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well said 👏.i don't see any self respect thing in sona asking ishwari joining the job. sona didn't asking if she can do the job. she was asking if she can join job early. and i don't find any wrong in there. i think sona took two weeks leave from job.so she was asking if all rituals completed and no guests also coming so she can join job early if ishwari is ok with it. if sona with out asking ishwari if join the job.ishwari can create drama and give more lecture to how its difficulty to become bahu and all. iam really glad sona asked ishwari .I am sure if she is in her maayaka she would have discussed with her parents.

Originally posted by: Deepsikha_94

Well the people who are opposing the idea of Sona asking permission to go back to work think that when you are independent you need not ask permission from anyone. That is true absolutely. It's your work. You start and stop when you want.

But that also does not give you the right to disrespect others. The permission wala scene showed no matter what she has to face in her In laws house, Sona has not forgotten her principles. Though she is definitely more educated than Ishwari, she is humble. And nothing will make her go against her principles.

This one act made Sona a bigger human being than Ishwari. It showed us that even though she did not have to, she did it just so that she can convey to Ishwari exactly how much she respects her, even after what she keeps subjecting Sonakshi to.

That's what I think.

Your post is perfectly correct Di! 😃

well said deeps..totally agree.Being Independent gives u the right to take ur own decision ..but independence doesn't give u the permission to disrespect ur elders..No doubt this tiny little things are making sona a much more big heart girl ...i really loved nd repect that gesture..

thanks so muh dear for appreciating 😆

Originally posted by: stuti123

Nice post ..I dint find anything wrong in it as well ..And y are people saying that she had no intention of working post marriage ...She anywayz wuld hav continued just that she wanted to re join it earlier than she had decided ..hence she asked ishwari ..nd dats y she also said that if u want me to stay back at home for a few days i will do so ..It surely doesnt say that she has no intentions of working..just that she is pre poning it she asked her mil.but my only concern is that she shuld hav discussed it with her husband as well

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well i dont know y ppl saying she had no intention to work..where else if u remember whn bua dadi was there and was telling ishwari to teach sona about tulsi puja..ish herself said she is on leave and will join work after few days..so no question is there about sona's not working..nd i think she didn't talk to dev before one could be she knows may be dev will have no problem with that as dev never being conservative or restrictive about her work and other thing could be she knows if ishwari is ok with it then dev will have no problem for sure..this is what i think..

Originally posted by: ddsoaps

The whole idea of Sona asking Ish was shown prior to Sona asking Dev about working again was so that when Dev objects at first and then decides that Sona can very well works at his firm, Ishwari will have no reason to object to it.

This is the only way CVs can shown another small argument arising between DevAkshi about her job..

And Sona working at Dev's office is also the only way she can keep a watch over Vicky...who is all trouble. Vicky is not only going to create trouble at office but this will lead to more arguments at home.

well this Could Be happeen as well..u have point..

p.s. i really like ur signature soap is soapy..that is so cute😆

Wonderful post dear

Originally posted by: suma74

I think instead of asking Dev that whether she can go for work. He will ask his mom, only after Moms approval Dev will agree. So, to avoid any clashes. It is better sona asked Ishwari

Yes..I think it was better asking ish Then dev..cause dev May Not create a scene out of It..But It would Be Ishwari who will Make a Mountain Out of a Mole

Originally posted by: Sruji1

well said 👏.i don't see any self respect thing in sona asking ishwari joining the job. sona didn't asking if she can do the job. she was asking if she can join job early. and i don't find any wrong in there. i think sona took two weeks leave from job.so she was asking if all rituals completed and no guests also coming so she can join job early if ishwari is ok with it. if sona with out asking ishwari if join the job.ishwari can create drama and give more lecture to how its difficulty to become bahu and all. iam really glad sona asked ishwari .I am sure if she is in her maayaka she would have discussed with her parents.

thanks dear..exactly..it was a great decision to ask ish about it..otherwise if she gone to job without asking ot only ish but Gkb will also started the melo drama about being good bahu...what she did was perfect ...

Originally posted by: Monu1602

So true. It's better to seek their permission and take them in confidence. Things become little easier and smoother then.

exactly...not taking permission would be make the situation more worse

Originally posted by: cscs

I don't how many of you felt the same, but Sona was "asking" and "telling" at the same time. It was not about showing her ego and letting go her identity. She couldn't have told Ishwari that I am going for work from tomorrow. She mentioned that if Ishwari wants then she can join after some time. She didn't said that she will not join. I liked that attitude. It was not solely seeking her permission, she was telling her stand also.

yes i felt the same..see she will work ish knows it from the begining..so there is nothig to ask her again about her jib..what she did she informed her that now she wants to rejoin..and informed her with repect by asking if she wants..so whatever she did ..she did not forget to give imp to the ish'wish as well as the way she kept her point