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Posted: 9 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: tia.o


The jhol Dev did yesterday, had he sent Sona, by now Ranveer would have been meeting Neha already to talk.
So True.

Issiko kehte hai, jiska kaam usiko saaje. Dev babu, you concentrate on business. Yeh diplomacy tumse na ho payega.
Diplomacy to business me bhi required hoti hai,Company pata nahi kaise successful hai😆

Ishwari to Sona: I know my daughter. You don't know her. Our home is not like others.
Sona should gift a dictionary to Dixits.They are throwing words around without understanding its meaning.

Me: Nehin nehin Maataji, aapka ghar, ghar kahan hai? Wo to chiriya ghar hain jisse aap mandir bulati hain.

Aur agar aap aapki beti ko nehin janengi to kaun janega? After all, jabse woh aayee hai, aapne ek saath kitna time spend kiya hai. Baatein to aap dono ki khatam hi nehin hoti, by God.
🤣Sachi, they have super powers too.Telepathy.Ishwari understands everything without a word being spoken.

P.S. Extremely happy to see Sona back at work.
Finally 🥳

P.P.S. Today Sona and Neha's scene was excellently done. Bhabhi ho to aisi...
Yup

Dev: I used to stalk you to get a glimpse.That's the depth of my love which I didn't see in Ranveer.
Me:Since Sona understood him and forgave him,now Dev thinks his behavior was normal.If you love someone,stalking/drinking is the way to go.Calls or attempts to communicate face to face is overrated.
He is neither understanding Ranveer,nor Neha.

All Ishwari is doing is crying about Neha's situation.All whining, no action.And she is stopping the one person who is actually trying and acting maturely.
Sonakshi remembering the scene where Neha speaks up for Ranveer makes me think that she is going to apply reverse psychology now.

I liked Bijoy-Asha scene(as usual) but I am hating Elena-Vicky.The girl is falling in Vicky's traps and not using her brain.🤔

Edited by rose4ever - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#12
That's a very apt description of Dixits. They never sit down as family and discuss about their problem. Everyone is so secretive that it seems that they live in a spy camp with everyone with their own agenda...

Originally posted by: gmgi

Dixits love their image or the facade because then they don't have to face their failures as a family. They talk but doesn't listen, they hear but doesn't understand, they see but ignore everything that questions them. Any problems come they instead of facing it head on as a family they try to get rid of the problem without breaking their perfect image. None of them wants to make their hands dirty. They want to swim without getting wet. 😆

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Exactly. Sona is pure gold. She got excellent diplomacy skills from Asha. The way she handles every problem with sensitivity makes her a great asset and ally to have. Neha never had a friend who actually asked what she wanted and was willing to listen the unspoken words.

Sonakshi proved today what an awesome best friend she can be to Neha. I had numerous moments like that with my best friend. So may be I take them for granted. But Neha truly appreciated a strong, understanding and non-judgemental shoulder to cry on. She had a family but she never felt comfortable enough to be herself with them.

Once Sona opened the door, Neha started to remember and talk about Ranveer and her love. Because of Sona, Neha accepted comfort from Riya and Nikki.

Dev and Ishwari should thank Sona and let her handle all crisis from now on.

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Dixits should feel lucky that they got someone like sona who in truly real sense is GOLD. If only they realise this and value her. It will be interesting to know what will be reaction of both ishwari dev because right now sona is sticking up with her own POV rather than listening to these Self obsessed persons who told her to stay away . so glad to see sona getting back to her work.👏 how I wish to see dev to deal with problems with same level of maturity.

Edited by tia.o - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: rose4ever



Issiko kehte hai, jiska kaam usiko saaje. Dev babu, you concentrate on business. Yeh diplomacy tumse na ho payega.
Diplomacy to business me bhi required hoti hai,Company pata nahi kaise successful hai😆

Woh rishton mein profit or loss nehin dekha jaata naa. Dev Babu ko rishta kaise samajh mein aayenge batao.

Ishwari to Sona: I know my daughter. You don't know her. Our home is not like others.
Sona should gift a dictionary to Dixits.They are throwing words around without understanding its meaning.

Dictionary padne ke liye bhi akal chahiye. Ishwari ke paas to woh bhi nehin hain.

Dev: I used to stalk you to get a glimpse.That's the depth of my love which I didn't see in Ranveer.
Me:Since Sona understood him and forgave him,now Dev thinks his behavior was normal.If you love someone,stalking/drinking is the way to go.Calls or attempts to communicate face to face is overrated.
He is neither understanding Ranveer,nor Neha.

Dev actually thinks stalking is romance. Bhai wah!!! Aur communication? Woh jis ped ka naam hai, woh Dixit mansion ke mausam se compatible nehin hai. To wahan pe nehin ugta. Haan misunderstanding zaroor ugta hai.

All Ishwari is doing is crying about Neha's situation.All whining, no action.And she is stopping the one person who is actually trying and acting maturely.
Sonakshi remembering the scene where Neha speaks up for Ranveer makes me think that she is going to apply reverse psychology now.

That's what I recommended in my comment of my previous post. Neha is contrary girl. The only way you can make her do something if you tell her that she can't do it.

I liked Bijoy-Asha scene(as usual) but I am hating Elena-Vicky.The girl is falling in Vicky's traps and not using her brain.🤔

Elena was never a smart girl. No one changes overnight. Specially spawn of a snake like Radha.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well today I was SO SO happy seeing Sona-Neha hugging, my two favourites from the show 😊
All Neha needed was a friend to talk to. And she got one. Dev's justifying his criminal activity of stalking was not anymore surprising since he worships himself urf Ishwari part 2 😛.

But today Sona's actions were rightly directed. This girl has her priorities and steps in plan in right orders. First she checked and confirmed from Neha that she indeed loves Ranveer and didn't just go by her fancy assumptions which Dixits are famous for doing 👏. I am glad that Sona who herself loves the idea of 'love', didn't take Neha's emotions for granted and thought of wanting to know NEHA's feelings first, the hug aah 🤗. And once her was belief was affirmed by Neha's emotional outburst, she took it to the next level by discussing the matter with the other side of the people, people who treat her as Dixit, people to whom she is a representative of Dixit 👏. Way to go girl, no matter who acknowledges and who doesn't, you're indeed a Dixit now, none can change the fact . And she rightfully expressed her stand to bhabhi on this. Yes, this IS going to create problems as Ranveer is going to come tomorrow to Dixit Kaalkothri (thanks Dev for the right word 👍🏼) and blast on Dixits for having different stands on their issue. But at least the matter is being discussed about, people will have a platform to share their concerns and opinions about it !! Otherwise HOW on earth will the situation improve by Ishwari not having breakfast or standing behind the doors and listening to Neha's mourning, or Dev's failed bullying to Ranveer with lawyer warnings etc etc 👎🏼. There is a problem, one has to DEAL/SOLVE the problem. If the problem is created by man and not by situation, then the solution will have to be initiated by the man and not leave it to fate, God, time blah blah .


Go Sona go, create more and more noise about this issue until it's resolved, because Dixits have a tendency to mourn over the bad things of their lives till eternity and suffocate everyone in the Dixit Kaalkothri by not letting anyone enjoy some good times. But you belong to a healthy, cheerful and happy background Sona. You've let go of your self-respect, straight-forwardness, guts, friendzone with Dev (and almost your job) after getting married to Dixits, just save the last good thing Sona, don't let the LIFE inside you die at the cruel hands of Dixit Kaalkothri Niwaasi Fight for your right to breathe freely by removing the gloom around you🥳 Don't leave it for Dixits to bring happiness, they never could, they never would.
Edited by Pehchaan.Kaun - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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You are absolutely right. Sonakshi is a fighter. She fights for what she believes in and she fights for the people she loves.

But she doesn't fight the wrong person without a cause.

What Sona did today, Ishwari and Dev should have done had they really known Neha like they were claiming. They should have asked Neha questions and listened to her.

The way Sona was putting oil in Neha's hair was as maternal as it was comforting. There has been so many instances when my mother had done that for me.

It feels like being wrapped in the cuddliest and snuggliest blanket...

Ishwari never even spent two minutes with Neha nor did Dev and yet they claim to know what Neha wants.

You are right. Every person outside Dixit family considers Sona a Dixit except the Dixits themselves.

If Sona left it to Dev and Ishwari, Neha would have been miserable forever.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Well today I was SO SO happy seeing Sona-Neha hugging, my two favourites from the show 😊

All Neha needed was a friend to talk to. And she got one. Dev's justifying his criminal activity of stalking was not anymore surprising since he worships himself urf Ishwari part 2 😛.

But today Sona's actions were rightly directed. This girl has her priorities and steps in plan in right orders. First she checked and confirmed from Neha that she indeed loves Ranveer and didn't just go by her fancy assumptions which Dixits are famous for doing 👏. I am glad that Sona who herself loves the idea of 'love', didn't take Neha's emotions for granted and thought of wanting to know NEHA's feelings first, the hug aah 🤗. And once her was belief was affirmed by Neha's emotional outburst, she took it to the next level by discussing the matter with the other side of the people, people who treat her as Dixit, people to whom she is a representative of Dixit 👏. Way to go girl, no matter who acknowledges and who doesn't, you're indeed a Dixit now, none can change the fact . And she rightfully expressed her stand to bhabhi on this. Yes, this IS going to create problems as Ranveer is going to come tomorrow to Dixit Kaalkothri (thanks Dev for the right word 👍🏼) and blast on Dixits for having different stands on their issue. But at least the matter is being discussed about, people will have a platform to share their concerns and opinions about it !! Otherwise HOW on earth will the situation improve by Ishwari not having breakfast or standing behind the doors and listening to Neha's mourning, or Dev's failed bullying to Ranveer with lawyer warnings etc etc 👎🏼. There is a problem, one has to DEAL/SOLVE the problem. If the problem is created by man and not by situation, then the solution will have to be initiated by the man and not leave it to fate, God, time blah blah .


Go Sona go, create more and more noise about this issue until it's resolved, because Dixits have a tendency to mourn over the bad things of their lives till eternity and suffocate everyone in the Dixit Kaalkothri by not letting anyone enjoy some good times. But you belong to a healthy, cheerful and happy background Sona. You've let go of your self-respect, straight-forwardness, guts, friendzone with Dev (and almost your job) after getting married to Dixits, just save the last good thing Sona, don't let the LIFE inside you die at the cruel hands of Dixit Kaalkothri Niwaasi Fight for your right to breathe freely by removing the gloom around you🥳 Don't leave it for Dixits to bring happiness, they never could, they never would.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Tia ji, what a wonderful post..Tusse great ho..
I agree on your thoughts..There is no logic for anyone in Dixits. Everyone says they know Neha well.but they cant see it or direct her for betterment.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thank you. Dixits are wrapped up in misery of the past, entitlement for the present and not at all concerned for the future. People like that are actually more blind than an actual blind person.

Originally posted by: GeekSquad

Tia ji, what a wonderful post..Tusse great ho..

I agree on your thoughts..There is no logic for anyone in Dixits. Everyone says they know Neha well.but they cant see it or direct her for betterment.

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