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Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#660033">According to me, it was obvious that Sona will join her job after wedding. She never had a doubt about it. She was never going to quit the job.</font>

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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#660033">It was just asking the permission from her MIL, an elder from the family that now all the rituals are done and there are no guests left too. It was just that she wanted to confirm if at all anything is left she'll join the job later on. But now if all the rituals are over can she join the work. It was just for the confirmation. It was not like should i work or quit the job.</font>

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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#660033">This is what according to me the scene was all about. Which was over analysed. And there's nothing wrong in asking your elders if anything is left i'll extend the leave or should i join the job now. Don't we ask our parents such questions. And does it mean we are letting them control our lives. No, its all about the respect and priority we give our elders.</font>

. It is always good to get permission from elders and give them priority, but the case is different here, a mother who enjoys seeing her son and DIL suffer, who knowingly causes a rift between them cannot be just an insecure person. Ishwari knows what she is doing unless she is stopped she is not going to stop herself. My only concern was : I had great hope from Sona, I thought she would help Ish overcome her insecurity or whatever it is, but I was surprised to see her wanting to dance to Ishwari's tunes, which I think is not a solution. That is my POV we can agree to disagree. Peace out.

Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

Sorry to disagree with you here dear. It is not about giving Ishwari power to control. It was such a simple scene, which was analyzed a little too much.

According to me, it was obvious that Sona will join her job after wedding. She never had a doubt about it. She was never going to quit the job.

It was just asking the permission from her MIL, an elder from the family that now all the rituals are done and there are no guests left too. It was just that she wanted to confirm if at all anything is left she'll join the job later on. But now if all the rituals are over can she join the work. It was just for the confirmation. It was not like should i work or quit the job.

This is what according to me the scene was all about. Which was over analysed. And there's nothing wrong in asking your elders if anything is left i'll extend the leave or should i join the job now. Don't we ask our parents such questions. And does it mean we are letting them control our lives. No, its all about the respect and priority we give our elders.

well said jo..100% agree with u..people always misundestood between respecting some one and being under control of some one..Pls It's a request if Any one show respect To their elders No Matter how n who the person is don't Make a Neg Meaning of it..

Originally posted by: M.soni

Dekh behen main ne time nickal kar tera essay padhne ki koshish ki...but yakeen maan...2 words se zaida nahi padh saki😆😆kyun ki mujhe pata hai tune kiya majan bheja hai us me.😆😆

Tujhe comment chaye tha wo main bina padhe hi kar deti hun.😆

Bhyi dekh baat hai simple si and sedhi si..mere ko toh bhut pasand aya wo scene...😛it shows sona respect ishwari maa like asha maa.😊

It was simple yet sweet scene that sona was just wanted to confirm that all the rituals are done to can i join my job...😛

What was wrong in that...seriously i didnt get it why people r talking neg about it...giving respect to ur elder is negative thing to sorry dude...my parents have taught me this neg thing so well..

Chal bhut likh liya nickal ab.😆

Dhannya ho gayi main jo aaapne mere post ke 2 words padhe😆😆😆..kya faltupana hai..mere gharpe aake mujhe hi niklo bola..😆😆😆

but jokes apart..that scene was really sweet..nothing wrong in that scene..wrong is their Thoughts who think its not right to ask permission from elders..

Originally posted by: gigi16

. It is always good to get permission from elders and give them priority, but the case is different here, a mother who enjoys seeing her son and DIL suffer, who knowingly causes a rift between them cannot be just an insecure person. Ishwari knows what she is doing unless she is stopped she is not going to stop herself. My only concern was : I had great hope from Sona, I thought she would help Ish overcome her insecurity or whatever it is, but I was surprised to see her wanting to dance to Ishwari's tunes, which I think is not a solution. That is my POV we can agree to disagree. Peace out.

I don't understand how asking permission is related to self respect its absurd even I ask permission from my mother for staying at friends house or if I m going out for a late night party I know she won't say no but I still take permission so what's the big deal if Sona asked Ishwari if she could join the office it was not that she was going to quit 😕 Nowadays the forum is more negative than the serial 😕

Originally posted by: amaypranay

Beautiful post Dear 👏

Thank you so Much dear😳

Originally posted by: deepsel

First of all a thundering applause for you my dear for this post 👏 Very glad to see there are still people who believes in respect for others than defaming it with the pretense of self respect.

Ofcourse I am not surprised with the uproar for this scene as we are living in the westernized modern society who celebrate just a day to thank their mother or father..how generous.. In the mad rush to mingle with western culture, we are just loosing the values of our rich cultural heritage.

Like many here, I didn't feel an ounce of dirt for Sona's self respect instead as you mentioned that girl rose to heights with her humbleness !!

I am realy Glad To see people like You are Appriciating The Post..It Really feels Good when U see Others r Understanding what U R trying to deliver..Thank you so Muc Dear for appriciating And agrreing with Me

Ofcourse I am not surprised with the uproar for this scene as we are living in the westernized modern society who celebrate just a day to thank their mother or father..

Special Thanks ffor This line..U just nailed it Over Here..Now a Days showing Ur Feelings to Ur parents Or For thinking about Them Or respect them we young Generation Need an occassion..how Shameful Is That...No matter What We say about dev That He Is a Mamma's boy N all..but we Can never deny The fact That If This kind Of son exists In tida;s world then No Parents Will take Their last Breath InAn Old age Home Or will spend their old N Last fw periods Of life alone..Not Only dev This Goes For sona as well..They Not only Show how They love n Respect their Family but they also show hw They Considered Each others family as their Own..truly Simple scene taught us a Deep Thing ....

Originally posted by: siddhi.d123

I don't understand how asking permission is related to self respect its absurd even I ask permission from my mother for staying at friends house or if I m going out for a late night party I know she won't say no but I still take permission so what's the big deal if Sona asked Ishwari if she could join the office it was not that she was going to quit 😕 Nowadays the forum is more negative than the serial 😕

absolutely correct..now ppl r making issue of nothing these days just like ishwari😆