What a spectacle of Vividha

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Posted: 9 years ago
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This is EXACTLY why Indian television makes me sick at times.

For drama sake, for ratings they put Vividha in the middle of the family. Her bangles, MS & sindoor taken off as if no Indian woman has ever ended a marriage. Hey let's look at Vividha, this woman loves her lover...let's make it even more dramatic and take those ornaments off her. Make her feel like utter crap as if she's wronging someone!

All that drama just because a girl wants to respectfully end the marriage? Signing the divorce paper would be too simple right? So let's make this so melodramatic!

People divorce over snoring do you know that? People divorce because they didn't get a gift they expected from their spouse. People divorce because they just fall out of love or get bored!

In the name of drama, they really ridiculed Vividha's choice!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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No woman deserves such humiliation actually.
When a woman becomes a widow they used to do all these rituals which R did to viv today. But now with change in generation nobody is practising it now (at least in my place)

I wasn't happy with the ulte phere and I'm not with what happened today.

Already it's such emotional atyachaar for her .she wants the marriage or doesn't is not the matter. It is heartbreaking whatsoever.

Signing divorce would have been a very decent choice.i think it's too much to ask from cvs
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Posted: 9 years ago
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The fact that nobody ever asks Vividha what SHE wants just bugs me!
I get that in order to highlight Ravish's 'Sacrifice' it was necessary for him to take off her jewelry!

BUT the girl is more than capable of removing her own jewelry man! Was all that shit needed? NO!


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ravish disgusted me more than anyone.
How could he do that to Vividha?

What was the need to do all that drama? He's too kind to make her do ulta phera's but it's ok to humiliate her in front of everyone?

He says he doesn't consider her as his wife, so don't go near her then, why take off her bangles etc. Step too far for me.
Edited by lionstar - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Although it was done for drama purposes and to make sure Vivi would be sympathised by the audience, it was difficult to watch. Vividha did not deserve any of that!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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To make someone Mahan
Treat a Human Being like an Animal
When they can Abuse n Beat an Mentally Unstable Person as Animal
This is nothing infront of it
He Could Just have asked her does she wanna stay or leave with Atharv
Let her say from her Mouth that she want to leave with Atharv as Atharv must even know it right
Yes she did say many times infront of Vashists but they Act like Blind,Deaf,Dumb when it comes to Vividha Wish
He could have asked her to give the Mangalsutra back,as simple as that.
Would have told he will send divorce papers or he must have made those papers long back as he promised on that night
Then why arent those papers are made ready it
why didnt he made them ready or asked the lawyer to bring those papers as he had this much time in his hands
why didnt he sign on them and ask her to sign them before leaving home
No need to broke Bangles,Rub off Sindoor
Is This the Way to treat a Women embarass n insult infront of whole family just bcz she choosed to not give up into an forced marraige
Ok He broke off Bangles,Rubbed Sindoor,Removed MS
What was the use of all this or What did he Prove by this just embarassed her nothing more and did some cheap Drama
Bcz Neither he Signed Divorce Papers not appealed for Annualing Marriage
Just went off on duty again to drag the Divorce Drama and Husband Tag for more Long tym
Suman Vivi is not an animal that u will tie her to ur son
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Posted: 9 years ago
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so our CVs are back to dishing crap. it's like ok this woman chose to quit the marriage, so let us humiliate her. aren't we living in a civilised, progressing world? and aren't the army people most rationale (coz going by the look of it, they are placed in high ranks. so...)why the CVs are taking us like we belong to stone age and cannot stomach some rationale stuff. what can be closed with a sign, put up so much of drama? cannot a woman chose to walk out of a marriage just because her heart doesn't lie there. why objectify a girl for physical abuse, emotional turmoil and trauma through out the ritual
agreed. you wanted a heavy dramatic closure to a certain relationship. but why not some sensible way? just coz most of viewers are house wives doesn't give them right to consider us as fools. in the first place these rituals are usually conducted on a just widowed woman which is barbaric and most inhuman. to carry them on a girl who wanted to move out of a marriage is not only preposterous also the pain the women in real world undergo is also belittled.

as a powerful medium that can reach to millions of households, the PH should have behaved responsibly, can we sue them??😡
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Posted: 9 years ago
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You know what the worst is?
These Indian TV FLs get married, widowed, remarried, separated etc. atleast 10 times/show. That time no one has anything to say.

But Vividha. She has only ever considered one man her husband.
And today, they shamed her for it.
Shamed her for her loyalty.
Shamed her for having the courage to keep her promises.
Shamed her for the clarity of knowing her own mind.

Forget women empowerment. This is an even more regressive message about expecting to be publicly humiliated if you demand your freedom. Either conform or agree to be judged and treated like an outcast. WOW! Really impressed by these nuggets of wisdom CVs.

I am so done with this show until I get over my disgust of it all. If I ever do.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Oh my GOD reemz - i was watching with my mouth wide open! 😲

I failed to reason with one thing - They were going to apply for Divorce papers -- at this point, they should have brought vivi down without her MS and sindhoor and thrown the papers at everybody face - they literally stripped her in the middle of everybody.

She was left standing there staring at R - maybe unaware of what he was going to do.

Actually i think i am completely short of words today so i'll just leave it at this. EXTREMELY disappointed in the way they ended this FORCED marriage. They showed both of them having mutual respect for each other, then maybe they should have ended this tamasha with respect too!

She's scarred for life!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This is so disheartening to hear Reemz. The same makers in their other show have showed seperatinf and divorce gracefully then why not in this show? Why make a woman look like some trophy piece. In this day and age, despite all that is going on around the world with women rights, SP should know better than to show this. Mamta m'am have truly dissapointed I will def tweet and all of u shud as well

Kat

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