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Posted: 9 years ago

It's 1:30 in the morning and I was completing an assignment, thought of taking a break so watched the episode. Let me start by saying that the show is getting worse every passing day, which is why I'm making a post at this hour.

Some genuine questions for people who're going to give me the 'Positive post kab banaogi', 'We love Dev with all his flaws' and 'Wait and watch' kinda comments.

1. Have you seen an Indian mother who is okay with the idea of her daughter getting divorced for no apparent reason? (Some would say financial crisis is reason enough) Do you people actually think that Ranveer's financial status is enough reason for breaking a marriage? In this case, Neha knew about his status, he didn't con her.

2. Have you seen people randomly popping out of nowhere and yelling at each other? (Example- Ranveer, Dev, Mamiji)

3. Have you ever seen a family that avoids to talk about problems even during a crisis? (Ishwari is still not talking to Neha about the problem instead she's assuring her about her luxurious future. What kind of mother would support her child in a nonsense decision like that?)

4. Have you ever seen family members talking to a newly wedded woman like shit, yelling at her, blaming her and insulting her for trying to solve their problems?

5. Have you ever seen a man as spineless as Dev? He can't hear a word against his "wife" when Ranveer says it but it's okay if his family says it. What lau!

CVs, throwing few cuddly, aww-worthy Devakshi moments to cover up your shitshow is not gonna get you TRPs. Better stop this nonsense before it goes out of hand.

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Posted: 9 years ago

So is Ranveer an outsider now ? He is still part of Dixit family ...in fact more close to Dixit family than RR is...

There is something called as respecting others privacy ..when repeatedly Neha is asking her not to interfere why is Sona not respecting that ... Sona has been asked by Ishwari ,Neha and Ranveer not to interfere in their matter yet she does the opposite .She is inviting trouble for herself and for her husband .

Dev has supported her always when it comes to Neha''s matter in front of everyone and inside his bedroom too but I won't be surprised if he loses his patience ...

Being part of the family doesn't mean you have to interfere in every matter ...

Edited by yyyy - 9 years ago

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mena_k

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: yyy
So is Ranveer an outsider now ? He is still part of Dixit family ...in fact more close to Dixit family than RR is...

There is something called as respecting others privacy ..when repeatedly Neha is asking her not to interfere why is Sona not respecting that ... Sona has been asked by Ishwari ,Neha and Ranveer not to interfere in their matter yet she does the opposite .She is inviting trouble for herself and for her husband .

Dev has supported her always when it comes to Neha''s matter in front of everyone and inside his bedroom too but I won't be surprised if he loses his patience ...

Being part of the family doesn't mean you have to interfere in every matter ...

Sona stopped talking about or to Neha after the day Neha came back to Dixit house and Ishwari asked Sona to stay out of it. But then Neha became the reason for her HM cancellation, Neha was seen watching Dev-Sona's romantic moments in the garden. Which person in their right mind would not get involved with so much happening around which affects their life directly. So Sona is forced to get involved not by choice but forcibly. If she doesn't tomorrow Ishwari might suggest Dev, leave Sona since your sisters is unhappy seeing you two husband and wife together as she got divorced and could not be with her husband anymore. Sona has no choice with all those complaining manipulating ladies around but poke her nose and fix the issue.

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HaiMiz

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Posted: 9 years ago

1. Families yell...at least I have seen families yelling because you know it'll be forgotten and forgiven coz its your family. ( i don't mean Radha Rani yelling. She has zero rights to do so in that family)

2. It takes time for most families to accept a new member into their fold. While I will never condone Ishwari's need to keep Sona away from Dev, I understand that it isn't easy for a Mil to welcome her daughter-in-law's interference in her daughter's life (what IShwari does or does not do for Neha is secondary to the MIL-DIL equation in this discussion) especially since Sona hasn't been a part of Dixit family long enough. One may ask what has time gotta do with. But it has. Time and experience add to the depth of relationships.

3. While I fully understand Sona's desperation to do her best to fix Neha and Ranveer's problem, I cannot help but feel she is overdoing her part. I get it that it maybe her personality and she desperately wants whats best for Neha.

But one should give each other space and freedom, be it family or friends, so that each operates in one's own comfort zone. Overstepping bounds is wrong on both sides...especially when you are still trying to figure out the relationship.

I know this is tele show and Sona's stance is in-character but in real life there are times one needs to make a call on what can and cannot be fixed by us. Here, the conflict is necessary to move the story forward and hence, we need to take it in the stride even though it does not make for a pleasant watch.Also, life isn't always pleasant...and the viewers of this show pride themselves for watching it coz its closest to reality than anything else on tele.

Edited by SandyAquarium - 9 years ago

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BlueJayFire

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Posted: 9 years ago

Sona should stop right now if you ask me. If she had accidentally met Ranveer's bhabi thats a different thing. But when everyone is asking her to stay out of it, she hasnt taken the tikka to solve world problem.

On another hand, Ish is driving me crazy...person can never be happy if they are after luxuries..there are going to be ups and downs in life...Neha needs to understand that and what she needs most and loves Ranveer is - he looked at her as herself..wanted to spend his life for her pure innocence..

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_Payalj_

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Posted: 9 years ago

From where I am standing it is totally Sonakshi fault in every possible way.

A guy lets you get humiliated constantly by his family and keeps his mouth shut. But then gets all lovey dovey emotional and super understanding in the bedroom and you allow him the full use of your body and love.

You interfere in matters where your opinion is not welcome and for people who don't care about you.

See Sonakshi is literally asking for it and hence getting it. That is why I am happily skipping the episodes. As far as the trps*- they never had any and Internet is full of teenagers sighing over the neck kisses and hand kisses and sweet nothings and so on.

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randomramblings

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: _Payalj_
From where I am standing it is totally Sonakshi fault in every possible way.
A guy lets you get humiliated constantly by his family and keeps his mouth shut. But then gets all lovey dovey emotional and super understanding in the bedroom and you allow him the full use of your body and love.

You interfere in matters where your opinion is not welcome and for people who don't care about you.

See Sonakshi is literally asking for it and hence getting it. That is why I am happily skipping the episodes. As far as the trps*- they never had any and Internet is full of teenagers sighing over the neck kisses and hand kisses and sweet nothings and so on.

very aptly said. if we do not value ourselves no one will .sona needs to take a stand for herself not dev. no body needs a second person to remind us abt our self dignity irrespective of the gender.

u r right, give advise or take action only when asked to do it.

i disagree on ur comments abt dev and sonas relationship. it makes it sound do physical.

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_Payalj_

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: randomramblings

very aptly said. if we do not value ourselves no one will .sona needs to take a stand for herself not dev. no body needs a second person to remind us abt our self dignity irrespective of the gender.
u r right, give advise or take action only when asked to do it.
i disagree on ur comments abt dev and sonas relationship. it makes it sound do physical.

If his love is that pure why does it surface only in the bedroom and hides under the sofa in front of his mother and GKB. Mother I can still understand but GKB? how can you let your relatives insult your wife and stand mum?

Will he stand mum if GKB starts insulting his mother or even his sisters in the same vein?

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OmNaMaSteOm

@OmNaMaSteOm

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Posted: 9 years ago

Take a break from the show, watch 10 episodes in one go, then one can fast forward or skip scenes too. Thats what I am doing. I read LWU or just check the forum reactions I get a feel what happened.

I am tired of Sonakshi's drastic change in personality, that Elena had to remind that she is educated and can start with returning back to doing a job!

I am tired of Dev - Ishwari bond, Ishwari's constant mysterious personality, GKB crap, tired of Dev taking Sonakshi for granted, tired of Sonakshi taking herself for granted. Tired that the Dixits sisters are always discriminated. I miss the old show, not much analysis required. Now I have to read all the analysis by forum members to understand the head and tail of the show - they are pretty good! Each episode of the show makes me wonder where did the spirit go ?

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ltelidevara

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Posted: 9 years ago

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I feel yelling is not at all. uncommon in Indian families. But that won't lead to lifelong feuds when people who are in closer circle are involved in that.

When a couple are going through testing times,when misunderstandings got them on the verge of thinking about separation it is advisable for others to give them space and time.

Neha is not wrong in asking her family to stay away and leave her alone. A good retrospection will definitely makes the mind see a clear picture.

Sonakshi has this tendency to interfere in everything and anything. If the family yelled and blamed her she only is responsible.

Discussions won't work always. Especially if the person in question is like Neha who hates interference.

But I know the CVs will drive the story towards Sona finding the solution and doing the patch up.

Come onWe are used to only female leads emerge Mahan while the heroes clap and praise their counterparts. Long live Indian TV heroines! Kudos Ishita,Akshara,Gopi and the latest entrant Somakshi !

Be ready Dev Babu to smile and shower praises

Not to forget Neha get ready with a thanks giving speech to Sonakshi the great for saving your marriage.