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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Payalj_


I didn't call her a prostitute. I called her an emotional fool who is letting others take advantage of her. There is a huge difference.

In one case a woman acts with mercenary objectives. In the second one she is being taken advantage of in the name of love. With regards to advantage also doesn't mean use and throw. It also means a relationship in which one is coeerced to give much much more than one receives .

A man can love a woman but still be insensitive towards her feelings. That is lack of empathy and understanding. I don't know from where prostitution of all things jumped into this

Please don't put your words in my mouth.

Just wanted to clarify the meaning of my words and state what I meant here. I don't want to discuss anything other than this as I know our thought process and way of perceiving situations is totally different. So let's just agree to disagree.


Thanks for the clarification and I am glad to know that you agree that he loves his wife and he is not just using her body . The words like using her body and showering love only in the bedroom suggested something else ...

That's true we can never be on the same page ...so let's agree to disagree ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't know if I watch the same serial as many here ...Dev supported Sonakshi in front of everyone when Neha and RR were accusing her...he stood against his mom whom he considers as God when he felt his wife was forced to follow something she doesn't want to ...and he didn't allow his BIL to say anything against his wife ...


Regarding only assuring her in the bedroom...he did that because only in bedroom Sonakshi shared her feelings and her side of story ..so when someone shares something do people expect him to go out and announce to the whole family that he is with his wife ...

He supported his wife's decision of bringing Ranveer home in front of the whole family not just in the bedroom..I wonder what people expect from this show..

A small tiff between husband and wife is blown our of proportion and made to look like as if the wife is being tortured and intimacy between husband and wife is compared to prostitution . Only in prostitution a man uses a women's body to fulfill his desire

I understand people have different POV but commenting get on members who appreciate good scenes as teenagers is little too much ...I don't understand this logic..if you support a male character then you are a fan girl ..if you appreciate some romantic scenes then you are a immature teenager ...so what makes one a sensible member ...I guess finding faults in each episode and spreading negatively .

I never knew there is so much hatred for Dev's character



Bang on dear...!!!👏

After reading one of the comments here, i really felt bad on how can people even use such statements. Or if i am watching some other show.

You have said it all. Really thankful to you for this...🤗
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Posted: 9 years ago
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See I didn't want to sound rude but the word prostitution really got my goat . I am sorry for that.

Please understand that our opinions are totally dependent on our stage in life and our life experiences. There is nothing known as right or wrong. Opinions and perceptions are also fluid. So that is why I said that let's just agree to disagree.

Just wanted to clarify my position 😊

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur


Bang on dear...!!!👏

After reading one of the comments here, i really felt bad on how can people even use such statements. Or if i am watching some other show.

You have said it all. Really thankful to you for this...🤗


🤗...Thanks dear...even I felt the same after reading some comments in the forum and I do feel bad if someone judges forum members ..

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Payalj_

@yyy

See I didn't want to sound rude but the word prostitution really got my goat . I am sorry for that.

Please understand that our opinions are totally dependent on our stage in life and our life experiences. There is nothing known as right or wrong. Opinions and perceptions are also fluid. So that is why I said that let's just agree to disagree.

Just wanted to clarify my position 😊


I did not get offended by your post...certain words like "using body" was pointing to something to else so I wrote what I felt ,my intention was not to attack anyone ...I feel bad when people judge forum members based on which reel character they wish to support ...every person is different and they express their opinions on different manner...

I completely understand and respect your POV...our perspectives are dependent on our personal experiences and that makes the discussion interesting...


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Payalj_

A man can love a woman but still be insensitive towards her feelings. That is lack of empathy and understanding. I don't know from where prostitution of all things jumped into this


Couldn't resist after reading the sort of debate and find both sides arguments correct in their own context and logic anyways

@Payalj: Fully agree with the line but there is another side of the story. A man may ill treat his wife but still can love (rape) his wife and wife has no option but to give in.

The following comments have nothing to do with KRPKAB - but will appreciate some views if you folks like to respond.

I could never understand how a wife who is ill treated mentally and sometimes physically, can stand such husbands in bed..

I also can't understand how any husband can have a physical relation if the wife is not interested and says NO. Only a psycho can find pleasure after that No.

Both the above things happen in real life and people just carry on.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: NBT-BV


Couldn't resist after reading the sort of debate and find both sides arguments correct in their own context and logic anyways

@Payalj: Fully agree with the line but there is another side of the story. A man may ill treat his wife but still can love (rape) his wife and wife has no option but to give in.

The following comments have nothing to do with KRPKAB - but will appreciate some views if you folks like to respond.



I could never understand how a wife who is ill treated mentally and sometimes physically, can stand such husbands in bed..

I also can't understand how any husband can have a physical relation if the wife is not interested and says NO. Only a psycho can find pleasure after that No.

Both the above things happen in real life and people just carry on.


Love and sex are two totally different things and can't be equated under any circumstances. Men are different from women and can have physical relations without being emotionally involved. That can be pure lust . And when they do it without consent that's rape.

These acts cant be compared with love under any circumstances. Women all over the world suffer in their married life due to this and there are several socio economic driving factors.

In this show there is no such factor involved.

Here I was discussing about a woman who is emotionally abused on a daily basis by her in laws and the husband's love is so superficial that he happily overlooks it as long as he is not inconvenienced.

Problem is people like to categorise things as black and white. While it is not so. There are thousands of shades of grey also. Love also comes in various strengths and shades.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Payalj_


Love and sex are two totally different things and can't be equated under any circumstances. Men are different from women and can have physical relations without being emotionally involved. That can be pure lust . And when they do it without consent that's rape.


As I said in my earlier post - my comment is not related to KRPKAB.
Though you are right but IMO Love and sex are not two different things but manifestation of the same romantic emotional relationship in a man and woman (outside the family and friends). Love without sex can't exits in that relationship but sex can which is marital rape.

My point was how a man / woman feel in such a relationship and can carry on having sex but no love.

Anyways, thanks for yr comment😆😆


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Originally posted by: NBT-BV


As I said in my earlier post - my comment is not related to KRPKAB.
Though you are right but IMO Love and sex are not two different things but manifestation of the same romantic emotional relationship in a man and woman (outside the family and friends). Love without sex can't exits in that relationship but sex can which is marital rape.

My point was how a man / woman feel in such a relationship and can carry on having sex but no love.

Anyways, thanks for yr comment😆😆



Actually I had replied though indirectly. Answer is Men easily can and the main culprit is the upbringing and the gender inequalities. Male psyche is also different.

As regards to women there are several socio economic causes. Not everyone is lucky enough to be financially capable or have a supportive family. So they carry on in front of others as if everything is fine though they may be shattered inside one can't show one's wounds in public nor let the children be affected.

It's a cruel fact but it is, dying a bit every day and smiling in front of everyone
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dont know about remaining points but dev should now shut up mamiji

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