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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shaffa

Avni is not undisciplined she is a 10 year old child who just wants a normal family. She is just finding out the truth about her parents. People are calling her najayaaz bas...d with haltered.

Ashish in front of reporters refused to recognize her and then came to say sorry, Ashish has let Avni down in every way not once has he been supportive off her his mother called her and Asha filthy names and he did nothing.

Daya is blackmailing her son and Torturing him mentally she is Forcing him into a marriage he doesn't want. keeping the truth from Neela. Bulling her servants treating people in lower class as dirt.

Asha supported Avni and told Ashish the truth for the last 11 years what they have done isn't Avin's
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Daya is the one who is undisciplined and uncultured!!!!

Avni only threw a stone once her threshold was crossed!!!!







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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shaina_b




Daya is the one who is undisciplined and uncultured!!!!

Avni only threw a stone once her threshold was crossed!!!!




I am interested in Avni's mental health - slowly but surely as the story is unfolding she is showing symptoms of a severely troubled child - that is being undisciplined and ill mannered . Initially her school principal brought it to Asha's attention. Next Neela noticed it. Both of these women do not know about Avni's home situation.

At home - she first slaps her Nani, then punches and pushes Kia, and now throws rocks at her Dadi - until one of the rocks caused her physical injury. I am not going into her verbal behavior. Her mother does not know how to deal with the situation - on the contrary we have Avni attending to her mother's psychological concerns!

This girl needs psychological help irrespective of whether the situation gets better or not. She needs to learn to cope in a healthy manner. Turning a blind eye by blaming circumstances is not a solution because that involves suppression of feelings!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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AVNI has been robbed of her childhood. She has been made to grow up too early to take decisions for the adults who have refused to live up to their age.
I guess this can be attributed to her behaviour.



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Posted: 9 years ago
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I dont disagree that Avni needs help, but i do disagree that she's uncultured/illmannered/etc.

shes acting as any ADULT would in that situation, if someone called you a najaayaz child, spouted nonsense about your mother, tried to keep your father 'imprisoned' (which is the impression that ashish has been giving her for ages now), dont tell me you wouldnt get angry. dont tell me you wouldnt want to throw a rock at her. you WOULD, but because you knew the legal consequences, you'd probably try to hold yourself back. this child is being forced to react because no one is listening to her heart breaking. her mum's too busy wallowing in self pity, her father is too busy hiding in his mum's pallu. the only real stability she has is Ali, who, bechaara, tries to keep her sane. asha does tell her to stay respectful and be kind. and the episode where she saved neela just shows what a beautiful soul she has. she is also very quick to forgive, like she did Kiya. dont tell me these are traits of an ill-mannered, uncivilised child.

every 'well-mannered', 'kind' 'civilised' person has a limit, even as an adult. but because adults have years of experience in holding things in and an understanding of the law, we hold ourselves back. avni has not had the time to develop that particular skill yet and i dont think its right to call her uncivilised or ill-mannered for that. save those words for the 60year old who's threatening to KILL A CHILD to get her way.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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The biggest uncivilised person is daya here! Avni is just heartbroken child,who had to mature way before her time. Try stepping into her shoes for a minute and see she feels. Anyway I'm finally loving the show!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: drafsul

Yes Avni's actions were ill mannered towards her dadi but its not that serious as being called criminal ... she is a little child when kids get frustrated they do throw things around oeven over little things and here avni's whole wirld is collapsing .. if a kid bullies them some kids do react by pushing that kid ... she did enter the house by stealth but she did mean to steal anything infact she didn't even eat the food that was offered to her there she only came for her father ... she is ill mannered only towards the ppl who ill treat her in the first plasce ... she just needs to learn to keep calm and not react violently bus now her mother should concentrate on her grooming ... anyways what avni said today to ashish and dayaben isn't realistic at all .. no kid speaks like that .. they are showing avni over the top ... avni toh phir bhi bacchi hai miss daya ben is such a matured old person but still she ill treats so many ppl ... even though avni is badly hurt and going through a lot right now her behaviour isnt correct and she should be rectified which can be done just by ayesha being a proper mother to her her and taking right actions .. Dayaben is such an elder person lekin itni choti bacchi se aise baat karte hue itni si bhi jhijak nahin aayi unko ... unke buddhe ghode bete ne unko dhoka diya osme us massom bacchi ka kya dosh .. but she is still calling her son mera batook aur woh massom jaan jiske haath main kuch nahin thha usse itni sari cheezein suna di .. she is the one who can be called criminal ... she is cheating neela by hiding ashish's truth , she is emotinally torturing her own son , she threatens ashish to smile otherwise she will harm ayesha and avni ( gosh such a psyco ) , she speaks so much about morals and good upbringing but does not have the courage to take up the responsibility of her sons mistakes .. what kind of a moral is it to snatch away a child's father .. what kind of moral is it to make a child suffer .. okay don't accept ayesha but what about avni ... dayaben is the one who is mentally ill due to her hatred and she is the one who seriously needs help



I liked what was said. Actually a 10 year old child throwing a stone and hurting someone is not considered a crime at any place in today's world. However using the B. word on a child by an adult is a crime in India. Forced marriage is a crime at any given place on earth whatever the reason be. And that Dayaben was forcing her kids to kill someone. What is Asha's fault or more so Avni's. I can not believe that in 21st century that is a problem when it was not a hundred years back.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Avni doesn't have a mental problem if anyone dose it Daya she really needs to see a psychologist

Daya is blackmailing both her son, with Ashish she is playing with his emotions she is tormenting him to choose her and Neela over Asha and Avni, she is lying to Neela and Hemmat the man she hold in such high esteem, that being two faced

Kethan she is using him to do her dirty work all he wants is her approval and love and to be recognized that he is as good as Ashish if not better not only in business but at home as well he loves his wife and daughter , but Daya knows all this and manipulate him and uses him with emotional blackmail

Daya needs to be admitted in to a mental hospital

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Avni is a product of Ashish's spinelessness, Asha's decision and Dayavanti's conservative attitude. As a mother of a 11 year old, I can without a doubt say that what Avni is, is not her fault. Children are like wet clay. It is in the hands of parents, friends and society to mold them. It is unfortunate that Avni has to take the blame of being an undisciplined ill mannered child when the fault lies elsewhere.

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