Why has Milind’s family turned blind.... - Page 3

Ryka darling...wonderfu dear👏....and yes..I feel the pain of Milli as much as you do.....😭

But....have to agree....with all that Kit, Pippa...and Opti wrote.....😃

For me...both are at fault.....Prachi as well as Milli.....

Prachi for not trusting ....Milli with the truth...beleiving he woudl be devastated...on finding out the truth about his sister...giving birth to an illegimate child....and slos thinswould effect Baba drasticly....

And Milland is to be blamed ...for listening to...Ayehsa....over his own heart...and not trusting his wife at all...after...her going through so much at his hands...and her doing so mauch...for him and his family.....How could this man not trust her ....and listen adn beleive...Ayesha...and the proofs that he was shown...

We can blame the Shah family....for standing with Prachi and not seeing Millands pain...but I donot agree dear....

And Baba..less said about him the better...never liked this character at all..and find him the most usless person around....😡

Suk..is the core factor for the whole mess...Michi find themselves in...but...Michi are also the reason...Michi...are ...suffering....

And Muneeza do agree...with Opti adn you both on the different way Suk could have handled the situation....

She coudl have when she first found out that she was carrying...could had had the abortion.....

And if that was too difficult for her...morally or religiously.....and she decided t have the child....she needed to tell her Brother...who was laways there fro her...as we all know...Baba was good for nothing...since the beginning ...where his children were concerned....

Suk...handled...the whole Baby thing...very very badly...where the child was never really a priority...

Thats what I hate...the child...is no ones concern....be it Suk the mother...o his aunt....

Originally posted by: kubare

And Muneeza do agree...with Opti adn you both on the different way Suk could have handled the situation....

She coudl have when she first found out that she was carrying...could had had the abortion.....

And if that was too difficult for her...morally or religiously.....and she decided t have the child....she needed to tell her Brother...who was laways there fro her...as we all know...Baba was good for nothing...since the beginning ...where his children were concerned....

Suk...handled...the whole Baby thing...very very badly...where the child was never really a priority...

Thats what I hate...the child...is no ones concern....be it Suk the mother...o his aunt....

Exactly what I want to implement her Krishi if she was not able to protect it and provide a home for it why bring the poor child in this world. And yes if she did give it birth then she should've owned him up atleast told Milind about his existence. Opti I certainly don't think that farce of a marraige was believable still given that she considered it a marraige shouldn't she have informed their families about their marraige before sleeping with him voluntarily? Did she marry him for the sole reason of having sex? Sounds rather impractical to me and she surely wasn't sweet 16 when she supposedly tied the kot with him.

Ryka the reason i feel Milind's family is being completely oblivious to his pain and suffering is because they feel that Prachi is suffering even more than he is...Both Baba and Sukriti believe-the latter even knows for sure that Ritwik is not Prachi's baby and she is being misunderstood by him...Moreover Milind always gives vent to his feelings, whereas Prachi tolerates all his atrocities on her without even uttering a word or even trying to retaliate..So according to Baba and Sukriti Prachi is a mahaan devi and Milind is just being unreasonable! 😡
I want to tell the two of them that they are being highly unreasonable by overlooking Milind's pain!

Fantastic post Ryka..Enjoyed reading all the replies verymuch too..

I for one feel horrible for Milind.If I have to choose b/w shah family and his biological father,lets just say he wasnt born to such a man.

And Prachi.Im still confused about her priorities and not pleased one bit.

Originally posted by: optimist

Muneeza, I cannot agree with you on the abortion issue. Life is a life, early stages or not. Amd to giving in to the pleasures of the flesh, she did think she was married to him did'nt she? She was foolish to trust him but she certainly did not sleep around. So let us not throw the baby with the bath water.

I would'nt blame her too much for what happened with Alaap or even giving birth to Ritwik. But the follow up to that 'bold' decision is really pathetic to say the least.

I had watched a Tamil film long back. In that the heroine has a baby out of wed lock. She leaves her in an orphanage but keeps visiting that child. Later she meets a man who falls in love with her. She tells him of her past and she can marry him only if she can raise her child. He agrees to it since he really loves her. They get married and they come to the orphanag to adopt the girl. Unfortunately the baby is adopted by a childless couple (they would have lost their daughter). The child gets attached to the new family after some time. The biological mother in the meantime gets crazy and her husband desperately hunts down the family whom adopted the baby and begs for the child. After they come to know the truth, they let go of the baby. The story was very moving. But what I wanted to say was that she could have still attoned for her mistakes if only she had told Saket that she will agree to the marriage only if he was agreeable to accept the baby.

That is Raghuvaran & Suhasini movie na? That was a heartwrenching movie😭Esp Suhasini's plight to accept the kid and later disown her... and Raghuvaran proved... he is a class apart😃

Yes, Ryka. That was 'Bommukutti Ammavukku'. It was actually a remake of a Malayalam movie by Fazil. All the actors played their parts well but as you said Suhasini and Raghuvaran stood out. It was really heartwrenching to see Suhasini because initially she did not want the girl since she felt it would betray the memory of her dead daughter. After she got attached to the child she was forced to let go.

Opti I certainly don't think that farce of a marraige was believable still given that she considered it a marraige shouldn't she have informed their families about their marraige before sleeping with him voluntarily? Did she marry him for the sole reason of having sex? Sounds rather impractical to me and she surely wasn't sweet 16 when she supposedly tied the kot with him.

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Muneeza, if she had enough guts to inform her family after the marriage, then why marry secretly? As to sleeping with him, she must have thought that is what married couples do, which is true. Not every one waits for eight months to take their relationship to the next level like Michi. Moreover, she was in love with the guy. So if she thought she was also married to him, then what is to stop her from sleeping with him? She may not have married him for the sole reason for doing so but that is also an important part of the marriage is, it?

And yes, she is not sweet sixteen. But she is shown to be quite immature and thoroughly pampered by Milsi. She, therefore, never understood the meaning of assuming responsibility. Now one's maturity is not determined by age but by the circumstances in which one is brought up in. Since she always had Milsi picking up her pieces, she did'nt care what she was doing. This is why I am angry with her. Knowing her brother's ability to take care of things why did she not confide in him?

oh I do remember that movie 😭 😭 ...south indian movies are a class apart and narrate a story so sincerely 👏 👏 ....

coming back to the brilliant track in this whole scenario i have nothing against the shah family for the simple reason that i never expect them to take a stand on anything for that matter.

Somehow I have never understood prachi's stand abt her own family...according to me however you love someone but not more than your own parents.Fine what her father did was wrong ,and did come out in the open but why is she punishing her mother ...it is punishment when a mother is questioned abt her daughter's character ..her upbringing no daughter will keep quite...whereas it took sometime for prachi to react....the moment she uttered the fateful words that ritwik is her child her parents have been deemed improper.....and she goes through that 😡 Her brother Alaap is sitting in the court believes the truth to be otherwise yet lets a good for nothing vakil tarnish his family including his sister in the court.That itself was a mockery of relationships they flaunt abt.


as for baba..he is one man i would not thrust on my enemy too....he could not be a good father nor a father in law.He knows the part of truth and as he claims to believe in inder saab's daughter shld'nt he put an end to this misery...nooo..he will go flaunting his right as the biological father of milind.for a parent nothing is bigger than their child ,his pain....but for the great baba nothing is bigger than loyalty to inder saab.

it is sickening to see how the creatives have one track mind where they ignore all the other emotions,hence land up having nothing better to show as the next track.

I think baba and that dadi shld be send to some teerth yatra after this track and let them keep on discussing stuff there rather than taking a stand on anything.