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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ok I understood. See Saanjh is there for him whenever he calls. Leaving behind everything she has she goes for him. I mean as if she fears if she doesnt go he will leave her. And if no problem Arjun goes his way, no thought about Saanjh.
But there are hus-wife relations like that where the hus expects the wife to be there whenever problem is there, else she has no value. As you rightly said it is a very unhealthy relation. Where you take help, but dont value that help
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@unique, pom in India a wife is expected to complete the improper job done by a mother. If she has bought up her son erratically wife has to fix it. Or you will get men are like that. Mother's dont discipline their sons and expect wives to take whatever rubbish their sons throw at them. Arjun doesnt care about Saanjh because she has never made him feel her presence. You get the value not when you go about doing everything, but you are not able to help when the other person needs your help the most. You are not able to trust when the other person expects your trust the most.

Even if you dont do many things if you can do to a person something that he or she needs the most at that moment or you can trust the person when that person needs trust the most you will be valued.
Maya did that when Ayan was in jail she bought him out. Saanjh was questioning whether Ayan did right or wrong. When the gifts of Maya came she scolded Arjun assuming he had accepted it, she belittled Arjun's problem as perception of a 6 year old. She cling to Arjun and Arjun uses her as and when he needs her.
No sane woman will love to entangle herself with a man who has a friend like Saanjh who just goes behind him. She will plainly tell go to your friend she loves you. Maya is a bit insane and her emotional insecurity needs Arjun, that is why she is clinging to Arjun.



Completely agree.No sane woman would want to be in a relation with Arjun who has a friend like Saanjh. But Maya is not any normal girl. She feels secured & emotionally strong when with Arjun. So she will try her best to cling to Arjun. Maya clearly stated she doesn't want to take Saanjh's place in his life & Saanjh cannot take her place . So she will try her best so that Saanjh can never be more than a friend in Arjun's life.

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