with those kids every step she took every jeste she did each time she dreamed doing romantic things with Karan showed she is well on her way to fall in love with him and deep too and it is mutual the attraction is mutual😆 only advantage megnal got over nairan is that they knew a longer period than nairan yet emotionally and eachothers feeling wise they know less of eachothers than nairan 😆 so even there they don't have any advantage over nairan at the moment 😉 so if we consider emotional connection understanding happiness that braught with them nairan has more advantages on megnal and they also can very easily beat megnal with this deeper level invisible connection 👏 as I said megna and kunal sacrificing is the thing that would never make sense😆

Ps: don't take badly what I said 😆 just pointing out what I really felt after seeing today's episode 😆


So this is purely for discussions sake. After all both couples are fictional.😆
But I don't know if I agree with you on Nairan having a deeper connection that Meghnal. I don't think they know each other more than Meghnal-- I just think they are in different stages of a relationship.

I don't think that just because Meghnal had a disagreement, their bonding is less. Disagreements or misunderstandings are a part of every relationship. Nairan will have disagreements too-- but they are just not at that stage yet. I see fights as a part of relationship building. I once heard a quote that said "if a couple doesn't fight it means no one is home". Obviously too many fights is not good... but having some fights means that both people feel comfortable being themselves with each other. And that's what I saw in MeghNal's fight.

I love the way Kunal is fighting with Meghna-- because he is fighting with her in a way that is letting her in. He's letting her in into his insecurities. His fear that he hasn't been able to prove to her that he is on her side. His frustration that she hasn't trusted him completely. Same with Meghna saying to Kunal that she is an independent woman. Someone else may have tried to pacify their partner by saying sorry they didn't think it through. But Meghna defended her decision because being able to think of herself as being self sufficient is an important part of her personality. But once they get past this fight they will both have learned something more about each other. Maybe she needs to realize that being self sufficient and including your partner aren't mutually exclusive. And maybe he will realize that her needing to feel self sufficient isn't an affront on their relationship but more as overcompensation for growing up as a disadvantaged girl with a single mom. But in the meantime these two are completely comfortable being themselves with each other.


Nairan isn't at that stage yet because they are not completely capable of being themselves with each other. Naina is helping Kunal build his confidence... but until he is stronger she is still walking on egg shells around him worried that anything could easily be a setback. If you've ever heard the phrase that unless you love yourself, you can't love anyone else. I think that aspect plays a role here. But they are definitely getting there.


Yes friendship, trust, respect is an integral part of a relationship and Nairan have that in spades. But I feel the emotional stake is a little less when you are in the friendship stage. Opening up to the other person carries a little less risk because the other person doesn't have the same kind of power to crush you than when you are in love with that person. But even as a friends I need to see a bit more of Naina opening up. I need to see her being willing to share her vulnerabilities and needs with him. Naina is selfless in general... she is able to sacrifice for others (her sister, Karan etc). But I'd feel she was really being open when she is able to admit to some of her needs.


In my mind, the biggest hurdle in developing relationships (friendship or love) is developing emotional intimacy. To develop intimacy you have to drop your guard and trust that the other person won't reject you. That's why in love the intimacy factor because so much harder. Things that you can easily tell your friends you are more scared to tell your partner.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nairan😃 without any sacrifice plz
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The last round is simply a dance competition. So anybody who dances better can win. So I think it is possible for NaiRan to legitimately win on their own merit without anyone sacrificing even if they are newly into a relationship.

I think MeghNal win two rounds - the paper dance and quiz - and probably NaiRan win other two so both land up in the finals which is dancing.

Of course, what they show is completely upto the makers so anything can happen. 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: malikakas

😉well it does seems I feel nairan is more closer after yesterday's episode than megnal( even after making out) and do feel there's a deeper level of love between them too but as you said yaar it's a fiction a each has his or her own opinion 😉🤗

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