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Shivaay has come a long way in the last 200 episodes. From Hate chemistry to Hot chemistry 😆☺️😆
So, has Shivaay fallen in Love? Absolutely - Haan Haan hamare Billu ko pyaar hogaya hai! So, is he on the verge of Confessing his feelings? Maybe Yes or Maybe No! So, Is this the end? Definitely a NO!
Shivaay has fallen in love, He Is now the Ishqbaaaz Under-construction, but, He hasn't started the Journey of Love yet. Not even near to it. It's a long way to go, with many painful twists coming, we will hate him only to love him later.
As I had mentioned in my previous post, that Shivaay has to understand what love is, he has to know what this "Ehsaas" and "Jasbaath" he talks about is nothing but the shades of Love. He has to understand "Pyaar" to Realize that he is in love.
exactly ! pehle khud se toh confess karley ye😛 ...he is still not sure that is it love or an attachment ...and how can he declare something he himself is not clear about😳
At the end of the current track - Even if Shivaay completes his sentence that "...Kyuki main tumse Pyaar karta hoon" it will be an empty confession. Because Shivaay has never attended love classes with concentration 😆 he has always seen Love in movies and books to be colourful and cheesy and painful and weak and supernatural and surperstitious and odd but he has not been through to it not felt it deep to understand what love actually is. Being a businessman , the man with brain and power for him anything that the heart wants is a must to his property. Maan kiya is deal ko crack karu- lo kar liya, Maan kiya Rudra ko latest car dedu - lo dediya, etc etc.Shivaay has never seen Love in it's pure form. Nobody whom he will idealize to learn from, what real happiness is, what pure love is. Right from the childhood he has seen only two relationships - 1) Dead marriage and 2) Compromised and Adjusted marriage and Only helplessness and failure in the eyes of weak people. Not one relationship he can look up to and smile and be happy about staying with it. Everybody in his family and in his world has only ONE SINGLE ATTITURE COMMON that is SELFISHNESS. Every member of his family has been selfish for their own reasons and people he meets outside his business world is nothing but built and grown on characteristics of "selfishness". And thus Mr. Shivaay Singh Oberoi has mastered this Selfish Attitude and what made him grown with it is the immense power and resources and never to lose confidence.
this man never believed in love...due to his upbringing and the circumstances he faced or saw wile growing up his belief and logic got twisted...the relationships of senior oberoys" affected him so much that he was forced to believe it firmly that " har ristey ki buniyad hoti hain ..naam ,paisa...power " ... so how he is is not totally his fault may be...
So, Even if Shivaay confesses or not, his love is nothing but "Selfish". For his own satisfaction, happiness, his own peace and completeness. Shivaay's love for Annika DOES NOT include Annika Only. His love for her, is all about himself.
That is why he is so heartless in hurting her and breaking her, because all he cares is - she will NEED HIM in the end and Therefore he GETS HER BACK regardless of what she went through. Annika is more like a challenge from him - right from the start. For a man like Shivaay who has never seen a powerful woman in his whole existence - comes across Annika who is independent + needs no support to live her life and even enjoy, who fights back and stands for herself and voices out her point of view - Alone but still always perfect and correct. Such powerful woman became his challenge. Being MCP being challenged by her made him mad, but her being a No one and still perfect than all women he knows made him obsessed about her. So it is his obsession to RULE her, To HAVE her, to KEEP something so precious and exclusive piece all to himself. And to do that he used what he did to rule the world, BREAK AND TAKE. He knows he is tying a woman he will never be able to fight back- because she is an alien to his world and absolute perfection - beauty with brains and power too, rarest combo. So, he breaks her into pieces, weakening every bit just to gather the broken pieces and keep it SAFE with himself. He is Coward if you ask me. He uses his brain to cage her, not his heart. And so his attraction became obsession. Her goodness did melt him but ignited the obsession to only increase more and now he LOVES HIS OBSESSION.
definitely...his love( ! ) at present is an obsession...something like drug-addicts feel for their fav drug ... his feeling is everything to him...it is always how he feels...he want her for his own only...and moreover he loves to imagine that annika too is or should be obsessed with him ...he can't tolerate the fact tht annika hav right to give priority to anyone she may likes...even if it costs his own family ... but in this whole scene there is no sign of " what is annika's feeling or what annika really want..." ...and he never tried to find tht out really ...he has taken her for granted ...his very personal property...whom he can use anyway he likes...but this right is restricted to him only...no one can say anything about it...not even annika...let alone annika's heart he is still trying to cope up with her mind ... in this relationship he acts as a judge ,where his words are the last words...he needs annika ...no matter what and how to do tht ...tht is the final judgement...rest the argument😆
He doesn't like her tears - but does he ever act on reasons which brings those tears to her? He wants to see her happy with him - how and why? He is not bothered. His only one track mind is - Annika mere saath yahi rahegi- End.
About his NKK - NO HE WON'T let her GO due to his NKK beliefs. NEVER. He will keep her to himself at home- tied and caged (very similar to what Shakti did with pinky) but will never accept her in front of society is what I am very sure about. He will want her to be inside his very own self-made shivika world - where he comes home to her and finds Solace and peace and happiness and satisfaction for HIMSELF. What she feels he doesn't care - until and unless she is with him. He is the kind of person who can hide her from every pair of eyes in this world and yet to claim her to be his own in front of the world. Shivaay ko pyaar hua hai par shayad pyaar karne ke layak jitna nahi. He cares for her, feels the need for her, because he wants to preserve her. He breaks her so that she is weak to NEED HIM too. His desperation to help her makes him weaken Annika so that She is unable to stand and overpower him and dare to leave him and go.Annika is a feminist- Strong, independent, smart, beautiful and immune to the harsh world. She knows to stand for herself, knows to make her stand. She is everything Shivaay is scared of. But she has a weakness - her brother and need for love and it is the only target Shivaay has to shoot her at.
annika's overpowering aura has shaken him up to the core...long before he started tp have feelings for her...he tried everything...his money, power ,anger,warth and what not...even his charm to make her a timid pet bird...he was never succeeded ...he should have understood bynow that annika is not someone he can tame...this beauty wears a Shining Armour under her soft skin ...she has ability to leave u with her dignity before u can tame her...but she is still here because she is a fighter...won't leave the battlefield before the war is finished...or she...
So This is only phase one, even if both are in love - their story hasn't started it. Story starts when MCP v/s Feminism comes on floor, two minds clash, two hearts clash, two point of views clash.
it is not even fire and ice!...they are both fire...different types of though . different POV,different backgrounds...but somewhere they r so similar too...they both craved for a helping hand ...a partner...not to help them in performing their responsibilities...both of them are good enough for that...but to share their worries,thoughts...sometimes just to hold hands understandingly...to support them silently or to show them the right way...it is hard to believe but they do wish these... cause if they didn't , neither we would have seen annika crying alone at the middle of the night ...nor would have heard those monologues of shivaay ...which he didn't say word to his brothers
Annika has always been a free bird and Shivaay has always been a traditional man when it comes to rights of women. Shivaay is all about NKK and Annika is all about Self-respect and freedom of living and equal rights.
Annika has only uttered the word of leaving and Shivaay's antennas started vibrating - brain started working, hormones started rushing and body became super active. The day Annika voices out that she is suffocating here and wants to leave, is when the story jump-starts.😆
Shivaay will have to start thinking about her, what she feels, what are her wants, what are her dreams, is she happy with him or no?, whaat hurts her and what brings her joy, what amuses her and what makes her cry, does she loves to be pushed in the pool or being walked down to the pool 😆☺️😆 and many such things 😊
Annika loves Shivaay no doubt , but her strength is that she doesn't need him unlike Shivaay .
Shivaay fights his family to not blame Annika FOR HIMSELF - nobody pushes her away from him, his decision to runaway with her was all about his NEED to get her memory back - so that she doesn't even think of leaving him.
Annika needs a Shivaay who fights for her, Shivaay has to be HER Shivaay, who fights her fears, her weaknesses. Rest all she is alone capable of. Annika never cares about the world so she will not care what the world says to her , whether the world will point out fingers to her for being a No one and getting married to a royalty , this is not her concern - that is shivaay's department, All cares about is her stand in his life, her own life, her self respect and her her freedom, she is selfless but not fool. She can never be what Pinky is and what Jhanvi is. Although she has fallen weak because she got introduced to this beautiful and dreamy world called love and she has only learned to lose and give and she did what she could for the Someone special - the FIRST someone special in her life. But she is emerging again and I can see she is emerging more powerful than before. And Shivaay's wrong tactics are only making her weaknesses to be strong.
And I feel this is the journey of love Shivaay has to walk on from being a Selfish lover to being the selfless Ishqbaaaz.
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Shivaay ko bohot kuch sikhna abhi baaki hai.😊😊
P.S. Phew!! Long post I know, this only explains what long road we have to walk through to watch them have a "...happy ever after"
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