Originally posted by: Shilky88
I agree that unlike modern day Gopi-Bahu she is very determined to do what she thinks is correct but then her way of doing it is certainly wrong.
It is the channel which is wrong.
Lets review the channels Sona used.
1. She asked Neha if she wanted to speak or go out
2. She asked Neha to pick RV's calls
3. Then she promised Dev and Ishwari that they are family and she will help in solving Neha's problem.
4. She then brought RV home after being told to stay out of this
5. She then went to RV's home and very cordially spoke to her counterpart and left at a positive note
Except for step 4 I dont think any channel was wrong... Step 4 was mildly ambitious, but, Sona knows how badly lost love hurts, and she is trying to help when people dont even want to talk properly. What is wrong with Ishwari and mamaji going to RV's house to speak to his mum and bhabhi?
Ishwari is not supporting her...fine
She can always talk to other people like Mama ji or Dev. I dont think she made enough efforts to convince Dev and if there is anyone in Dixit house who can convince Dev in a right direction with correct intentions then its Sona only.
Dev doesn't listen to her and is sometimes extremely adamant...Fine
No not fine. That leads to major fights between them (remind yourself what happened with Vicky). They dont talk for days. He shows attitude by sleeping on the couch. If anything, Dev might have an even stronger reaction this time
But then sooner or later she has to make attempts to fill that gap also so why not today?
Or is she planning to live rest of her life like this?..Dev doing what he thinks is right and Sona doing what she thinks is right without aligning with each other like matured/normal life partners.
No she is planning on living her life like this. I hope she isnt. Because bit bu bit, cell by cell she is working relentlessly on helping Dev open up. She reminded him on her SR that they are first friends then spouses. Yesterday, by not saying anything, Dev automatically acknowledged that Sona isnt considered part of his family. Hopefully he can now work with her.
after she came back from RV's house she tried talking to Ishwari who shut her up with her drama and Dev who shut him up with romance.. She still managed to deliver the news to Dev before Dev say RV. Did you see how Dev reacted? He was frustrated but he acknowledged Sona's empathy. Its getting there
Call it an open heart surgery or a covert operation but the way it is being performed by Sona is certainly not right.
I am wondering the same.. Is it right or is it risky?
Stubborn headed Dixit's logic - Its my way or highway.To me it appears as she has become one of those kind.
I am really not getting into who is right and who is wrong but HOW is indeed important here.
-Neha without telling anyone left her sasural
-Dev without telling anyone is on a mission to destroy Ranveer and family.
-Sona without telling anyone shows up in Ranveer's house.
Do we see any differences here between illogical Dixits and so called sensible Sona? I don't think so
But Sona is contantly asking people to talk about the issue. Thanks for showing me a different perspective. I am intrigued by where this is going now
Everyone including Sona is thinking as an individual and is acting accordingly.Everyone is pushing all kinds of button so as to see which one works for them.
As a result Ranveer is becoming more furious and infuriated with every move of Dixits...contradicting opinions coming from one family.
But hell yeah..😡Nobody in Dixit house thinks about him.
Dixits together are struggling to resolve one common issue" To ensure Neha's happiness and to do what is best for her at the moment in all aspects.
They are not pitted against each other to earn BEST PROBLEM SOLVER award.