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Posted: 9 years ago
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Wanted to collate some interesting posts...

I am not frustrated like Tia (yet). I get where Tia is coming from however -

I do think Dev needs to work on his listening and comprehension skills... and of course I am not sure if neha & ranvir have tried enough?

Sona however is running a covert operation .. She played with fire and got burnt... Nah not the Diwali spoiler.. the fire aka Ranvir and his bhabhi. I sensed frustration in Ranvir's bhabhi's tone. I am guessing RV didnt fully listen to his bhabhi and stormed to Ishwari Niwas...

Weird how Sona hasn't questioned Dev about the mention of lawyers. Even Ishwari looked perturbed when RV mentioned it.

I am on the fence with this one.. Should Sona have played modern day Gopi bahu or did she do the right thing by continuing with her open heart surgery. In the show perhaps the latter... because we know things need to move on.. in life... what would a woman do?

Would a surgeon perform an open heart surgery without proper equipment, staff and a stable patient?

PS: Meanwhile, sona works on mitaoing their dureeyan.. what a deep double meaning sentence woman.. muah

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Posted: 9 years ago
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whats a modern day Gopi- Bahu?
I noticed this word being used in this forum very often --Gopi-Bahu😕
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shilky88

whats a modern day Gopi- Bahu?

I noticed this word being used in this forum very often --Gopi-Bahu😕


Submissive bahu of another show
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen


Submissive bahu of another show


alright! Thanks 😊

Here is my POV..

I agree that unlike modern day Gopi-Bahu she is very determined to do what she thinks is correct but then her way of doing it is certainly wrong.

It is the channel which is wrong.

Ishwari is not supporting her...fine

She can always talk to other people like Mama ji or Dev. I dont think she made enough efforts to convince Dev and if there is anyone in Dixit house who can convince Dev in a right direction with correct intentions then its Sona only.

Dev doesn't listen to her and is sometimes extremely adamant...Fine

But then sooner or later she has to make attempts to fill that gap also so why not today?

Or is she planning to live rest of her life like this?..Dev doing what he thinks is right and Sona doing what she thinks is right without aligning with each other like matured/normal life partners.

Call it an open heart surgery or a covert operation but the way it is being performed by Sona is certainly not right.

Stubborn headed Dixit's logic - Its my way or highway.To me it appears as she has become one of those kind.

I am really not getting into who is right and who is wrong but HOW is indeed important here.

-Neha without telling anyone left her sasural

-Dev without telling anyone is on a mission to destroy Ranveer and family.

-Sona without telling anyone shows up in Ranveer's house.

Do we see any differences here between illogical Dixits and so called sensible Sona? I don't think so

Everyone including Sona is thinking as an individual and is acting accordingly.Everyone is pushing all kinds of button so as to see which one works for them.

As a result Ranveer is becoming more furious and infuriated with every move of Dixits...contradicting opinions coming from one family.

But hell yeah..😡Nobody in Dixit house thinks about him.

Dixits together are struggling to resolve one common issue" To ensure Neha's happiness and to do what is best for her at the moment in all aspects.

They are not pitted against each other to earn BEST PROBLEM SOLVER award.




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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shilky88



alright! Thanks😊


Here is my POV..

I agree that unlike
modern day Gopi-Bahu she is very determined to do what she thinks is correct
but then her way of doing it is certainly wrong.

It is the channel which
is wrong.


Ishwari is not
supporting her...fine

She can always talk to
other people like Mama ji or Dev. I dont think she made enough
efforts to convince Dev and if there is anyone in Dixit house who
can convince Dev in a right direction with correct intentions then its Sona
only.


Dev doesn't listen to
her and is sometimes extremely adamant...Fine

But then sooner or later
she has to make attempts to fill that gap also so why not today?


Or is she planning to
live rest of her life like this?..Dev doing what he thinks is right and Sona
doing what she thinks is right without aligning with each other like
matured/normal life partners.


Call it an open heart
surgery or a covert operation but the way it is being performed by Sona is
certainly not right.


Stubborn headed Dixit's
logic - Its my way or highway.To me it appears as she
has become one of those kind.


I am really not getting
into who is right and who is wrong but HOW is indeed important here.


-Neha without telling
anyone left her sasural

-Dev without telling
anyone is on a mission to destroy Ranveer and family.


-Sona without telling
anyone shows up in Ranveer's house.



Do we see any
differences here between illogical Dixits and
so called sensible Sona?I don't think so


Everyone including Sona
is thinking as an individual and is acting accordingly.Everyone is pushing all
kinds of button so as to see which one works for them.


As a result Ranveer is becoming more furious and infuriated with every move of Dixits...contradicting
opinions coming from one family.

</p>
<p>But hell yeah..😡Nobody in
Dixit house thinks about him.


Dixits together are
struggling to resolve one common issue" To ensure Neha's happiness and to do
what is best for her at the moment in all aspects.


They are not pitted
against each other to earn BEST PROBLEM SOLVER award.




nice one 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shilky88

I agree that unlike modern day Gopi-Bahu she is very determined to do what she thinks is correct but then her way of doing it is certainly wrong.

It is the channel which is wrong.

Lets review the channels Sona used.

1. She asked Neha if she wanted to speak or go out

2. She asked Neha to pick RV's calls

3. Then she promised Dev and Ishwari that they are family and she will help in solving Neha's problem.

4. She then brought RV home after being told to stay out of this

5. She then went to RV's home and very cordially spoke to her counterpart and left at a positive note

Except for step 4 I dont think any channel was wrong... Step 4 was mildly ambitious, but, Sona knows how badly lost love hurts, and she is trying to help when people dont even want to talk properly. What is wrong with Ishwari and mamaji going to RV's house to speak to his mum and bhabhi?

Ishwari is not supporting her...fine

She can always talk to other people like Mama ji or Dev. I dont think she made enough efforts to convince Dev and if there is anyone in Dixit house who can convince Dev in a right direction with correct intentions then its Sona only.

Dev doesn't listen to her and is sometimes extremely adamant...Fine

No not fine. That leads to major fights between them (remind yourself what happened with Vicky). They dont talk for days. He shows attitude by sleeping on the couch. If anything, Dev might have an even stronger reaction this time

But then sooner or later she has to make attempts to fill that gap also so why not today?

Or is she planning to live rest of her life like this?..Dev doing what he thinks is right and Sona doing what she thinks is right without aligning with each other like matured/normal life partners.

No she is planning on living her life like this. I hope she isnt. Because bit bu bit, cell by cell she is working relentlessly on helping Dev open up. She reminded him on her SR that they are first friends then spouses. Yesterday, by not saying anything, Dev automatically acknowledged that Sona isnt considered part of his family. Hopefully he can now work with her.

after she came back from RV's house she tried talking to Ishwari who shut her up with her drama and Dev who shut him up with romance.. She still managed to deliver the news to Dev before Dev say RV. Did you see how Dev reacted? He was frustrated but he acknowledged Sona's empathy. Its getting there

Call it an open heart surgery or a covert operation but the way it is being performed by Sona is certainly not right.

I am wondering the same.. Is it right or is it risky?

Stubborn headed Dixit's logic - Its my way or highway.To me it appears as she has become one of those kind.

I am really not getting into who is right and who is wrong but HOW is indeed important here.

-Neha without telling anyone left her sasural

-Dev without telling anyone is on a mission to destroy Ranveer and family.

-Sona without telling anyone shows up in Ranveer's house.

Do we see any differences here between illogical Dixits and so called sensible Sona? I don't think so

But Sona is contantly asking people to talk about the issue. Thanks for showing me a different perspective. I am intrigued by where this is going now

Everyone including Sona is thinking as an individual and is acting accordingly.Everyone is pushing all kinds of button so as to see which one works for them.

As a result Ranveer is becoming more furious and infuriated with every move of Dixits...contradicting opinions coming from one family.

But hell yeah..😡Nobody in Dixit house thinks about him.

Dixits together are struggling to resolve one common issue" To ensure Neha's happiness and to do what is best for her at the moment in all aspects.

They are not pitted against each other to earn BEST PROBLEM SOLVER award.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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I believe Sona is forced to do all what she is doing now because of the lack of support and lack of co-ordination in the Dixit family. She is trying different tactics and changing her approach but relentlessly pursuing because that is who she is. She always had been shown a nurturer, a caregiver, a compassionate soul. She is watching Neha wilting because of whatever reasons and just like she cannot watch people she cares about spoiling their health owing to her profession, she also cannot watch Neha throwing away her love and life for something so trivial, owing to her compassionate nature.
At her home all their problems were theirs to solve together as a family and here she is encountering only individuals and not family. Different people need different treatments and she will reach there finally. I only hope it will not be at the cost of her relationship with the Dixit family.

Dixits doesn't know how to face problems. Sona can either be like them and turn a blind eye to others suffering until it involves her or else she can show them how as a family they can face and solve problems. Because as a family they will be stronger than if they do it individually.

" The biggest mistake you could ever make is being too afraid to make one. You know that you tried everything and risked everything so that years later you have no regrets. You did all you could."
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well there is a big gap between Dev and Sona itself. For Ranveer Dev-Sona are a team and that's why the different approach confused him.. but for Sona I would point out one thing which I didnt yesterday - Dev has informed Sona that Ranveer didnt listen to his pleadings.. Dev neither mentioned about the lawyer or about his tone with Ranveer.. so there is a big chance Sona thought both of them are in the same page when she went ahead to meet Ranveer's bhaabhi..

Surprising is - even after knowing about the lawyer dhamki, everyone seemed ok and no one questioned Dev including Sona.. that comment was SO SO wrong, but how would Dev know it's wrong when no one corrects him..


Sona should stop this open heart surgery and firsy try to know Dev instead of the remaining clowns out there..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I guess you summed up everything nicely.👏
Sona needs to ensure that she is at peace with her husband before she gets into a mission Peace in Neha-Ranveer relationship.
Even if Sona is under wrong impression of not knowing about Lawyer stuff ,she could have at least kept Dev informed about her plans of meeting Ranveer and family.




Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Well there is a big gap between Dev and Sona itself. For Ranveer Dev-Sona are a team and that's why the different approach confused him.. but for Sona I would point out one thing which I didnt yesterday - Dev has informed Sona that Ranveer didnt listen to his pleadings.. Dev neither mentioned about the lawyer or about his tone with Ranveer.. so there is a big chance Sona thought both of them are in the same page when she went ahead to meet Ranveer's bhaabhi..

Surprising is - even after knowing about the lawyer dhamki, everyone seemed ok and no one questioned Dev including Sona.. that comment was SO SO wrong, but how would Dev know it's wrong when no one corrects him..


Sona should stop this open heart surgery and firsy try to know Dev instead of the remaining clowns out there..

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