Why has Milind’s family turned blind....

...to Milind and his pain? 😕

Milind asked Prachi on the beach 'Samajke kya raka hai tumne mereko?' Which is precisely what I want to ask Prachi and most importantly the Shah Family, Baba, Sukruti. What do they think Milind is? The sheer insensitivity that they have displayed towards Milind in the current scenario has me hoping mad😡. I was mad at them even before... but thought they cared for him... but nope, they care about this because their daughter cant live without Milind.

Coming to Prachi... She tolerated all this mess and confidently may i add because she knew Milind isnt going anywhere away from her. She was fine with the status of her relationship...no matter how traumatic it was, because Milind was there. Then the day before the hearing Sukruti throws some hard facts at her...the fact that Milind isnt going to be around from 2row... Prachi lost all her resolve. Those few hours... the very thought of a life without Milind broke her... she couldnt tolerate that pain... so off she went to find Milind and tell him a half baked truth and tell him 'I cant live without you, I love you... dont go through this divorce'(I love the fact that this girl gets selfish when it comes to Milind...because that places Milind in a different place in her life) But I would like to ask her honey, did you even realise the pain that you couldnt bear for the last few hours... Milind is living with that pain for the last 2 months? Atleast you have know the integrity of your relationship, know that the love you share is divine, the moments that was spent are pure... your memories are never marred and more importantly you had the unconditional support of your family and Milind's. But that guy had to live with the belief that all was farce and that he had to pay for your 'meherbanis' in this fashion. He has a problem even hugging a snap that was a beautiful memory for him. He has sufferred two months with the same pain, same intensity...but with the feeling that he is feeling all this for a relationship that wasnt for real and with no one who can unerstand him, forget supporting him. Do you even realise Prachi...what it would have done to that guy? A guy who told you he cant bear a broken heart 2nd time around, a guy who told you he is scared that fate will play its games and he will be left with nothing? Did Prachi ever think of what she had done to him and doing to him? And this shattered state came across Prachi...not once but many times.... why didnt she relent and ease the guy's pain? She undoubtedly suffered during those days...but that was due to Milind's coldness towards her... not because her relationship had broken.

One fine day she realises what she is about to lose and she wont let it happen and was ready to contest Milind in court rather than let him walk away. Didnt the magnitude hit her when Milind and Neev had reached dangerous heights(or lows) due to this? Milind was destroying himself right in front of her eyes... she still held her ground...but one fine afternoon wisdom dawned on her and she ran to Milind. Milind was exactly right when he asked her 'Kyun? Aaj tereko tere ristey ka kayal aaya hai?' 😭 Before that...everything else was a priority, Sukruti's raaz, SS's marriage, Baba's health, Milind's reaction... she was bothered about everything related to Milind, but Milind himself

But more than Prachi, I am bugged with the Shah family, Baba and Sukruti. Why are they baised? I hated the casual way in which they treated Milind's heartbreak... it was all about Milind's Gussa, his Galathfemi, Zidd, kissi ki buri nazar. They thought Milind gussa will go away if Prachi served him juice, they thought Milind's galathfemi will vanish with time, and Baba gives ultimatums to break his 'Zidd' and PL comes up with a havan to ward away the Buri Nazar. What the hell😡 Gussa, Galathfemi, Zidd are the words they associate with Milind's heartbreak and Pain...How insensitive can that get😡? And God knows what on earth Sukruti meant by calling and asking Prachi 'Bhaiya ki saari narazgi dur hogayi hogi'😕 No sweety, Your Bhaiya lost it more than ever before😡 If they had only accessed the pain Milind was going through... they would have made their Beti/Bahu/Bhabhi break her silence to Milind. No, they try... Prachi is stubborn... and they are fine... reason? Prachi must have a reason.... she cant be questioned. If that is their take, if they place Prachi's reasons over the marriage... then they have no right to expect Milind to go by their stand to save the marriage😡. And then they realise Prachi doesnt want to let go of Milind and they have accepted Prachi's silence... they immediately seek legal options😡 I dont understand why they cant see that Milind is suffering too... he has been in pain from day one... but they dont see that his pain is laced in anger... they see only anger. I dont understand how they turned blind to him, esp when he hasnt let his relationship with Prachi affect them. He still considers them as his own... the way he treated them should have been proof of how much his relationship with Prachi matters to him... that even after things have gone terribly wrong between him and Prachi... he honours relationships he got through Prachi. But no... that family doesnt see it... all they see is 'Prachi, Milind ke bina kaise rahegi?' Milind is some toy or something?😡 Arre, Milind ka kya? If he isnt worth that much consideration...then why do you want him for your daughter?

Ayesha, talking to you...is like talking to a wall. May be someday you will have heart in you to answer how you could push a man you claimed to love into a lifetime of pain😡

I am not denying that Milind has been wrong at times and the way he is dealt with it... He has and I admit it. All I am asking is why the magnitude of his pain not being acknowledged😡? In all this... all Milind did was to suffer and when he vented out his frustration... there was a brigade to take him on and silence him... they turn and hold his anger(which is pain actually) against him. At the end of this mess... they are going to make look him like the villain...They will blame Milind for Inder's name being dragged in court... but they wont realise that if the honour of Inder Shah's name & legacy was restored back after his reputation & business was thrashed...it was Milind Mishra who did it, not Inder's children😡 and this Duffer will consider himself to be one villain😡 And will give out an uncondtitional apology... and that is not going to solve matters... he will take up moral responsibility of this mess his wife and sister created and go on to settle it...and be answerable to everyone who questions him. For all that this guy has gone through and going through... if not an apology... the guy better be given an explanation... Itna haq to banta hai uska.... Please creatives dont dilute Milind's suffering for the last 2 months by letting him go without an explanation. And beta, you dont ask for an explanation... you are so dead😡 because you may forget how tortured you felt... I havent... so u better demand an explanation... and after that... You can go ahead with your apology... you have a long list & a long way to go before you clear this mess😕.

Originally posted by: Ryka

...to Milind and his pain? 😕

Milind asked Prachi on the beach 'Samajke kya raka hai tumne mereko?' Which is precisely what I want to ask Prachi and most importantly the Shah Family, Baba, Sukruti. What do they think Milind is? The sheer insensitivity that they have displayed towards Milind in the current scenario has me hoping mad😡. I was mad at them even before... but thought they cared for him... but nope, they care about this because their daughter cant live without Milind.

Coming to Prachi... She tolerated all this mess and confidently may i add because she knew Milind isnt going anywhere away from her. She was fine with the status of her relationship...no matter how traumatic it was, because Milind was there. Then the day before the hearing Sukruti throws some hard facts at her...the fact that Milind isnt going to be around from 2row... Prachi lost all her resolve. Those few hours... the very thought of a life without Milind broke her... she couldnt tolerate that pain... so off she went to find Milind and tell him a half baked truth and tell him 'I cant live without you, I love you... dont go through this divorce'(I love the fact that this girl gets selfish when it comes to Milind...because that places Milind in a different place in her life) But I would like to ask her honey, did you even realise the pain that you couldnt bear for the last few hours... Milind is living with that pain for the last 2 months? Atleast you have know the integrity of your relationship, know that the love you share is divine, the moments that was spent are pure... your memories are never marred and more importantly you had the unconditional support of your family and Milind's. But that guy had to live with the belief that all was farce and that he had to pay for your 'meherbanis' in this fashion. He has a problem even hugging a snap that was a beautiful memory for him. He has sufferred two months with the same pain, same intensity...but with the feeling that he is feeling all this for a relationship that wasnt for real and with no one who can unerstand him, forget supporting him. Do you even realise Prachi...what it would have done to that guy? A guy who told you he cant bear a broken heart 2nd time around, a guy who told you he is scared that fate will play its games and he will be left with nothing? Did Prachi ever think of what she had done to him and doing to him? And this shattered state came across Prachi...not once but many times.... why didnt she relent and ease the guy's pain? She undoubtedly suffered during those days...but that was due to Milind's coldness towards her... not because her relationship had broken.

One fine day she realises what she is about to lose and she wont let it happen and was ready to contest Milind in court rather than let him walk away. Didnt the magnitude hit her when Milind and Neev had reached dangerous heights(or lows) due to this? Milind was destroying himself right in front of her eyes... she still held her ground...but one fine afternoon wisdom dawned on her and she ran to Milind. Milind was exactly right when he asked her 'Kyun? Aaj tereko tere ristey ka kayal aaya hai?' 😭 Before that...everything else was a priority, Sukruti's raaz, SS's marriage, Baba's health, Milind's reaction... she was bothered about everything related to Milind, but Milind himself

But more than Prachi, I am bugged with the Shah family, Baba and Sukruti. Why are they baised? I hated the casual way in which they treated Milind's heartbreak... it was all about Milind's Gussa, his Galathfemi, Zidd, kissi ki buri nazar. They thought Milind gussa will go away if Prachi served him juice, they thought Milind's galathfemi will vanish with time, and Baba gives ultimatums to break his 'Zidd' and PL comes up with a havan to ward away the Buri Nazar. What the hell😡 Gussa, Galathfemi, Zidd are the words they associate with Milind's heartbreak and Pain...How insensitive can that get😡? And God knows what on earth Sukruti meant by calling and asking Prachi 'Bhaiya ki saari narazgi dur hogayi hogi'😕 No sweety, Your Bhaiya lost it more than ever before😡 If they had only accessed the pain Milind was going through... they would have made their Beti/Bahu/Bhabhi break her silence to Milind. No, they try... Prachi is stubborn... and they are fine... reason? Prachi must have a reason.... she cant be questioned. If that is their take, if they place Prachi's reasons over the marriage... then they have no right to expect Milind to go by their stand to save the marriage😡. And then they realise Prachi doesnt want to let go of Milind and they have accepted Prachi's silence... they immediately seek legal options😡 I dont understand why they cant see that Milind is suffering too... he has been in pain from day one... but they dont see that his pain is laced in anger... they see only anger. I dont understand how they turned blind to him, esp when he hasnt let his relationship with Prachi affect them. He still considers them as his own... the way he treated them should have been proof of how much his relationship with Prachi matters to him... that even after things have gone terribly wrong between him and Prachi... he honours relationships he got through Prachi. But no... that family doesnt see it... all they see is 'Prachi, Milind ke bina kaise rahegi?' Milind is some toy or something?😡 Arre, Milind ka kya? If he isnt worth that much consideration...then why do you want him for your daughter?

Ayesha, talking to you...is like talking to a wall. May be someday you will have heart in you to answer how you could push a man you claimed to love into a lifetime of pain😡

I am not denying that Milind has been wrong at times and the way he is dealt with it... He has and I admit it. All I am asking is why the magnitude of his pain not being acknowledged😡? In all this... all Milind did was to suffer and when he vented out his frustration... there was a brigade to take him on and silence him... they turn and hold his anger(which is pain actually) against him. At the end of this mess... they are going to make look like the villian...They will blame Milind for Inder's name being dragged in court... but they wont realise that if the honour of Inder Shah's name & legacy was restored back after his reputation & business was thrashed...it was Milind Mishra who did it, not Inder's children😡 and this Duffer will consider himself to be one villian😡 And will give out an uncondtitional apology... and that is not going to solve matters... he will take up moral responsibility of this mess his wife and sister created and go on to settle it...and be answerable to everyone who questions him. For all that this guy has gone through and going through... if not an apology... the guy better be given an explanation... Itna haq to banta hai uska.... Please creatives dont dilute Milind's suffering for the last 2 months by letting him go without an explanation. And beta, you dont ask for an explanation... you are so dead😡 because you may forget how tortured you felt... I havent... so u better demand an explanation... and after that... You can go ahead with your apology... you have a long list & a long way to go before you clear this mess😕.

wow👏good job and well don babe👏as for his family I guess they r,and u Sukriti if at all that stupid divorce should happen befor u get there then u r dead man,because I am so gonna kill u,u stupid girl😡😡if u so love urself u better get there fast and stop it.

ohhh my.... ryka... inhale and breath out... yaar all that emotion you have kept inside is coming out with mils tears....

wonderfull post...
will be back....

Ryka dear,vey well written. 👏 .More than anyone else I am mad at Baba and Suk. 😡 😡 😡 .THis Baba,is always worried about his daughter-in-law.And the moment he gets a chance he keeps talking about how indebted they are to Inder Shah and family. 😡 I mean where does Inder come into the picture in this mess that his darling DIL created for herselves,did I miss something? 😕 Now Suk,she is the most selfish person to have inhabited the face of the earth until now.She goes 'Bhabhi,bhabhi' all the time without even caring for the person who brought her up like a father. 😡.ANd let me not get to Prachi,my BP increases ten folds the moment i start thinking about her. 😡 😡 😡

Once again dear 👏 👏 👏

hmm no offence ryka,

but if you look around, Milsi has ayesha taking all his imp decisions for him, I mean he is treating her like a family, would you blame others for trusting Prachi more than Him ?

Regards

Anju

Partially agree with you, but Prachi too has suffered a lot early on in their marriage, what with him badgering her with silly accusations....I still recall her words, "Kya Hua? Bura Laga Ki Aaj Maine Aapke Saamne Mooh Khola? Sochiye Ki Mujhe Kitna Bura Lagta Hoga Jab Aap Mujhse Aisi Baatein Kartein Hain? Chubta Hai MIlind!" 😭

When Milind was harsh with her then, no one sprang to Prachi's defence, and instead people found excuses to explain his behavior...to date, people find excuses for his drinking and bullying...I can also say that it's because of HER upbringing that she kept that secret from him; she was afraid that Baba might die of shock knowing that his little girl has an illegitimate child, and therefore put her marriage at stake to ensure someone else's KHUSHI!

I can totally understand her decision, just like you totally understand Milind's pain (I understand his pain too, but there are too few supporters of Prachi, and hence I am biased towards her! 😆 )

More importantly, as long as he lets Ayesha rule his life (I STILL WILL NOT FORGIVE HIM FOR STANDING BACK AS THAT WITCH DRAGGED MY ANGEL OUT OF THE HOUSE), he has NO RIGHT to question her friendship or SUSPECT NEECHI of anything!

PRACHI SHAH was responsible for his dad getting back to him; PRACHI SHAH was responsible for saving his business when investors backed out of a deal long time ago; PRACHI SHAH was responsible for saving his family honor by preventing his sister from eloping...PRACHI SHAH has withstood his tantrums and abuses without a whisper, and he is STUPID to doubt such a lady time and again....... 😡

Ok, Milind is cool too, but as long as he lets Ayesha run his life, I wouldn't feel as bad for him as most of you do!

😆

Ryks - I still love ya!!!!!!!!! 😳

One more thing, just because PRachi knew that she was innocent doesn't make her sufferings insignificant. In fact, it makes her a very strong person! How mentally strong must a woman be to let go of her love for no fault of hers? Ok, she is STUPIDLY courageous, but courageous she definitely is!

He vented out his pain through his drinking and anger. On the contrary, she had to conceal her pain and assume the role of a horrible woman just so someone else is happy, which is a LOT harder

Ryka,
I know I sound mundane and obvious, but Prachi's attempt at the beach to reunite is truly out of character and was shown only because of the change of track. Otherwise, u can bet on it she would have quietly given him that divorce even if it killed her.

It's not possible for her to suddenly wake up to the fact that she'll lose him forever after the divorce. That knowledge was there all the time and she accepted it along with all the other truths in her life like a bitter pill.

I have to agree with krangra that she is suffering as much as Milind and more so as she knows she's not what Mils thinks she is but is unable to tell him so. To bear that kind of pain in silence is very difficult.

Having said that, I don't undermine Mils's pain. He's is heartbroken and angry. And he has every right to be angry with Prachi for putting their relationship secondary. But that's the kind of person she is.

As far as she is concerned, she and Mils are one in body and spirit. She can't seem them as individuals. When she took her stance she did it for a noble reason as she has always done...lived for others. She doesn't consider Milind as another being. He's a complete and absolute part of her.That's why she didn't think of how this would affect him as an individual.

As for the reason why it looks as though the Shah family seems insensitive to Mils, it is coz they know it is useless to convince him abt prachi as he'll think they are biased.

I agree with u wholeheartedly about his dad though. That old coot could have mitigated the intensity of his pain by convincing him that he knows for a fact that Prachi is innocent. However, Mils is so suspicious now that he would think that's Prachi talking via dad.And most of his suspicions took root thanks to Ayesha.

Here, I have to agree with krangara again when she says that as along as he allows Ayesha to influence him he's a lost cause. He does come across as kaan ka kachha whenever she tells him anything related to prachi.

Everytime he listens to her, everytime he allows her to make free with his bedroom, everytime he allows her to creep up to him and touch him(the study room incident for eg,) everytime he looks the other way when she drags his wife out of the house(ok she did that only once), everytime she's nasty about his wife is one more nail on the coffin of MP relationship.

The question i am asking in this post... is just on Milind's pain.... I am not discussing reasons nor I am talking who trusts whom better... it is a complete different story... and discussed in detail.

I am not saying Prachi has not suffered... but what has she suffered due to? The fact that her husband is mad at her, refuses to see her point... it was with Sukruti's outburst that Prachi realised the magnitude of the situation... and she broke. Wasnt there a difference between Prachi's sufferring all these days and the suffering she going through after Sukruti's outburst? What I am saying is Milind broke 2 months ago because for him it wasnt about being angry with her... it was about the very basis of their relationship being bashed and broken... and Milind has suffered what Prachi has suffered for those few hours for 2 months now.

He might be under misunderstanding and the reason he is feeling shattered may be false... but the pain & the suffering he has gone through isnt false.... he suffered for real.

As far as the family goes... they dont treat Milind's condition as a heartbreak... they think it is his anger, his misunderstanding, his stubborness.... that is how trivial they think Milind's suffering is... While Prachi's tear are out of pain and suffering. What kind of justice is that? Ther reason why Milind feels they are baised, is because they are baised.... how does 'tumhe pasand ho na ho... yeh rista tumhe nibana padega' sound?

And coming to Ayesha, I think everyone around is giving her more credit than necessary. We all know how Milind's emotions works when it comes to Prachi... they are beyond everyone, they are beyond himself... you think an outsider can have a say in that? No... the only one who influences Milind when it comes to Prachi is Prachi alone.... if it wasnt that way, why does Ayesha's plans fail everytime? For me, if Milind acts on something... he acts on his OWN irrespective of what lead him to that decision... the minute he makes a decision, it is his... I will pull him up and only him for his actions and decsions... I am not going to find excuses for them by saying Ayesha made them for him. I will do that, because Milind himself will do that... what he does, he takes full responsibility for that... he isnt going to go and hide behind anyone and find excuses... and the fact that Milind believes that he has a control of his decisions... and he knows he is making those... it is enough for me, because Milind taking responsibility is all that matters to me... You ask Milind whose decisions they are... without a wasting a moment he will say Mine. How often has one seen Milind replaying Ayesha's words when he is making a decision... It is always Prachi and only Prachi. I think we are giving Ayesha far too much credit... she wont give it to herself... if she did she wont be so insecure😆

Ryka maybe Milind's pain was designed only for the viewers eyes (as all characters are blind/dumb etc). Or maybe the show is executing this belief that men simply can't feel pain as much as women 🤢. Anyway since for some strange reasons the story is going to punish Milind in all ways as clearly as the sun rising in the East, it's only obvious that they would put no one but Ayesha in his defence (not that she's really defending him). A lone hurt wolf, our Milind 😭