Originally posted by: bina40
Maya doesn't love Arjun.Arjun is her obsession. here MAYA sthe so called saint is totlly wrong she is mental patient. she also tried to kill her other. And Vandana is totally right every mother has right to protect her children, If Arjun would be your son and that insane Maya woud be his love interes and if you know the realility what will you do as amother
Maya genuinely loves Arjun. But no one sees that. Vandana only took one point of what the pundit said & believed Ashwin blindly. Is Vandana the only mother in the world or what? There are mothers who accept the son's decision to marry the girl of his choice, whether good or bad. I don't think it is difficult to win Maya's, heart. What does she want at the end of the day? The love which she was deprived of childhood and the protection. She is not asking for more. The second thing is there is a difference between insane and mental illness. If she was insane, she couldn't have been a successful businesswoman. She might be having other issues which are unknown till now. Arjun expected Vandana to give her that motherly love to Maya so she would get the idea of what is true love all about but Vandana has disappointed her son as well.
The mother's other quality is that she will never give up on her children whatever physical or mental problems they might be having. What would Vandana do if she had got a husband like Ashwin and a daughter like Maya? Or what would she do if Saanjh had these problems and Arjun was in love with her? Definitely, her attitude towards Saanjh would be different.
To answer your question, if Arjun was my son and if he is in love with an insane girl according to you, I would find out the cause for her behavior instead of abandoning her. The reason is if any part of your body gets hurt, one would treat that would instead of cutting that part. The other example is if any of the family members is suffering from the mental illness, they would treat the root cause for that sickness instead of throwing that person out. I would have spent time with her and give her the love that she is craving for.
Sorry to say but if Arjun has broken all the ties with Vandana, she has brought it upon herself.