Annika - not saint but woman

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Can everyone please stop going on about interference and sainthood and all those things insulting.
So Annika tried to patch things up between the Obros, so what? Does that mean the bond between the brothers is lost forever. What type of bond is dependent on not allowing anyone into their fold?

Annika was doing exactly what any sane, loving, caring woman would do. Trying to rectify a situation which indirectly was caused by her involvement. She was obviously not to be blamed, coz she was made helpless, but that's between her and Shivaay.

It was very sweet to think of the devars taking her side, but as the eldest granddaughter-in-law she took it upon herself to not allow a beautiful relationship, the strong bond of brotherhood, be broken because of their feelings for her.

At times, it takes a 3rd party to put things in perspective or to remind an angry person of the silver lining or the hidden treasures. That's all annika did. She played the part many of us play for our families and many of us would have seen our mothers play.

It does not make us or our mothers saints. It merely makes us responsible family women.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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She did it in front of everybody and the words were in moderation.
Not like she was turning into a semi God.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes you are 10000%right. She did the right thing. And I'm proud of her. I don't understand why everyone is insulting Anika. Anika is not interfering. She just help her husband to patch up with his brothers. And the precap was the cutest thing ever đŸ˜ŗ
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with you totally...even I don't think that she was thinking an iota about being badi bahu when she was saying all these.. .. she was just being a good human.. . Who understands the importance of a family!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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C the main thing is:
kuch toh log kahenge,logon ka kaam hai kehna..
SO just ignore..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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bang on post dear i really loved it
yes what she did was right that is what we all will do agar humari ghar jin logom ko hum pyaar karti hai woh ek dusresseh jagda karna and all we won't like nah we will try to solve the matter that is what anika do ab anika koyi bahar wali nahi hai oh oberoi khandaan ki badi poti bahu hai so she does n't want obros to fight with each other she want them to stay together .she did right and i just love her for that.apni parivaar ek saath kush hokar dekhna and tie together koyi maahan kaam nahi hai its what all do .
thank u for the post dear
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Word !!! At times, an outsider is required to make amendments. That's not interference but resolution. In this case, the outsider is very much their own for that matter. And she didnt drag OmRu to patch up. She just directed them to make a wise decision instead of fighting for her. She is capable of dealing with Shivay.đŸ˜ŗ There was no ulterior motive of hers but a natural reaction as she inadvertently became a reason of the unrest in the family she treats as her own people. 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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copy pasting it from one of my friends on WA( from Ishu😉)
2 hours ago: Divorce
Presently: telling family to say thank you
Precap: Dil Bole Oberoi

Tomorrow's episode: SSO insulting Anika again by calling her characterless😆

women have big heart, but what about her self respect here?😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anika did wat was needed, wat anyone as a family member would do to keep the family tied together!
She did not tell them wat to do, she just made them realize the 100 good things over this one mistake and they remembered all of it, good overshadowed bad and everyone got back together!

OmRu has always helped Anika without asking her and rightfully call her Bhabhi and themselves her 2 Devars, then why would Anika hesitate in making them realize what they mean to Shivay!

Wen Obros don't have a problem, wen Oberoi family doesn' have a problem and Shivika don' have a problem, then why should anyone else have it!😆

It was an emotional episode and a wonderful one at that...loved it <3

Edited by Crazy4Mayur - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Not once did she claim that she had forgiven or forgotten what Shivvay did.
What she did was to help the family deal with this as a unit instead of just Shivvay dealing with it alone. She did not counsel Shivvay herself or interfere by sitting in on any discussion, she asked his family to do so.
When a child strays or does a wrong you do not isolate him to deal with his mistakes on his own, you reprimand and guide him. Shivvay may be a grown man but he is still a child like Ome and Rudra.

I have mentioned this before, she has never told Shivvay he was justified in what he did but breaking and isolating him from his family makes him a weak and broken man, easily susceptible to the likes of Tia. She could use him to her advantage because he has no guidance and one to consult with.
Om and Rudra are just that. She knows as long as he has his brothers with him no one will take advantage of him. They matter to him more than anyone else.

This was about saving a family from breaking up because of a major problem that it faced. Every family should work together to solve such issues not let such issues break them up.

One sometimes has to think outside the box to get a clear perspective which I feel she did. I don't think she herself would have been happy to see so much hatred in the house. We have to remember that this is an orphan who for the first time has found what it means to have a family.

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