Originally posted by: shruthiravi
@annie Saanjh behaved kind of similar way when Arjun proposed to Maya. Her throwing away that ring without even a thought what it meant to her father a man who has loved her dearly was equally psycho. The thing is such behaviour of Saanjh will be justified. I would have been fine if Saanjh had just removed that locket, but kept with her no, when she faced the unpleasant truth she too behaved wildly.
I disagree. First, it wasn't Prem's ring, it didn't belong to him. It was a ring (essentially meant for Saanjh's love) that Suman had bought when Saanjh was a baby. When you're faced with a truth has the power to break something in you, you don't react pleasantly. You just don't because it hurts beyond what you and I can imagine. Different people react differently to different situations, just because we don't deem it fit, it doesn't necessarily mean they reacted 'wildly'. She threw the ring in spurt of anger and soon realized she probably shouldn't have. She even tried to get it back but it had gone out of reach.
Second Arjun has proposed Maya or rather at this point for Arjun Saanjh is friend , Maya he wants to make his life partner. Right , wrong time will tell. But Maya is Arjun's choice. Saanjh tells I still love him. Sorry I dont emphatize with her. She can be heartbroken but she needs to accept reality and decide to move on. Still loving him is not psychologically correct as Arjun has made his choice.
She very well has accepted the reality. She's understood that it wasn't in her power to make Arjun fall in love with her and she has also accepted that Maya is Arjun's choice. Exactly why ever since she faced the truth, she hasn't once tried to separate them or come in between in any manner. But when you had loved someone so deeply, you don't just forget them in a day or two. That's just how the whole unrequited love works. If she still decides to silently love Arjun all her life, it's her choice. Just as we give Arjun and Maya the right to a choice, we gotta we the same right to Saanjh as well. And thus, I can empathize with Saanjh just as well as I can empathize with Maya.
Maya didnt had any intention of threatneing Vandana. I still remember when she bent to touch Vandana's feet she was earnest, her mailicious face comes out when Vandana pulls her leg back. I cant justify that behaviour of Vandana just because she wants Saanjh as her DIL. She is seeing Maya as frightful so she will be as Ashwin will feed her half info. We have to look perceptions wholly and not partly. Vandana has the right to warn Arjun gently to look beyond what is seen, but she should not outright reject Maya. Vandana is again going with the funda I know what is right for you.
Again, disagreed. Maya had every intention to make it loud and clear that she will be a part of Sharma family whether or not Vandana likes or approves of it. Vandana's basis to reject Maya as a DIL isn't solely based on her desire to have Saanjh as her DIL. Of course, it is a part of her reason but not the WHOLE reason itself. Yes, the moment when she reached out for Vandana's blessings, that was a genuine gesture but I don't blame Vandana for all the reasons I already mentioned in my first post. What Maya did right after that was what made me feel that she isn't even a position to seek her blessings as of now.
She proceeds to mock Saanjh over her unsuccesful attempts of reconciling the family (note : Maya's past story made Arjun realize his mistakes. Maya had no intention to tell her story in such a way that it makes Arjun go running to Vandana and acknowledge her as his mother. It was a good outcome of an unintended action. Maya's sole purpose in that moment was to just give an insight to Arjun of her side of truth) and for the nth time now commands Vandana, 'aadat dal lo'.
Maya's always been saying one thing over and over again to her, 'aadat dal lo' and that's not clearly how you win a prospective mother-in-law's heart. No, sorry. đ
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