What's wrong with Lopa?

Her insecurity is obvious, after today's incident (Rohan back-bitching against her with Bani), I feel that Rohan doesn't consider her as a good friend though she still feels he does. Somehow Rohan is unable to express himself as she might again start fighting and behave weirdly. Rohan might also be thinking that this is a matter of just 20-25 days and better to keep things normal between them. He is in dilemma, he knows Lopa will support him in any circumstances, but he also knows that Lopa behaves immaturely some times and has a lot of expectations from him. So she feels bad when Rohan gives preference to Bani over her.

Originally posted by: at118

Her insecurity is obvious, after today's incident (Rohan back-bitching against her with Bani), I feel that Rohan doesn't consider her as a good friend though she still feels he does. Somehow Rohan is unable to express himself as she might again start fighting and behave weirdly. Rohan might also be thinking that this is a matter of just 20-25 days and better to keep things normal between them. He is in dilemma, he knows Lopa will support him in any circumstances, but he also knows that Lopa behaves immaturely some times and has a lot of expectations from him. So she feels bad when Rohan gives preference to Bani over her.

Though I like Lopa, but I feel she should give some space to Rohan as clearly he is not interested in this friendship. I didn't like the way Rohan was saying bad words for her to Bani. No true friend will do this. Lopa has not said a single word against Rohan on his back. Which shows she genuinely consider him as her friend and is possessive about him. On other hand, Rohan is unable to reciprocate same level of closeness. He wants to talk to Bani and doesn't hesitate even if he has to say harsh words about Lopa.

So coming back to whats wrong with Lopa, is she is very possessive about her friendship with Rohan and have a lot of expectations from him which clearly Rohan is unable to meet. She felt bad when Rohan kind of insulted her in front of Bani and Gaurav as she thought he will never do this. Over expectations and blind faith on this friendship are real issues with Lopa. I am sure she will be hurt when she will get to know that Rohan back bitched her to Bani

Its other way around. Its Rohan who has started behaving differently after WKV. He is the one who is complaining to others (Bani) about Lopa,No true friend does that. In fact Lopa has not said a single word against Rohan on his back. Surely BB has succeeded in what he wanted.

Originally posted by: at118

Her insecurity is obvious, after today's incident (Rohan back-bitching against her with Bani), I feel that Rohan doesn't consider her as a good friend though she still feels he does. Somehow Rohan is unable to express himself as she might again start fighting and behave weirdly. Rohan might also be thinking that this is a matter of just 20-25 days and better to keep things normal between them. He is in dilemma, he knows Lopa will support him in any circumstances, but he also knows that Lopa behaves immaturely some times and has a lot of expectations from him. So she feels bad when Rohan gives preference to Bani over her.

Though I like Lopa, but I feel she should give some space to Rohan as clearly he is not interested in this friendship. I didn't like the way Rohan was saying bad words for her to Bani. No true friend will do this. Lopa has not said a single word against Rohan on his back. Which shows she genuinely consider him as her friend and is possessive about him. On other hand, Rohan is unable to reciprocate same level of closeness. He wants to talk to Bani and doesn't hesitate even if he has to say harsh words about Lopa.

So coming back to whats wrong with Lopa, is she is very possessive about her friendship with Rohan and have a lot of expectations from him which clearly Rohan is unable to meet. She felt bad when Rohan kind of insulted her in front of Bani and Gaurav as she thought he will never do this. Over expectations and blind faith on this friendship are real issues with Lopa. I am sure she will be hurt when she will get to know that Rohan back bitched her to Bani

Originally posted by: at118

Her insecurity is obvious, after today's incident (Rohan back-bitching against her with Bani), I feel that Rohan doesn't consider her as a good friend though she still feels he does. Somehow Rohan is unable to express himself as she might again start fighting and behave weirdly. Rohan might also be thinking that this is a matter of just 20-25 days and better to keep things normal between them. He is in dilemma, he knows Lopa will support him in any circumstances, but he also knows that Lopa behaves immaturely some times and has a lot of expectations from him. So she feels bad when Rohan gives preference to Bani over her.

Though I like Lopa, but I feel she should give some space to Rohan as clearly he is not interested in this friendship. I didn't like the way Rohan was saying bad words for her to Bani. No true friend will do this. Lopa has not said a single word against Rohan on his back. Which shows she genuinely consider him as her friend and is possessive about him. On other hand, Rohan is unable to reciprocate same level of closeness. He wants to talk to Bani and doesn't hesitate even if he has to say harsh words about Lopa.

So coming back to whats wrong with Lopa, is she is very possessive about her friendship with Rohan and have a lot of expectations from him which clearly Rohan is unable to meet. She felt bad when Rohan kind of insulted her in front of Bani and Gaurav as she thought he will never do this. Over expectations and blind faith on this friendship are real issues with Lopa. I am sure she will be hurt when she will get to know that Rohan back bitched her to Bani

Birds of the same feather flock together thats why Lopa gets along with M3 and Rohan with Gaurav,Bani

lopa wants rohan to be her doormat sidekick which he is not hence shes acting weirdly..especially since he's talking to bani and looking out for her as gaurav is gone.

Originally posted by: at118

Her insecurity is obvious, after today's incident (Rohan back-bitching against her with Bani), I feel that Rohan doesn't consider her as a good friend though she still feels he does. Somehow Rohan is unable to express himself as she might again start fighting and behave weirdly. Rohan might also be thinking that this is a matter of just 20-25 days and better to keep things normal between them. He is in dilemma, he knows Lopa will support him in any circumstances, but he also knows that Lopa behaves immaturely some times and has a lot of expectations from him. So she feels bad when Rohan gives preference to Bani over her.

Though I like Lopa, but I feel she should give some space to Rohan as clearly he is not interested in this friendship. I didn't like the way Rohan was saying bad words for her to Bani. No true friend will do this. Lopa has not said a single word against Rohan on his back. Which shows she genuinely consider him as her friend and is possessive about him. On other hand, Rohan is unable to reciprocate same level of closeness. He wants to talk to Bani and doesn't hesitate even if he has to say harsh words about Lopa.

So coming back to whats wrong with Lopa, is she is very possessive about her friendship with Rohan and have a lot of expectations from him which clearly Rohan is unable to meet. She felt bad when Rohan kind of insulted her in front of Bani and Gaurav as she thought he will never do this. Over expectations and blind faith on this friendship are real issues with Lopa. I am sure she will be hurt when she will get to know that Rohan back bitched her to Bani

Rohan doesn't have anyone else to talk to about his thoughts besides Lopa & Bani. The rest HMs don't care for his point of view. When Lopa disagrees with him or he disagrees with her, they both get childish about it.