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Kaushitaki

@Penkie06

Sparkler

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Posted: 8 years ago

I am being pretty sure that I should no longer make posts in this forum as is the environment concerned. I am an old If member, but never in any forum did I see so much mud slinging on characters, actors and fellow viewers. I came across disturbing posts and comments. I came across people commenting low and mean on each other forgetting that they might be supporting two different characters and rest they don't even know each other well. They are so overboard with emotions that they forget to maintain their own dignity leave aside dignity of characters.

I saw people commenting on the non-beauty of one of the characters forgetting that looks are the last thing you should use as a weapon even though you hate the person for real. This means insulting the actress, the person who is the most beautiful to many who love her, and to many who don't. Just because you hate her, she doesn't become not beautiful.

I am very sorry that I began making posts in this forum. The forum members are so highly attached to the characters or actors that they forget maintaining the minimum ethics of conversation with an almost stranger.

I am done with these cat fights.

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Saranya

@charanyaaj

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

A small request if you dont like the post please just ignore and don't comment and you are free to post your views if anyone instigate ignore don't reply.

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Burns n Trolls

@shahsb_26

Stunner

+ 8

Posted: 8 years ago

Hi,

If you want to stay on the forum you HAVE to support Maya. Thats just one rule to follow. You must never praise Saanjh or any other character which Maya doesn't like. If we follow those rules, we might still survive in the forum. 😆 So far, that's difficult for me, hence I tend to avoid as much as I can and just be here as silent one reading all for entertainment.

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Actomyo

@Actomyo

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

Not meaning to interfere your decision or something, if members with discussion worthy posts quit the forum it kind of boosts the prevalent environment here. Forum of KRPKAB show is a good example where two strongly opposing views members still post and hold the discussion actively in their respective posts.
Opposing views should exist and like minded people can always discuss the show according to their perspective and also with the civilized opposing views, ignoring the insppropriate responses.

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SANJH

@Snowy_Secret

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

actually I m new here I watch the show from beginning but never make any post fearing bashing...each and every post turn out bashing post by both fandoms.I actually love both maya and sanjh so most the time get confused where to comment as most of the post here are targeting both the characters...I hate when people call any character ugly indirectly bashing the actor bcs of looks which disgusting ...

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Khushi_love

@Khushi_love

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

Stay back, if you think you are right.

Satyamev Jayate!!

Edited by ---Khushi--- - 8 years ago

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Kaushitaki

@Penkie06

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

Healthy discussion is not this forum's cup of tea. Because people here take things quite a bit too personally. And as far as being right is concerned, everyone thinks they are. This is the reason of so much chaos, because people come down to cheapness trying to prove that yes they are right.

Edited by Penfolk - 8 years ago

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rosamale

@rosamale

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

Even i belong to that category who avoid posting anything in fear of starting a "bashing avalanche". So i can understand your feeling so thought to reply.

I am not fan of any of the actors in this dram, but yes, i am a fan of their acting. Everyone portrays their role really well. Since it is about Maya's Beyhadh love, everyone is supporting her and demeaning other characters. In real life if there is a person like that, would the same people support that person? What is the difference between that character and a stalker in real life? Everyone is empathetic to her because she has a very sad and bitter past. So in real life, if a guy has the same past and is stalking and obsessing over his lover or wife, would that be acceptable? I dont think so. If Maya is right, then other characters are right from their point of view also. Arjun, eventhough he loved Maya, wants to get away from her because she is obsessing over him and controlling his freedom. Its true that his greed took him where he is today, nonetheless, we should not forget the fact that it was Maya who chased him first. So any sane person in his shoe would do the same. Saanjh on the other hand wants Arjun to be happy now. She was guilt-ridden for years thinking that she is the one who caused Maya to miscarriage. So, if all of a sudden she hears a bad news about him, its really common for her to feel the pain. Afterall she loved him and was with him for nearly 20 years and that's a long time. I dont think that she loves him in that way anymore, so why should we judge her even before we know the truth!!!

Anyways, this show is getting interesting day by day. 😃 With Samay's entry, I feel Maya met her match. 3 years back Maya could fool and lure everyone into her "Mayajaal" because no one was brilliant enough to see through her, but now i think Samay is going to foil her plans. All i hope now is that he wont turn grey and will be with Saanjh.

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Kaushitaki

@Penkie06

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

I really think that from now on every thread should be titled as

Saanjh bashers don't enter.

Maya bashers don't enter.

So that only like minded people talk to each other and remain at peace. Because such arguments are sure to affect our health. No way we should afford to watch a show and fall sick.

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Mini

@iMini

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: Penfolk
I am being pretty sure that I should no longer make posts in this forum as is the environment concerned. I am an old If member, but never in any forum did I see so much mud slinging on characters, actors and fellow viewers. I came across disturbing posts and comments. I came across people commenting low and mean on each other forgetting that they might be supporting two different characters and rest they don't even know each other well. They are so overboard with emotions that they forget to maintain their own dignity leave aside dignity of characters.
I saw people commenting on the non-beauty of one of the characters forgetting that looks are the last thing you should use as a weapon even though you hate the person for real. This means insulting the actress, the person who is the most beautiful to many who love her, and to many who don't. Just because you hate her, she doesn't become not beautiful.

I am very sorry that I began making posts in this forum. The forum members are so highly attached to the characters or actors that they forget maintaining the minimum ethics of conversation with an almost stranger.

I am done with these cat fights.

I know, I was disturbed at the lack of basic manners some of the members of this forum when beyhadh had completed just its 20 episodes. The problem is that this forum lacks moderators. Such members exist on all the forums but they are dealt with by the mods. A separate thread could be formed on chat forums or something if a group of people want to continue discussing the show without having to face the problematic members...

Edited by iMini - 8 years ago

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