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i am usually a silent observer, I watch only handful of them and this really caught my attention after a while...
The Anika I loved was the one who gave tit for tat!
When Shivay threw money at her, she broke his windshield and returned the money to fix his car!
When someone raised their hands on her she stopped them gave it right back...
I completely understand why she married Shivaay, simply because her brother's life was at stake. But I would love to see her take the mangalsutra out and sign the divorce papers without a blink and return the favor.
My reasons:
Marriage to me is sacred, but a forced one is not. Anika stands for strength and I would not like to see that disappear! She can mentally accept him as her husband if she's likes, possibly because she is in love or because she believes in the ritual. But her actions of removing the signs of a wedding will uphold her respect, the respect of every woman just like her, and she should not stay quite when is accused as she was today. She was forced and this is a very important factor to consider .
This, signing the divorce papers may sound like an easy escape but staying in the marriage is also not the right thing. What are we teaching through the acceptance of a forced marriage?
Today we as audience know shivaay likes her somewhere deep down. But this act of forceful marriage and our acceptance would show that it is acceptable or rather the right norm for a woman to put up with such situations and emerge out of it successfully. She can achieve the same coming out of it too.
Shivaay and the rest will eventually Realize their faults and come down to ask for Anika's hand that is the right way to go. It is not about showing that you are right and see that is why they are now begging for forgiveness. It is more about righteousness and self respect. She too doesn't have a family of her own who who protect her and fight for her. So is she more gullible to people's thoughtlessness? Rather , is it ok with people with family to take advantage of her?
I brought this up since from very personal experiences I have seen that this is a very common thing for people to say, "well what is done is done and now manage it." But what a woman truly goes through in such a situation is something directors hesitate to show and we do not want to see...sad but true.
I wish they show Anika walk out of it with her head held high and not loose the strength she had in the beginning. Also this will make them think- she walked out which means she was not after money...then what went wrong?
I wish...
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