Ravish is not the standard that Atharva should live up to

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Since few days i was thinking of writing a post here and after seeing a lot of typical and expectations of "Maturity" from Atharva has compelled me to make this post.
Ravish is a great human being, I agree. He probably is more mature, well controlled than that of Atharva. But is Ravish the standard that Atharva has to achieve to compel people that he is still the better, more passionate and deserving of the two ? I do not think so, from where i see Ravish is just the stereotypical alpha male, he can fight, talk, keep promises, maintain status and even love a woman and for a record he is everything a girl might wish for, but again he is still not what Vividha wants, he is still not the person which Atharva is.

Atharva is flawed, and do i like it ? Yes I do, because he is flawed and for his entire life he has been a tag line of being an illegitimate child of his mother, when he fell in love with Vividha, he knew he had hurdles but he proved his worth too, he is not heroic unlike Ravish, he is not well spoken too, yes he spews harsh words infact very insulting words too for Vividha, but isn't that his right? Isn't that how he is, who puts vividha at a pedestal, a goddess whom he would worship and when the truth strikes him, instead of expecting a hard core Atharva melt down, majority wants him to be sacrificial and wise like Ravish ? Why ? Is that the only thing which would make Atharva superior ?

Ravish had a family, he got his father's money, support, name, responsibilities, whereas on the other hand Atharva has been treated like a fatherless child, he suffered for money, he suffered for love and affection, he has seen his mother bow down to people in silence.

Atharva has never loved anybody other than his mother and vividha, of course and he had almost died in his love, and people expect him to put a straight face and smile at vividha and Ravish when he gets his memories back and when he actually sees vividha wearing Ravish's sindoor? 🥱 .. There is no point in guessing that for most of the desi audience, one who is harsh and vocal about it is a bad guy and immoral and the one with all the qualities and swag is the best thing to happen to the female lead. And sadly that is what this show has been preaching lately

A love story is iconic when it is between two unequal people, who can use each other, support each other and even leave each other but cannot let go. A love story is what Atharva and Vividha had, but CVs are hell bent on proving Ravish is a better match for Vvidha, well why not, he can give her everything which Atharva cannot give her, so it is quite unfair to expect Atharva to bow down to Ravish for whatever Ravish did for him, Ravish saved Atharava only because his father had wronged Atharva for his whole life, it is so easy for Ravish to forget and forgive Vvidha and Atharva, because neither of them has snatched any precious thing of his, not even his dignity whereas it is close to impossible for Atharva to forget and forgive Ravish and Vividha because Ravish got Atharva's share of life, he also got the girl Atharva has loved, he also gets the tag of being the wiser person, and Atharva is just a cartoon whom CVs thought might be entertaining for audience and later realized that ahh this is a hindi show, Atharva is a bad guy because he cannot accept his lady with another man even for a second, because he doe snot do pooja of social norms, because he wants what he loves and does not want to lose it.


Ladies and gentleman, I assure you Ravish is the better one for Vividha, but he is still ot better than Atharva. IMO 😃

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Posted: 8 years ago
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There could be 100 guys like Ravish better than that 1 Atharv but Vividha will only want Atharv.

You know why? Because for a Vividha, you need an Atharv. For an Atharv, you need a Vividha.

She doesn't even deny that Ravish is a great guy but does that mean she falls for every great guy? No! Because there is this one guy who lives, breathes for her. Someone who is so passionately in love with her that he's become part of her identity. In those flaws, in those irrationalities, Vividha has found someone who brings this rebellious side to her which no Ravish could ever dream of. Everyone saw how she was in the first month of the marriage, trying to settle in...she was BORING!

Atharv makes her come alive, she lives off that passion he ignites in her.

Atharva Sujata is what he is because he is NOT perfect. He has not had everything handed to him on a silver platter, he's worked for it. He had to work to survive, he had to work to make Vividha realise that she is indeed in love with him, he worked to make sure his mother never had any fingers pointed at her. But what happens? Everything is taken away from him! His identity which made him the proud man he is was taken away, his mother decided to go to that same house and family which shunned her away, the love of his life landed where? In that same house with his half brother!

Vividha knows what his weakness is. It's his anger and she knows how to handle it. Just like Atharv knew she had that strength in her to fight when no-one else really said she had anything extraordinary in her.

Vividha doesn't want Ravish no matter how perfect he is. She wants her Atharv. Quite simple no?

P.S. I don't want a man who lets the family know how great he is by letting me go. Nor do I want my bangles broken in order to prove that I'm no longer married :) What he did today may have been out of good intentions but his actions were of a MCP! Asserting authority over his 'wife' and 'letting her go'. As far as I know, she was never his to let go of :)

Also, I don't think they're trying to prove Ravish is the better choice for Vividha. What they're showing is that there are two people, Vividha & Atharv who flawed, unconventional and have the judgmental eyes of others around them whilst all they've done is love :| I've seen MANY Ravish Vashishts but not a single Vividha or Atharv on Indian TV which is why they impress me over any selfless man.
Edited by *Reemz* - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I said this on Twitter and I am going to say it her again:


" I will wait my whole life to find have a guy like Atharva, than to get married of to a guy like Ravish"



Very nice post 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well said guys! I don't know how people think that bcos someone is nice, one should marry them. There are millions of nice people out there but u always fall for that one. Why? Cos there is something in them, something about them.

Vividha and Atharv have moulded each other. Their existence completes one another. They not perfect and they accept this about one another.

Ravish can get any girl but for Atharv there is only Vividha and vice Versa.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

There could be 100 guys like Ravish better than that 1 Atharv but Vividha will only want Atharv.

You know why? Because for a Vividha, you need an Atharv. For an Atharv, you need a Vividha.

She doesn't even deny that Ravish is a great guy but does that mean she falls for every great guy? No! Because there is this one guy who lives, breathes for her. Someone who is so passionately in love with her that he's become part of her identity. In those flaws, in those irrationalities, Vividha has found someone who brings this rebellious side to her which no Ravish could ever dream of. Everyone saw how she was in the first month of the marriage, trying to settle in...she was BORING!

Atharv makes her come alive, she lives off that passion he ignites in her.

Atharva Sujata is what he is because he is NOT perfect. He has not had everything handed to him on a silver platter, he's worked for it. He had to work to survive, he had to work to make Vividha realise that she is indeed in love with him, he worked to make sure his mother never had any fingers pointed at her. But what happens? Everything is taken away from him! His identity which made him the proud man he is was taken away, his mother decided to go to that same house and family which shunned her away, the love of his life landed where? In that same house with his half brother!

Vividha knows what his weakness is. It's his anger and she knows how to handle it. Just like Atharv knew she had that strength in her to fight when no-one else really said she had anything extraordinary in her.

Vividha doesn't want Ravish no matter how perfect he is. She wants her Atharv. Quite simple no?

P.S. I don't want a man who lets the family know how great he is by letting me go. Nor do I want my bangles broken in order to prove that I'm no longer married :) What he did today may have been out of good intentions but his actions were of a MCP! Asserting authority over his 'wife' and 'letting her go'. As far as I know, she was never his to let go of :)

Also, I don't think they're trying to prove Ravish is the better choice for Vividha. What they're showing is that there are two people, Vividha & Atharv who flawed, unconventional and have the judgmental eyes of others around them whilst all they've done is love :| I've seen MANY Ravish Vashishts but not a single Vividha or Atharv on Indian TV which is why they impress me over any selfless man.


I think Vividha is like a meditation for Atharva, i simply love the numerous thoughts and feelings he has for her, its a mixture of both negative and positive approach, but yet its all about Vividha. People who think love is only about being sugary sweet and positive attitude, should not expect much from Atharva. Of course he cannot be Ravish, because he is may be superior than Ravish if we sit down and start writing out their qualities.

Ravish himself knows that Atharva is what Vividha wants and thank fully he obliged by the nature's truth, he has never loved Vividha, so nothing to feel bad or guilty about it. Yes as his legal wife, she was his, but she was wronged, Atharva was wronged, and the kind of hurdles and agony through which ViTharv went through is far bigger than what Ravish has ever seen in his life.

The best thing is that Vividha can see through both these men, she can still see through Atharva, yes he is not heroic, but Vividha knows what he could do if she is at stake.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes exactly!! You put all of our thoughts as to why we prefer atharv over ravish as an audience as well to words. I am sure any person who sees jnndsd right from the start and see atharv sujhatas journey from start cannot not fall in love with atharv's character. He is imperfectly perfect. A man who is a great lover and an inspiration.
Any women would want a man like him. He is something else. There can never be another atharv Sujata. His thoughts, his ideology, his greater then life ambition. I still remember this dialogue atharv said and it will remain with me forever.he said 'mere sapne meri jageeer hai aur unhe mujhese koi alag nahi kar sakta'.

Lol sorry guys I got carried away there. But I truly love the character of atharv. Your post was soo soo true.

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