I'M OFF TO PHUKET ....NO YOU'RE NOT...4/10/17 - Page 6

Originally posted by: ramishi

In general how a person treats you should be more important than how he/she addresses you...but i believe for a parent along with the recognition and parent like treatment they do crave for hearing that special word from their children...even in case of adoption parents will like to be addressed as father/mother from that child...its a special feeling...i still remember how ishita felt hearing "ishita mamma" for the very first time from ruhi...and to not mention how raman got angry when ishita said ruhi has two father during shagun and ashok marriage because he was not ready to share this position with anyone...even he used to crave for hearing papa from adi in the initial days...and if am not wrong he didn't use to like adi addressing ashok as his papa either

I have no issue if children addresses ishita as ishima but treats her like their real mom more than their biological mother...but with pihu this doesn't go well for me especially because she was brought in this world not to just have one more kid but with the sole purpose of giving ishita something that adi and ruhi couldn't give and can never give in future either...but now apart from the knowledge that ishita is pihu's biological mother there is nothing which is different in pihu.ruhi and adi...they all were given birthed by shagun...they all calls shagun as mamma and ishita as ishima...all of their birth certificate holds shagun and raman's name as their real mother and father...then my question is what was the purpose of a 3rd child if she is no different than the other two children...ishita already had adi and ruhi who treats her as their real mom more than shagun but still raman felt it was not enough and planned a 3rd child behind ishita's back just to give her that extra special feeling which she always craved for...but after witnessing the whole scenario right from shagun carrying the child to giving birth to raising her for more than 8 years and also having shagun's name as mother in the birth certificate of pihu the question will automatically come where is the difference?...since things can't be reversed(i.e giving birth and raising and all other stages in between ) at least ishita should get to be address as mamma/amma which if not all will give her at least something that any lady especially an infertile one craved for all her life...Else pihu will remain just an extra kid in their family who was not really needed and raman's plan to remove ishita's bannjh tag through her will remain more of a failure( though logically it will remain like that no matter what because suroogacy can never remove baanjh tag and especially at least not the way it was shown in the show) ...IMO

Originally posted by: Lacustris

@ramishi 🤗

Everything you said is perfect..

@bold blue that's beauty isn't it? First time someone calling her as mamma..

@bold pink because they are Raman's kids and he doesn't want to share. In fact he shouldn't. But he never felt that way when it came to ishita. Because his kids are not hers so she shouldn't have problem sharing.

CVS introduced a synonym for sauteli ma that's ishima since she is married to Raman she is ishima other wise she is nothing but a nanny who will also be called ishita amma or ishima...Who knows.

We know CVS game by now don't we? They wanted another Sharam child but couldn't bring her.. so went for surrogacy. Despite having two kids and knowing ishita is happy and contended with these two kids what's the need for the third child? That too through Shagun? And did ishita hold the baby, take care of her, raised her? No.. does pihu recognize and call ishita amma?No. Does pihu BC had ishita name as mother along with Raman as father? No.. it's all Shagun..Did Raman even try to build relationship between pihu and ishita? No.. did he even tell pihu to call ishita as amma or anyone from family? No..So for all practical purposes pihu remains Sharan daughter not on the records but thru her addressing of ishima as well and Ishita as a step mother to her own child...

Here we see Mani despite not having his own kids he didn't opt for surrogacy, but Raman despite having two kids decided to cheat her with the third and he succeeded by failing ishita as a mother one more time in a most cruel way.. I can never get rid of the feeling of his betrayal no matter how many goody, goody scenes they show..

Originally posted by: Mdwst

Raji

Loved your reply...@ bold...its hurtful and painful..and you are bang on..

@ red...nope..this hurts even more...he's ok with ishima... he should've asked pihu to address her as amma..at least ..it's the least he can do from his end..but after erasing ishita from pihus life...does it matter or hold any value?...he didn't even acknowledge ishita ...that's where she stands...