Vandhana deserves it

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Vandhana deserves it... She losed arjun by herself only... She didn't accepted Maya it's OK arjun did not have any problem for that but she always insulted Maya in front of arjun which irritated arjun... And one more thing Maya is the only child of jhanvi so Maya is not only daughter but also has a son duty to her mother (if parents don't have male child daughter should fulfill son's duty) so Maya should take care of her ill mother then why you didn't accepted it... And one more thing vandhana has two sons If one son left her she has aayaan to take care of her... Iam feeling sorry for vandhana but to avoid clashes between everyone it is better Maya and arjun live away from vandhana ...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree with you. If Vandana is losing Arjun, it is because of her stubbornness, not to accept Maya. Arjun had not given the rights of a mother to Panda even before Maya had entered his life. When Maya had shared about her past to Arjun, that was the time he realized his mistake and decided to give a chance to her but this fatso does not deserve it. If Arjun's real mother was alive, she would have at least made an effort to show the right path to Maya. That is what she needs in her life.
Edited by katrinasalman - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: katrinasalman

I agree with you. If Vandana is losing Arjun, it is because of her stubbornness to accept Maya.arjun had not given the rights of a mother to Panda even before Maya had entered his life. When Maya had shared about her past to Arjun, that was the time he realized his mistake and decided to give a chance to her but this fatso does not deserve it. If Arjun's real mother was alive, she would have at least made an effort to show the right path to Maya. That is what she needs in her life.

so true and Maya didn't said me and arjun will stay in my mother's house ...but she asked I'll bring my ill mother what's wrong in it... How can maya left her ill mother alone just cuz she is married now... Maya tried to be a good bahu and a daughter but vandhana didn't accepted Maya...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I totally agree with you

Vandana is judging the book by its cover
She didn't even try to look inside and get to know the real Maya that is willing to die for her loved ones...

Now that vandana isn't ready to accept Maya, she shouldn't be surprised when her son decides to choose his wife over his mother. At this point the mother is wrong for not even giving a chance to Maya
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ishakumar

I totally agree with you

Vandana is judging the book by its cover
She didn't even try to look inside and get to know the real Maya that is willing to die for her loved ones...

Now that vandana isn't ready to accept Maya, she shouldn't be surprised when her son decides to choose his wife over his mother. At this point the mother is wrong for not even giving a chance to Maya


Arjun had high expectations towards Panda. He told Maya to call her mom with good faith that Maya will be fine if Vandana gives her motherly love but she has disappointed him.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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While I can see Maya is manipulating the situation in her favor, this whole sorry saga started coz Vandana didnt even want to give Maya a chance. See how Maya acts with Saanjh now? She accepted Maya, so Maya has started to be nice to her. If Vandana had at least tried to be nice to Maya, she would probably have never tried to get between her and Arjun.

But Vandana is so stupid to "cross" a woman like Maya. If as she says she can "see what Maya is doing". Then ALL the more reason to play her game and even pretend like she is accepting her. Get her on your side, and then see what she will do next! The way Vandana behaved, no one was on her side. Arjun, Ayaan and Saanjh are all fed up of her constant rants and her attitude. Can she NOT see this is not working?


Maya is miles ahead of Vandana and she has done a huge mistake in not realising her behavior was only going to make HER loose in the end. Not Maya. As soon as Arjun said he will take Jhanvi home, I KNEW Vandana will say No, and it will lead to Arjun-Maya leaving the house. (which is what Maya wants anyway). Because her attempt at living as the good daughter in law was not going to happen, so why not take Arjun and clear out? After this, Arjun will be totally in Maya's world! This is what she wanted and the main reason she "Got" it was coz of Vandana's short-sighted stupidity! She totally asked for it. I feel bad for her too, but she brought this on herself!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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By the time show ends it will be breaking all the stereotypes and trends happening in other shows. Right from romance to marriage - families, its always a step forward. I didn't really came across a show where husband takes this much side of his wife. Lets not take the example of step son because he has given the respect more like real son. I don't feel an ounce of sympathy for Vandana not because I am favoring Maya but she has crosses limits of humanity in name of mother concern. Her dialogue of her house clearly shows she is taking rights of her sons let alone DIL. If she has given 15 years then her son's have lived their childhood in that house and it is first Arjun's moms' right on him. He was right in the beginning Vandana is snatching place of his mom 😕. Wonder if situation would be different if Arjun's dad was alive. I have gut feeling curtains are not raised on Arjun's past which Vandana has been hiding. If people call Vandana's action of insulting an ill woman as mother concern then I don't have words for them.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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She is a stupid woman who is getting entangled in her stupid way of dealing with things.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashpat3

By the time show ends it will be breaking all the stereotypes and trends happening in other shows. Right from romance to marriage - families, its always a step forward. I didn't really came across a show where husband takes this much side of his wife. Lets not take the example of step son because he has given the respect more like real son. I don't feel an ounce of sympathy for Vandana not because I am favoring Maya but she has crosses limits of humanity in name of mother concern. Her dialogue of her house clearly shows she is taking rights of her sons let alone DIL. If she has given 15 years then her son's have lived their childhood in that house and it is first Arjun's moms' right on him. He was right in the beginning Vandana is snatching place of his mom 😕. Wonder if situation would be different if Arjun's dad was alive. I have gut feeling curtains are not raised on Arjun's past which Vandana has been hiding. If people call Vandana's action of insulting an ill woman as mother concern then I don't have words for them.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

While I can see Maya is manipulating the situation in her favor, this whole sorry saga started coz Vandana didnt even want to give Maya a chance. See how Maya acts with Saanjh now? She accepted Maya, so Maya has started to be nice to her. If Vandana had at least tried to be nice to Maya, she would probably have never tried to get between her and Arjun.[BR][DIV][BR][DIV]But Vandana is so stupid to "cross" a woman like Maya. If as she says she can "see what Maya is doing". Then ALL the more reason to play her game and even pretend like she is accepting her. Get her on your side, and then see what she will do next! The way Vandana behaved, no one was on her side. Arjun, Ayaan and Saanjh are all fed up of her constant rants and her attitude. Can she NOT see this is not working?[/DIV][BR][BR][DIV][B]Maya is miles ahead of Vandana and she has done a huge mistake in not realising her behavior was only going to make HER loose in the end. Not Maya. As soon as Arjun said he will take Jhanvi home, I KNEW Vandana will say No, and it will lead to Arjun-Maya leaving the house. (which is what Maya wants anyway). Because her attempt at living as the good daughter in law was not going to happen, so why not take Arjun and clear out? After this, Arjun will be totally in Maya's world! This is what she wanted and the main reason she "Got" it was coz of Vandana's short-sighted stupidity! She totally asked for it. I feel bad for her too, but she brought this on herself![/B][/DIV]
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@bold very true. Agree with you. It all happened because of vandana's irritating behaviour. Maya is very clever she also hinted dont make me to do things in my way. But vandana is not smart enough to understand maya.

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