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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am not sure if I should be happy to see today's episode or sad.

On one hand, the family bonding I was expecting to see was there. Both family behaved with genuine respect and without taunting each other like a blended family should from the beginning of a marriage.

On the other hand, it was not because of their own children who are present in their life and are reason enough to be respectful, but for a baby who is not even a reality yet.

That gives me an indication that the behaviour might change if the baby is not there.

I find it surprising that while a new baby is a good news, so is a newly wedded bride and a newly wedded groom.

Why rejoice and party at wedding and then treat the person who got married like unwanted pest?

I have never seen anyone celebrating a baby's birth and then treating the baby as unwanted after the baby being born.

Isn't marriage also a birth of a new life and new relationships?

Why don't we treat a new bride (can't say the new groom is not treated as if he hung the moon) like we treat a newly born baby, with love, tenderness and gentle guidance instead of taunts, warnings and insults?

Ishwari asked Sonakshi's parents' favourite cuisine and showering her love on her. If every mother-in-law did that with her new daughter-in-law since the day she gets married, women will never cry when leaving her parents' house.

I wish, this had happened the day after the wedding, not today.

Poor Dev was pleasantly surprised to see family bonding and thought it was because of Sonakshi. But when Sonakshi announced they are expecting, his face was one of utter shock.

Dev, my dear, this is why I say that lying never solved anything. You have dug a trap so big that you can't even crawl out of it. If I were you, I'd start thinking pronto starting with coming clean about what you know. The more you let this go on, the worse the news is going to sound and the more it will hurt everyone.

Your lie has grown so massive that now it's no longer is just about you and Sonakshi, now it include her family and yours. As time will pass, it will just grow bigger.

You wanted to save Sonakshi from hurt from what would have been a shock, but it might just turn into a fatal wound. Time's running out.

Precap: Dev asks Sona to get her pregnancy tested.

DUH!!! Sona should have done it before she and Ishwari announced it to the world. This lady seems to have lost a few brain cells since getting married. Who the heck shares any news on a possibility?

ANNOUNCEMENT - Hello peeps. How was your weekend?

Well, my last weekend and the next one are just filled with Christmas parties.

Not to mention, I have an exam to sit for on Dec 22nd. Ergo, I will be working full time, studying, partying all at the same time. So that means, I will be sleep-deprived, bleary eyed, zombie version of myself.

Trust me, if I had to pay for my course, I'd have never done it. But the work is paying so gotta do it.

The good news is, that I am not working or studying during Christmas week. Yay!!!

So if you see less comments/posts for me. That would be the reason. However, feel free to use my posts (whatever I post) for discussion zone. Hope you guys have a wonderful Christmas and New year...



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Posted: 8 years ago
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I hope there is dialogue from sona to dev...that she missed her cycle and hence she confirmed...
Or else its so dumb of a doctor to confirm pregnancy based on vomiting and chakker...!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I know, right? Even non-doctors announce news like this to the world before confirming it with the doctor. It looked to me that she is so desperate for family approval that she is willing to go with whatever Ishwari says without any proof.

What's wrong with insisting that, "Maa, I know you are very happy. But I still think before we start celebrating, we should get it confirmed. Otherwise, lots of people will get hurt if this turns out to be a false alarm." Simple. But no. Her brain cells are on permanent holiday since getting married.

Originally posted by: ..natasha..

I hope there is dialogue from sona to dev...that she missed her cycle and hence she confirmed...

Or else its so dumb of a doctor to confirm pregnancy based on vomiting and chakker...!!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't find anything genuine in Ishwari reaction because if she truly liked sona , She would have pampered her from day one.Sona is just baby popping machine for her that it.They made sona so blind and dumb what to say.nobody is noticing hypocrisy of ishwari.😕 Bacha hain toh respect milegi .
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Agreed completely. Precisely why I couldn't be happy seeing her over-loving/generous avatar... I felt that it reduced a woman's value to her fertile womb and not to her own self.

If she was as good to Sonakshi before this news, then I won't have felt so disconnected with her happiness and she won't seem so fake to me.

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

I don't find anything genuine in Ishwari reaction because if she truly liked sona , She would have pampered her from day one.Sona is just baby popping machine for her that it.They made sona so blind and dumb what to say.nobody is noticing hypocrisy of ishwari.😕 Bacha hain toh respect milegi .

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes, happy to see both the family bonding, but Ishwari's thought process behind that killed the happiness.. And Sona's belief without confirmation from her part was not ok, otherwise fab episode.

Felt uneasiness while watching Ishwari's extra care towards Sona's family members just by the thought that Sona is carrying Dev's child.. so sad.. so as you said the situation will get reverse when the news turned out not true..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't want to comment on sonas dumbness because it is not going to help!

Is this track not about infertility but just to show is that ish is not right about anything? First fever, then ayan & now pregnancy! Now they can show ish even more nasty towards sona if she is not prcnant!

My head is spinning with all the possibilities & to show them they are dumbing down one ow of the nicest female characters I have seen in a long time.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Absolutely agreed. Her behaviour didn't look motherly to me. It looked as if someone taking care of the golden goose who is about to lay golden egg. If the eggs don't come, the goose will be served on dinner table.

Originally posted by: Rithu0203

Yes, happy to see both the family bonding, but Ishwari's thought process behind that killed the happiness.. And Sona's belief without confirmation from her part was not ok, otherwise fab episode.


Felt uneasiness while watching Ishwari's extra care towards Sona's family members just by the thought that Sona is carrying Dev's child.. so sad.. so as you said the situation will get reverse when the news turned out not true..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Lol... True. This track is about OTT drama, period. I wonder if the women who has gone through infertility issues finds this offensive. They have turned a serious issue into a joke. Not even women who strongly suspect that they are pregnant announce pregnancy until everything is confirmed. This is so surreal and idiotic that I totally forgot Friday's awesome episode.

Originally posted by: preethik

I don't want to comment on sonas dumbness because it is not going to help!

Is this track not about infertility but just to show is that ish is not right about anything? First fever, then ayan & now pregnancy! Now they can show ish even more nasty towards sona if she is not prcnant!

My head is spinning with all the possibilities & to show them they are dumbing down one ow of the nicest female characters I have seen in a long time.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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good luck for your exam! ⭐️

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