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Liana

@Lianaa

Elite

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#31

Hey everyone... :)

I have been quite inactive on this Forum nowadays. Just got time to visit this Forum now but what I have seen was really shocking and heartbreaking.
I know how you all would have felt but do you think "leaving" the forum would solve this Problem? If you think so then please once read this Post..
When you leave the Forum, it will be clear that "those" people have won... because it looks like they only wanted that you all leave this Forum.

Please, don't leave and keep your Posts coming... Just ignore "those" people... Don't give them the attention what they want. Don't reply to them... Don't even read those comments .. Keep on discussing the Show and keep on opening topics .. and keep on doing what you all liked to do like before.

I sooo want to do something that this issue stops.. but I can't do anything. 🥱 I am not mod.. and "many to all" mod's are inactive. 🥱 Just have some patience... Spam Mods with "reporting" the Topics or "PMing them". Atleast 1 Mod would come here... I hope... If I could help, I would definitely help.

-- Violetta.

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matosarah

@matosarah

Dazzler

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: Penfolk
The health of this forum is at stake when posts like " Saanjh should be killed by " are around. If that is the mental stability of people here that they want a character dead just coz she's in love with her best friend, then I should better see no bright future to this forum

I hardly ever write on any forums regarding the serials, but for sure when at leisure I have visited this forum and read some of the comments, I was appalled to say the least. "Saanjh should be killed by" topic made me think if I was watching some completely different show. Actually I was amused when few of them said, on some other topic, they would treat a psychopath/ sociopath like Maya with lot of love. "Lot of love" like seriously... 😆..There would not be any need for psych hospitals or jails if that was the case..Do they even have basic knowledge of what psychopath really is?. Jennifer is mindbogglingly good in this character which is not an easy one to portray. I am just enjoying this show and I hope CVs won't spoil the show by listening to the rambling of few of these viewers and would stick to the theme of the show.

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Kaushitaki

@Penkie06

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

#33

The mindset needs to be changed. A few members cannot ruin the entire forum.

Things have really gone beyhadh out here and more than the show, watching this forum regularly would teach what beyhadhgi is.

Fangurling is fine but nothing to the extremes is tolerable.

Calling someone a psychopath isn't equal to calling someone a sl*t. People need to understand things.

Interpreting a forced sex sequence a rape can be wrong but not worse than mocking a real person of being raped.

People need to understand things. Portraying hatred by calling someone ugly, isn't equal to asking a mentally unstable person take medical help rather than tying onto volatile love.

People here don't know where to stop. How low not to stoop. That is the problem with this forum.

PS : I am not walking out completely coz there already has been a walkout. Everyone shouldn't leave just because of a bunch who can't maintain decorum.

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Jane

@janecastle

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 8 years ago

#34

Nah buddy don't leave the forum just don't make a comment against a character in the post that is made supporting her.

If people are mature enough then they can differentiate between real and reel and act accordingly. The problem here is that some people like to instigate a fight and others take it to the level of personal bashing. If we stop that then this forum is really good.

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Mini

@iMini

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: janecastle
Nah buddy don't leave the forum just don't make a comment against a character in the post that is made supporting her.
If people are mature enough then they can differentiate between real and reel and act accordingly. The problem here is that some people like to instigate a fight and others take it to the level of personal bashing. If we stop that then this forum is really good.

Commenting against the character on a post supporting the character is okay as long as it's a constructive criticism. Without diverse opinions, you couldn't really have a fruitful discussion.

Problems arise when people forget basic etiquettes while discussing and go onto moral Policing.

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Jane

@janecastle

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 8 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: iMini
Commenting against the character on a post supporting the character is okay as long as it's a constructive criticism. Without diverse opinions, you couldn't really have a fruitful discussion.
Problems arise when people forget basic etiquettes while discussing and go onto moral Policing.

That's what I said. Here people don't understand the term "constructive criticism" and go on to bash every character. And all that ends up in personal bashing and name calling. So if people can't act maturely then the only thing we can do is to avoid such posts.

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RainAndRainbow

@RainAndRainbow

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

#37

The standard of this forum is pretty low, so is the mentality of few members here...

Have never posted here before. Just come here sometimes for updates... but the recent scenario of the forum is so pathetic so thought of posting for once... what is surprising is the activeness of Mods!!! Where the heck are they???😕

Personal attack, Degrading actors, unnessesary bashing... this is a hell hole...

How do people take the word rape so easily that to for a fictional show and character????!!!! Sad state of their mentality

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Erika

@roni_berna

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

#38

I can understand how you feel as this is the same how I felt in another forum where the members were abusing the characters (not bashing but using abusive words). They supported rapists and even negative characters and kept abusing positive characters and when I supported the positive character, they started bashing me. I left that place instead of arguing or replying.

I can see that this forum too is turning too negative. Although I support Maya and Arjun but even I don't share the same views as others but no thread has a meaningful discussion going on. It's all attacks and bashing going on which is too sad to see. :(

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Mini

@iMini

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: Penfolk
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The mindset needs to be changed. A few members cannot ruin the entire forum.
Things have really gone beyhadh out here and more than the show, watching this forum regularly would teach what beyhadhgi is.
Fangurling is fine but nothing to the extremes is tolerable.
Calling someone a psychopath isn't equal to calling someone a sl*t. People need to understand things.
Interpreting a forced sex sequence a rape can be wrong but not worse than mocking a real person of being raped.
People need to understand things. Portraying hatred by calling someone ugly, isn't equal to asking a mentally unstable person take medical help rather than tying onto volatile love.
People here don't know where to stop. How low not to stoop. That is the problem with this forum.

PS : I am not walking out completely coz there already has been a walkout. Everyone shouldn't leave just because of a bunch who can't maintain decorum.

Agreed, btw forced sex and rape are synonyms.