What Men Want...*edited*

Very simple things actually…

An open declaration of love. No secrets. When men commit (and it is so hard to get them to) they normally want to scream from rooftops and let everybody know that the near-impossible has happened. When a man wants to announce, be sure he is also going to propose. Don't let such a man get away because you are shy or unwilling to come out of your wierd closet! However entertaining that may be. His enemies are and should be your enemies. Yes, I know it is juvenile, but really considering how many demands we make, this little one is not that big a deal. And more often than not, their instincts are bang on about people. So trust them and when they say they don't like someone, you agree…no questions, no debates. Men are, were and will remain territorial. Even a dog pees around his bitch to make sure no other dog dares to come close. It all has to do with the fact that a woman who has been unfaithful will never be discovered unless she lets on. And from time immemorial, the need to protect property, men feel the need to ensure their woman does not defect to any other party and split his hard earned money amongst step-children. Possessiveness is just a more sophisticated version of this archaic, parochial, patriarchal typeset. When you are not interested, don't bother with the attempts to try and play both sides. You will lose the man. Show him he is most important by doing the little things he asks of you. Men don't like to be stood up, they don't like waiting, how much ever you think you are playing hard to get, it turns the man off ultimately. Arrive on time for your date, even if it is in the locker room. Don't joke about promises made, even flirtatiously. Men take their promises very seriously!! Men actually don't like women who make their faces up too much or take too long to dress. They feel the woman is trying to get others' attention. From his standpoint, he thinks she is the most beautiful thing on earth when she wakes up in the morning, hair messed up and puffy eyed. Men like to be depended upon. So even if you are an electrical engineer and a six footer, call the man to screw in your light bulb. It makes him feel special and wanted. Your man knows you are smarter than him, don't rub it in, ever. by quietly accepting his knowledge of your intelligence, you will gain a lot more than his respect. Just as they do their enemies, men take their friends very seriously. Never ask a man to choose between you and his friends. Your man will watch any number of of soppy, mushy, maudlin flicks with you if you just endure one test cricket match with them. Likewise, give him the remote for 3 hours and he will let you watch DMG, take care of the baby and dinner, while you enjoy your privacy with Dr. Armaan. All men are babies and love to be taken care of, even if they do the pampering most of the time, pamper them occasionally. They will eat out of your hands.
• The physical aspect of love is as important to a man as is the verbal aspect. He doesn't think it is a debasement, he celebrates it as the greates union possible. Never ever deny a man sex if you know he loves you. That's his way of showing you how much he loves you.

Wonderful post!!!!! 👏 But i m so depressed today after knowing wat happened in todays epi's that i'm not able to post comments! 😭

😊 amazing.. thanx.. email it to ridz if u hav her email id lol !

@ bobo, preksha and sweet_pp...

thank you and hang in there...all part of learning curve. such fights are actually very common and am glad that they are showing such silly things to bicker about. thats how it always is!!! they'll make up and ridhima will do her bit!!!

Bang on right @Vaarti!!
Seriously I have seen girls play hard to get!!! 😡 Its fun once,twice after that it is plain annoying for a guy. Even making a guy jealous is a strict no no, the girls feel so special when the guy is jealous, girls tend to like a little possessiveness from the guy. But they should'nt make attempts to make them jealous.

I mean when Ridzee ran from the changing room and bumped into Rahul, Armaan got jealous, Ridzee not at fault. No problem

She put a hand on Rahul. Armaan got jealous and he explained it to her. OK Point Noted for Riddhima.

Not getting herself out of the Sangeet Dance (come with some stupid excuse, stick by your man by hook or crook), throwing a party (if Ridzee is showing the initiative) for the man your guy hates, Very bad idea, especially after he has made clear to you he does'nt like him and going away in the car with him (AAAAAA Unpardonable!!!).

But you know @Vaarti, I have a major grouse towards the creatives, they love the nok-jhoks between AR but what I don't seem to understand they use only Riddhima's character as the scape goat and create all the unpleasant situations from her. It is really sad, because I don't see Ridzee's character so insensitive, but sigh the creatives love Armaan so much they just make Riddhima so faulty.

Originally posted by: vaarti

Very simple things actually…

An open declaration of love. No secrets. When men commit (and it is so hard to get them to) they normally want to scream from rooftops and let everybody know that the near-impossible has happened. When a man wants to announce, be sure he is also going to propose. Don't let such a man get away because you are shy or unwilling to come out of your weird closet! However entertaining that may be. -exactly massi........ n ridhima seems to overlook this aspect....she is not at all willing to tell everyone...as we all saw that armaan was willing to shout n tell everyone abt this immediately after she confessed, this proves that he is sincerely n truly in love with her........ n wants to be committed fully......... n he is fearless coz his love is true.......... n deep.......😛 His enemies are and should be your enemies. Yes, I know it is juvenile, but really considering how many demands we make, this little one is not that big a deal. And more often than not, their instincts are bang on about people. So trust them and when they say they don't like someone, you agree…no questions, no debates. - exactly exactly exactly massi....... i don't understand why ridhim ais jyst trying to be tooo goody good with rahoool, i mean she can clearly see that rahoool is always against her love, he always try to put armaan down, even she saw rahoool complaining keerti abt armaan, then also she is just too nice with rahoool, arey yaar she loves armaan n she has to consider armaan's enemies as her enemies coz once u fall in love u have to respect ur love's feeling n armaan is just not happy with ridhima talking to rahoool n i guess ridhima can do this much for armaan........THE LEAST SHE CAN DO😭 Men are, were and will remain territorial. Even a dog pees around his bitch to make sure no other dog dares to come close. It all has to do with the fact that a woman who has been unfaithful will never be discovered unless she lets on. And from time immemorial, the need to protect property, men feel the need to ensure their woman does no defect to any other party and split his hard earned money amongst step-children. Possessiveness is just a more sophisticated version of this archaic, parochial, patriarchal typeset. - so true......... armaan is being lill possesive, but i think particularly in rahoool's case...... coz he has some personal problems with him n he doesn't want ridhima to be with or talk also with rahoool, coz he is just so uncomfortable n as far as atul is concerned armaan doesn't seem to bother much abt his possessiveness wen she is with atul......... so this proves that he doesn't lik erahoool n doesn't want RIDHIMA WHO HE LOVES THE MOST........ to be with him........ n she shud respect armaan😡 When you are not interested, don't bother with the attempts to try and play both sides. You will lose the man. Show him he is most important by doing the little things he asks of you. - exactly yaar she is just being so so so so...........let it be........ she is not making armaan FEEL SPECIAL.........she is just being so normal........where as armaan tries to do everything which can make rodhima fel special like KC he kept n all.......... but ridhima seems to take armaan for granted........😭 i just hope she understands this soon n can do sumthing to make armaan FEEL GOOD😉 Men don't like to be stood up, they don't like waiting, how much ever you think you are playing hard to get, it turns the man off ultimately. Arrive on time for your date, even if it is in the locker room. - abhi to bichara armaan is waiting for her to say I LOVE U in front of everybody😭, i think his wait will get over at sapna's sangeet party Don't joke about promises made, even flirtatiously. Men take their promises very seriously!! - so true n ridhima jokes abt her promises everyday........ man poor armaan will be pissed off like this........😭 just lik etoday in the last scene where she sem sto forget abt her promise made to armaan abt PUBLIC CONFESSION😡
• Men actually don't like women who make their faces up too much or take too long to dress. They feel the woman is trying to get others' attention. From his standpoint, he thinks she is the most beautiful thing on earth when she wakes up in the morning, hair messed up and puffy eyed.- ARMAAN KE LIYE O RISHIM AHI HAMESHA SE MOST BEAUTIFUL CREATURE CREATED BY ALMIGHTY THI😆

massi do u mind getting n huge hug n kissie from mehkie?????

if not then🤗 n muahhhhhhhhhhh i was really craving to blurt out my anger............thankoooooooo thankooooooo thankooooooo so much

Mehak, you know what there should be a clause atleast in a month one week, Ridzee's character should pamper Armaan to the hilt 😃 .
Anyway Mehak I want to be positive like you, and hope that Ridzee will NOT dance with Rahul in sangeet and actually dance only with Armaan. 😃 She had the sense in New Year not to dance with Rahul remember!!!!

Originally posted by: DivineSelf

Mehak, you know what there should be a clause atleast in a month one week, Ridzee's character should pamper Armaan to the hilt 😃 .
Anyway Mehak I want to be positive like you, and hope that Ridzee will NOT dance with Rahul in sangeet and actually dance only with Armaan. 😃 She had the sense in New Year not to dance with Rahul remember!!!!

arey dear i m sure that ridhima won't dance with rahoool but only with our armaan n most probably she wil confess there...... n i agree she shud pamper armaan lill more..........😉

Aarti, this post will open up the eyes of many of us in the journey.

In my case, the line which hit me ..."or take too long to dress."
I'm gonna start working on it.

The first 3 points I want to send it to the character called "Riddhimma".

Its an absolute handy guide.
👏 👏 👏

ash.

Awesome as usual. Nice compilation!! Wish I had known this 10 years back though, would have made life easier by far.

I have seen some women playing hard to get and making a man jealous, going overboard and losing them ultimately and regreting it big time. Dont push them around too much. They lose interest after a point pretty quickly.

Isnt it ironic the notion sajna ke liye saj rahin hoon!! The amount of time and effort women put in to look good for their "man". All the time, he likes you just as you are. Of course no harm in looking your best, but obsessing about it is such a waste of time.

Interesting to note they dont like to be kept waiting and the promise bit too. They take it very seriously. That is so true.

All in all another interesting post and very informative as usual.