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mena_k

@mena_k

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

What Sona must do now, stop giving space to Ishwari's melodrama, walk out immediately from the place where this lady would be sitting If she starts with her rona dhona. Sona need not to show how sympathetic or how much she cares or understands Ishwari's pain for Neha. Tell Dev directly, look dear as you and your family don't want me to get involved in this business do not ever talk about her or give any reasons of what you can or cannot do related to her when with me. Period.

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randomramblings

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

well my observation is Dev usually gives it back to GKB as long as Ishwari is missing from the scene. From Day 1 even before Dev and sona were in relationship, he never backed off from showing GKB her place. ( remember the pocha scene??, neha blaming sona... )

In the presence of Ishwari I think he remains silent as he knows that somewhere Ishwari might get offended knowing her feeling of " gratitude " towards mamaji's family. Ishwari tries please GKB at any cost even though she might not personally like it herself.

Knowing Dev, he would never want to hurt his mom either intentional or unintentional. so he chooses to literally turn a blind eye, become deaf or what ever you call in presence of Ishwari.

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randomramblings

@randomramblings

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: ltelidevara
I feel yelling is not at all. uncommon in Indian families. But that won't lead to lifelong feuds when people who are in closer circle are involved in that.
When a couple are going through testing times,when misunderstandings got them on the verge of thinking about separation it is advisable for others to give them space and time.

Neha is not wrong in asking her family to stay away and leave her alone. A good retrospection will definitely makes the mind see a clear picture.
Sonakshi has this tendency to interfere in everything and anything. If the family yelled and blamed her she only is responsible.
Discussions won't work always. Especially if the person in question is like Neha who hates interference.

But I know the CVs will drive the story towards Sona finding the solution and doing the patch up.
Come onWe are used to only female leads emerge Mahan while the heroes clap and praise their counterparts. Long live Indian TV heroines! Kudos Ishita,Akshara,Gopi and the latest entrant Somakshi !

Be ready Dev Babu to smile and shower praises
Not to forget Neha get ready with a thanks giving speech to Sonakshi the great for saving your marriage.

🤣 very true, some times , sitting idle with no zero interference with the so called family members concern does do wonders. ( speaking from self experience here). when left to ourselves our mind has the ability to process the events and there is no better judge than our inner voice/gut feeling which either makes us more stubborn or mellows us down.

Dev does not need a reason to shower praises on his wife. 😆😆 .

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_Payalj_

@_Payalj_

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: randomramblings
well my observation is Dev usually gives it back to GKB as long as Ishwari is missing from the scene. From Day 1 even before Dev and sona were in relationship, he never backed off from showing GKB her place. ( remember the pocha scene??, neha blaming sona... )
In the presence of Ishwari I think he remains silent as he knows that somewhere Ishwari might get offended knowing her feeling of " gratitude " towards mamaji's family. Ishwari tries please GKB at any cost even though she might not personally like it herself.

Knowing Dev, he would never want to hurt his mom either intentional or unintentional. so he chooses to literally turn a blind eye, become deaf or what ever you call in presence of Ishwari.

How sweet. So to appease his mother he lets his relatives treat his wife like a stray dog. After all his mother might feel bad if her relations are insulted. What is the value of a wife's respect and emotions.

And that proves that his love for Sonakshi is pure and not physical!!!! Sorry can't argue with this logic. Peace out

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Jyoti Thakur

@JyotiBThakur

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: _Payalj_
From where I am standing it is totally Sonakshi fault in every possible way.
A guy lets you get humiliated constantly by his family and keeps his mouth shut. But then gets all lovey dovey emotional and super understanding in the bedroom and you allow him the full use of your body and love.

Sorry, if i am being rude. But, I am disgusted at this line of yours.

And i am not a teenager dear. For your kind information. Learn to respect others POV too. People can have a different perspective of things. That doesn't make their choices worse and your's best.

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Shaun

@Jade0001

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: _Payalj_
From where I am standing it is totally Sonakshi fault in every possible way.
A guy lets you get humiliated constantly by his family and keeps his mouth shut. But then gets all lovey dovey emotional and super understanding in the bedroom and you allow him the full use of your body and love.

You interfere in matters where your opinion is not welcome and for people who don't care about you.

See Sonakshi is literally asking for it and hence getting it. That is why I am happily skipping the episodes. As far as the trps*- they never had any and Internet is full of teenagers sighing over the neck kisses and hand kisses and sweet nothings and so on.

I'm aghast right now please tell me if a married woman spends time with her husband does that mean she is wrong

their marriage is very young and Dev is learning slowly how to handle his marriage not all marriages have smooth sailing likewise DevAKshi too will have their share of problems but its wrong to say that Sonakshi allows her husband full use to her body

I'm a young adult no teenager I don't fret over intimate scenes either subtle kisses

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dhank

@dhank

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: yyy
So is Ranveer an outsider now ? He is still part of Dixit family ...in fact more close to Dixit family than RR is...

There is something called as respecting others privacy ..when repeatedly Neha is asking her not to interfere why is Sona not respecting that ... Sona has been asked by Ishwari ,Neha and Ranveer not to interfere in their matter yet she does the opposite .She is inviting trouble for herself and for her husband .

Dev has supported her always when it comes to Neha''s matter in front of everyone and inside his bedroom too but I won't be surprised if he loses his patience ...

Being part of the family doesn't mean you have to interfere in every matter ...

I repeat😆

1st time even I felt WTH Sona interefering??isnt dev enough to handle?/bachi kuchi kasar is done by isuue now y she want neha??aaa bail mujhe maar

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404_NotFound

@404_NotFound

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

I don't know if I watch the same serial as many here ...Dev supported Sonakshi in front of everyone when Neha and RR were accusing her...he stood against his mom whom he considers as God when he felt his wife was forced to follow something she didnt want to ...and he didn't allow his BIL to say anything against his wife ...

Regarding only assuring her in the bedroom...he did that because only in bedroom Sonakshi shared her feelings and her side of story ..so when someone shares something do people expect him to go out and announce to the whole family that he is with his wife ...

He supported his wife's decision of bringing Ranveer home in front of the whole family not just in the bedroom..I wonder what people expect from this show..

A small tiff between husband and wife is blown our of proportion and made to look like as if the wife is being tortured and intimacy between husband and wife is compared to prostitution . Only in prostitution a man uses a women's body to fulfill his desire

I understand people have different POV but commenting on members who appreciate good scenes as teenagers is little too much ...I don't understand this logic..if you support a male character then you are a fan girl ..if you appreciate some romantic scenes then you are a immature teenager ...so what makes one a sensible member ...I guess finding faults in every episode and spreading negatively .

I never knew there is so much hatred for Dev's character

Edited by yyyy - 8 years ago

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_Payalj_

@_Payalj_

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Posted: 8 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Jade0001

I'm aghast right now please tell me if a married woman spends time with her husband does that mean she is wrong
their marriage is very young and Dev is learning slowly how to handle his marriage not all marriages have smooth sailing likewise DevAKshi too will have their share of problems but its wrong to say that Sonakshi allows her husband full use to her body
I'm a young adult no teenager I don't fret over intimate scenes either subtle kisses

Intimacy is the cement for a husband wife's relationship and is very important. But the husband stays quiet while his wife is constantly being humiliated by his relatives. Is it so important for the wife to overlook such severe lapses in the name of love and act loving to him. Marriage is not a one way track made of sacrifices of one. Both have to chip in.

Staying quiet when his relatives are Barking just because his mummy will feel bad as they had helped her a lot theory is not acceptable to me. What about the wife's feelings?

And the guy who gives two hoots about the wife's feelings in public suddenly becomes romantic in the bedroom?

What do you call it? I call it behaviour changing as per his needs and wants. Worst case is Sonakshi is not shown objecting even once to this behaviour. Why can't she tell him that she is not there to the take the abuses of his relatives? Adjusting with his family is fine and expected but that cannot include taking humiliation to this level.

Further what sort of love is this on Dev's part which is so selfish and self centered? Let the wife be humiliated in public but act romantic in the bedroom at night, make her feel great and then start the same cycle next morning. Sonakshi is an idiot if she is equating this to love

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_Payalj_

@_Payalj_

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Posted: 8 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: yyy
I don't know if I watch the same serial as many here ...Dev supported Sonakshi in front of everyone when Neha and RR were accusing her...he stood against his mom whom he considers as God when he felt his wife was forced to follow something she doesn't want to ...and he didn't allow his BIL to say anything against his wife ...

Regarding only assuring her in the bedroom...he did that because only in bedroom Sonakshi shared her feelings and her side of story ..so when someone shares something do people expect him to go out and announce to the whole family that he is with his wife ...

He supported his wife's decision of bringing Ranveer home in front of the whole family not just in the bedroom..I wonder what people expect from this show..

A small tiff between husband and wife is blown our of proportion and made to look like as if the wife is big tortured and intimacy between husband and wife is compared to prostitution . Only in prostitution a man uses a women's body to fulfill his

I never knew there is so much hatred for Dev's character

I didn't call her a prostitute. I called her an emotional fool who is letting others take advantage of her. There is a huge difference.

In one case a woman acts with mercenary objectives. In the second one she is being taken advantage of in the name of love. With regards to advantage also doesn't mean use and throw. It also means a relationship in which one is coeerced to give much much more than one receives .

A man can love a woman but still be insensitive towards her feelings. That is lack of empathy and understanding. I don't know from where prostitution of all things jumped into this

Please don't put your words in my mouth.

Just wanted to clarify the meaning of my words and state what I meant here. I don't want to discuss anything other than this as I know our thought process and way of perceiving situations is totally different. So let's just agree to disagree.

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