||Sanskaari Gang's Chat Club#105 #Yes,We Are Family||MEMBERS ONLY

1.Say something about your hobby?

My hobby is reading. Not just novels or fictions. I love reading thought provoking articles.

2.Share any funny /memorable incident or experience from your childhood/college life?

Well , I think I have shared almost all funny incidents except the one I had during my internship It was funny for me , I am not sure whether it will make you 🤣 .This is top secret , even my sister is not aware of this . Please don't judge me based on this incident. Ok 😳

I did my block placement in Attapady (Basically a tribal area). I was staying in a building which was part of a convent with trainee teachers and with my best friend cum my block placement partner Jo .One day during our visit to a tribal settlement, we found marijuana cultivation. In Attapady though the cultivation and use is restricted by law ,they cultivate it in abundance. We were curious to know why the teenagers and the children are addicted to this , without any hesitance the tribes gave us few marijuana which was rolled like a cigarette. Later in our room we shared this with our other roommates, since it is December 31^st only one trainee teacher was there and she was a super cool, smart girl. She was like Why should boys have all the fun , Why you are not curious to know how does it influence our body and mind , In short, after 2 hours discussion and persuasion, we 3, me, Jo and Jincy decided to try it . We just had 3 or 4 puffs amid of cough and we got lost in the smoke. We lost track😲. We woke up the next evening. The room was a mess by that time, everything upside down, and we were in a state of delirium🤪. We were afraid that whether sister's heard the noise which we made in hang over. But we decided to visit them nonchalantly and they were surprised to know that we were in the room . They were like Tum log wahan room me tha, Didn't the noise of boars disturbed , apparently they thought that the noise they heard were made by the boars while attacking the cultivation .None of us were aware of the events happened after the fourth puff, we were in another world on Dec 31^st 2010 from 11.30 to Jan 1^st till 5 pm .

We were vibrant and immature then, hence we tried that deed , I don't regret , but I don't want anyone from our group to try it .

3.What would you change about your personality?

I should really stop letting the behavior of others affect my emotion.

4.What is your biggest fear ?

Losing my dear ones.😭

5.Do you rather follow your heart or head? State reasons?

I used to follow my heart blindly, and I have learn a number of lessons. Even now I consider the voice of heart, but I decide with my head. 😊

6.Do you believe that everything happens for a reason? State reasons for your answer.

Not necessarily. There are a lot of things which could avoid if we analyze the consequence, hence it didn't happen for a reason, it happened because our decision was stupid. For eg : I could avoid the torture I experienced if I was assertive enough to say NO at the right time , but I said Yes thinking that at least my family would be happy , but at the end neither I nor my family was happy . It didn't happen for a reason , it happened because I was stupid enough to believe that even though I am shattered ,the particular decision will make my family happy.
7. If the world froze for an afternoon and only you could move and no one could see you or remember what you did, what would you do?

There is nothing which I wish to do when no one could see or remember. I am not ashamed or afraid to do anything which I desire to do

8. What is the most important thing that guys should understand about the girl, and it seems to you that they do not understand?

The fact that all girls are not born to make your life comfortable and to support you to pursue your dreams and ambitions. They should understand that the girls do have aspirations and dreams and they have every right to pursue the same.

9. We all have our very own ways of relaxing and de-stressing. What is yours?

Meditation.

10.Do you like to stay in touch with people that have moved away or do you have a tendency to forget all about them?

If they have moved on or if I feel that I am causing disturbance to their life I won't keep in touch ,but that doesn't mean that I forgot them , I can't forget anyone who is or was related to my life.

11. What are the first three things that come to your mind when someone say the word 'love' ?

Only one word Jo, my best friend , my sister, my Jolly. Everything which I want in love, ie trust, respect and acceptance are in Jo's love. No one will ever love me like Jo. My father , mother and sister love me , because I am a good daughter and sister , I love them so much so that I have made enough sacrifices to make their life more comfortable, but I never loved Jo with same intensity . I can even write an essay on her.

12. That would you like as a surprise vacation? A resort in a remote island or a hotel at the top of a mountain?

A hotel at the top of mountain . Salto Chico Lodge , Chile is my dream place.

13.Is there something that you are really passionate about? If yes, then say something about that.

Writing. I used to write articles in academic journals, my college mates and professors believe that it was thought provoking write ups. But later in the midst of so many personal problems I couldn't write because of lack of reading. Besides how can I write when I lost inspiration to even live. Now I am back on track I should really read more and write more.

14. Do you think any of your CC friends have any special qualities that you like ? If yes, then share them

I like the positivity of Manisha, Confidence of Sana and I like Vaibhi's quality to not get overly attached to anyone.

15. When you were little, what did you want to be when you grow up ? and do you still want it ?

I wanted to be like Indira Gandhi, stern, bold and authoritative. Later I realized that it is not Indira Gandhi, but the admiration my father have for the successful people inspired me. Now I don't want to be like her or like anyone. All I want is I want to motivate those women who think that everything is over, I want to be a living example and to make them believe that going against the tide is tough but if we succeed it will make us content.

16. Do you believe in second chances?

It depends. Few people deserve it while certain people don't deserve even first chance.

17. Would you rather always say everything on your mind or never speak again?

I am blatantly honest. I want to keep certain things on my mind, but I really don't have any control on that, sooner or later I will speak up

18. Would you rather get rich through hard work or through winning the lottery ?

Through hard work

19. Either or Questions

a. Introvert or extrovert? Introvert

b.Winter or summer? Winter

c. Comedy or mystery? Both

d. Books or movies? Books

e.Personal chef or personal fitness trainer? Personal fitness trainer

f. Call or text? Text

g. Truth or dare? Truth

h. Picnic or nice restaurant? Picnic

i. Fiction or non-fiction? Non-fiction

j. Curly hair or straight hair? Curly

20. How do you treat people who annoy you for no reason ? (or they behave in a way which you feel annoying?)

Initially I will try to make them understand that their behavior is annoying, but if there is no change, I avoid them

21. Would you rather have x-ray vision or magnified hearing ?

X-ray vision.

22. Where would you live if you could live anywhere in the world?

I think, I want to be a nomad

23. The first forum that you visited when you had joined IF and who is your first IF friend ?

IPKKND forum, Sana is my first friend

24. Would you rather have nosy neighbors or noisy neighbors ?

Noisy neighbor

25. Do you belief in

a. Astrology? b. Extraterrestrial life ?

None .I will not believe in anything until I experience it personally.

SAMPRITI (HOT SEAT ANSWERS)

1. A change which u want to happen or u wanted to happen. What was the change?

Ans : Before hoping for a change in anybody else, I wish I could change the negative sides in my character , I am introvert , sometimes way too stubborn , also I should learn how to forget some unpleasant incidents and forgive people quickly which I fail to do sometimes so all that is my negative side and I want to change myself first.

2. If You r given a chance to bring back ur old days, old friends will u do it ?

Ans : No. I don't like repetition of anything, 😆future is always unknown and comes with new challenges whatever it is..good or bad , but it offers something new always , I respect the history but don't like to relive that 😆 yes, I miss some close people who were in my past and like my grandpa. but then I want him back in my present only,for making new memories with him, I don't want to play the old record again and again , I trust in moving on 😊

and about old friends, NO again, as those who wanted to remain a part of my life , are still there ,and will be there forever , close to my heart, and those who had to leave me for various reasons and became a chapter of my past only , well, I wish them good luck and I respect them for the happy moments they shared with me, but I don't want to do anything to bring them back, considering that, they are happy when they are away from me... 😊

3. If you get a chance to contest in politics , Will you ?

Ans: NO

4. Is there something that you've dreamt of doing for a long time? Why haven't you done it?

Ans : There is No such thing... I always try to do what I dream for if that is not harmful for others 😆 At present I am trying to achieve the career I ever wanted for myself 😆

5. Is what you're doing now what you always wanted to do growing up?

Ans. Not really. 😆 I won't say teaching was something that I always wanted to do but then for me doing something in life is most important actually , I love to keep myself busy in work so I am enjoying whatever I am doing.😊

6. What's the one thing that people always misunderstand about you?

Ans. Due to my introvert nature , sometimes I appear proudy , and people sometimes assume me emotionless as well. Not their fault at all 😆 I can't share what I really feel , I can't stop or I never stop anybody from leaving me but sometimes people expect to see someone fighting to keep them in his\her life , and I never did something like that , so I appear emotionless, that's natural 😆 People can't see what's going on in mind , and keeping the storm hidden in mind is of no use also 😆

7. What is the craziest thing you've ever done and would you do it again?

Ans. Don't you think I am stll a very crazy person? 😆 well, craziest thing I used to do in my childhood was cutting off my dolls' hair and giving them new looks or coloring them with my water colors 🤣

I always felt the long yellow hair of my dolls was boring 🤣 and I still feel that if someone gifts me dolls now, I may do the same with them as well, though now I know that I am a terrible hair stylish 🤣

8. What do you think about when you're by yourself?

Ans. I don't waste that 'valuable' time (total peace 😆) in thinking..I complete my pending works, prepare for class notes or lectures , if all works gets complete then watch horror movies 🤣 (I so love to do that when I am alone 😕😆) or just start reading a new novel 😳😃

9. What embarrasses you the most and/or what's been your most embarrassing moment?

Ans.Once when I was 12 years old , I fell into an open manhole and half of my body was inside that manhole and other half was outside and that was puja time in Kolkata so many pandal hoppers noticed me in that funny awful condition 🤣 That was most embarrassing moment for me till date 😆

10. Which song do u sing/hear when u i)alone ii)sad iii) happy Iv) the lyrics which has touched ur heart?

Ans . i. Any Tagore song or agar tum saath ho or Jo bheji thi duaa

ii. I don't listen to musi when I am sad, it does not help me in diverting my mind 😆

iii. any song which I want to listen that moment (except item songs and Honey Singh's torture 🤣)

iv. Main rahoon ya na rahoon

Tum mujh mein kahin baaki rehna

Mujhe neend aaye jo aakhiri

Tum khwabon mein aate rehna

Bas itna hai tumse kehna 😊

11. What did you dream most about ?

Ans. My career 😆

12. What do you do when u r sad?

Ans . I keep myself busy in works, I complete my pending works or do something creative as, for me, diverting my mind from over-thinking is the only thing I can do to make myslf happy.

13. If a genie granted you 3 wishes right now, what would you wish for?

i. Give me capability and skill so that I can fulfil all my personal wishes myself without begging in front of God or any genie's help 😆 I hate asking others for anything which I need for myself

ii. A cure for every incurable disease known to man.😳

iii. Let every person across the globe have 3 wishes.😆(Plz cancel the negative ones or all those would be harmful for any human, society, country )

14. What do you value most in a friendship?

ans. Trust

15. What roles do love and affection play in your life?

Ans . I am grateful to have a life which gifted me love from my near ones, my friends and family and affection works for bonding in any family , without the presence of these two , a house does not become a home, I have seen many tough times in life , and I have faced them without losing my inner self and won over them successfully only because of the presence of love in my life... I am grateful to all the person who showered love on me and gifted me support and strength throughout my life.

16. What is your greatest achievement in ur life?

ans . I Gifted my mom a mobile phone when I got my first salary and her smile at that moment was my greatest achievement till date 😊

17.If u are angry on someone what would u do?

ans. Depends on the reason of anger , if the person hurts my family or friends then I will fight with him\her directly on face , and if that person hurts my sentiments only then I will avoid any type of communication with him\her until I cool down 😆

18. What are the three things you wish to see in your Partner ?

Ans. Honest, Understanding , kind

19.What are you most thankful for?

Ans. For having caring, loving , supportive and wonderful parents who, truly cares about me and my needs, who understand me and trust in my choices, who can fight with whole world for me and behaves like my best friend and companion, become strength and a shelter in tough moments, a truly amazing lil family anybody can ever dream for , and I really think my parents are God's gift for me 😳

20. Do you really regret something and What is it?

Ans : I really don't regret anything which I do intentionally, as I think before doing it , I on;y regret when I fail to understand someone truly or unintentionally hurt someone 😊

21. Which serial you like the most and which serial u want to change the most?

Ans. I am not liking any show right now 😆 and about change, well, all shows should be changed in better way and writer should use their brain and understand that there should be a limit in showing 'illogical' tracks too... like in Kuch Rang , Dev should not be forgiven everytime for the sake of 'love', in Swaragini, well, Behenchara should have a limit and a person who claims to love his wife ' truly' should not think about hurting the same woman 😕 In Saath Nibhana, Writer should understand , people don't remain young forever so there should be an end of getting married and celebrating Suhagraats 😆 we have other problems to solve in life too , In Shakti , soumya should know about her gender before some weird looking saree clad woman lectures her on the same issue 😕 , and for simar , Nagin , Kavach , Bramharakshas makers , you need serous treatment as your brains have serious manufacturing disorder.😆

22.What serial and role has really touched ur heart? Why?

Ans . I liked Mahabharata as I still find many things to learn from it... Draupadi's character touched my heart and that is the only fictional character that touched my heart ever as her struggle to adjust with the ordeals her life offered her , her modesty got violated by so called 'dharmik' husbands , and the other antagonists of that play , still she supported her family and her husbands , became strength of them during 'kurukshetra' war , never compromised with the wrong , she is the true fire-born princess.👏

23. What do you think about stalkers ? Do you miss them as friends.

Ans. My thinking :" Go Get a Life"😆

Our popular CC stalkers don't deserve anybody's friendship 😆, and in IF, I realy don't miss anyone who is NOT a part of this CC or left CC for personal reasons

24. The story book which u read and had an great impact on you?

Ans : I am a bookworm 😆 though I don't get much time now a days but still I manage to read at least 1-2 novels in week 😆 so there are many books which made me think about the concept , at present I can remember one book which is one of my all time favorites , 'The Road' by Cormac McCarthy 😊 this is about story of a journey which envisions a future where no hope remains, but in that future also a father and his son are survived by love. 😊

25. What political event and social event has really shook you ?

Ans. Godhra train burning and 2002 Gujarat riot , Gujarat riots were part of a political strategy actually now a days all riots, war, cross border issues all are political and man made disasters.

In this century also, some people ask for dowry for their good for nothing son only because he is a 'son' and then if the bride's family fail to give the amount , the in laws don't hesitate to murder the newly wed bride and start searching for another bride for the same criminal Moron son , in some villages the so called self-declared 'pradhans' grant punishment for woman who married someone against her parents wish and what is that punishment ? Give other male villagers permission to rape that woman openly... This is our society, everyday , almost every news related to our so called 'odern' society shocks me... there is not only one to mention here...

25. What message you have for cc members ?

ans. We are connected by heart and this bonding is stronger than anything else, it does not matter for us now that we did not meet each other in real life , as we have touched each others soul,you all are wonderful friends anybody can dream to have in life, I am grateful to you all for accepting my friendship and giving me love, support and care more than what I deserved.

I would just request that , please correct me when you feel I am wrong or doing wrong with anybody or anything, I can make mistakes like any other person but I am always ready to fix such issues and I trsut you all and your support is always needed yo improve myself as a human being . love you 😳

26.Explain CC in one line .

Ans. My second home, close to my heart 😳

NIKUNJ

Ishwari ko chahiye pota poti wo bhi 2-3 months me.
kya dev mar payega namumkin ko mumkin ? ya fir dev tod dega apni maa ka dil ? ya fir sonakshi gussa hoke ishwari ka halwa bana degi ? ya fir ye duniya ma pehla bachcha jo 2-3 months me ready hoke ayega.

janne ke liye dekhte rahiye kuch ma aisi bhi sirf yaha aur kaha🤣