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Posted: 8 years ago
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In Last Night's episode There was a Little scene Of Sona was asking Permission To Ishwari About Her Job

Honestly speaking i really loved that Scene...

A Modern ,Educated,Independent Girl..Who somewhere knows That Her MIL Doesn't Like Her That Much..But still she is asking Her Before Taking a Step...


It Shows What Kind Of upbringing She Has...What is Her values..Seriously May Be Bose family Didn't sent Her to The In-Laws With A Plenty Amount Of expensive gifts..But surely they Have given the Dixit Family treasure Of Values And Morals...


I Personally feel..This Small little scene Has Taught The Girl of Our Generation a big Lesson...That No Matter How independent u R,How educated u R,How modern u R..U shouldn't forget To respect ur elders Specially Ur In Laws..No Matter How Ur in-Laws r.It's Ur In-laws bad Luck Or mistakes if They do Injustice ,partiality,play games ,Do Torture on u...U should Do Ur duty as long as U Can..I M Not saying Tolerate The Torture ..I M saying Don't Forget Ur duty Till U can able To remember .It's Not Always Necessary To Be Bad with The Person who does wrong with U..U Can Just Show Ur GoodnessTo Open That person's eye..But this also should be Done to an extent.

Sona Is exactly doing the same..No matter How difficulties She Is Facing ..she Is Fulfiling her Duties Towards her in Laws

I was really surprised To See Some people were Not Liking That sona asked permission..It's Their POV..I can't Change or Comment On that..But For me I Think a person who respects his/Her Own parents,Who's upbringing Is Perfect,Who Treats his/her in Laws as own parents,.who has some Basic morals or values will Never Forget to do This small Little things

Sorry For This long Post..but Seriously that Scene really touched me a Lot..I M Glad Cvs r Showing so Many Little Little Things Which r Helping us to Understand Our responsibilities,duties More Better...

Everything Has Both Negative and positive side..It would Be Better for us to Find Out the Positive side and Make life easier..rather then digging Out Negative things And make Life Complicated

P.s.i Wrote My POV..As I respect others..I expect the same From U all..So Pls No Negative Comments are Allowed as i don't want to Make My post a field Of war😆




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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well put Survi...
Yes it definitely shows that Sona has values...
I really don't get what wrong in asking to go back to join her office...
She has planned for some leave but want to advance those dates,if it was your mom or dad,wont we ask???
I don't understand why bring Ego in between everything...If we really live the way we are analyzing each and every thing in this serial with so much negative thoughts in mind,im sure we would lose our battle the next second
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Fantastic take...i personally liked that scene..
I liked it wen Sona asked if she can join the the clinic.
achha lagta hai jab aap apne elders ki blessings se kaam ki shuruwaat karo.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soumya23

Well put Survi...

Yes it definitely shows that Sona has values...
I really don't get what wrong in asking to go back to join her office...
She has planned for some leave but want to advance those dates,if it was your mom or dad,wont we ask???
I don't understand why bring Ego in between everything...If we really live the way we are analyzing each and every thing in this serial with so much negative thoughts in mind,im sure we would lose our battle the next second



Exactly Dear..if there was our Parents we would definitely Asked Them..it's Useless To Bring Ur ego In simple matters ...She Did What is absolutely Right...I completely agree with U as U Said If we Live by analyzing Negativity..This show has given us many more positive things to learn..It would be smarter if we take those things in our court..that will definitely make us winners

thanx dear for appreciating 😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: FLW70

Nice post...completely agree...



thank u dear fr agreeing😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: srilotus

Fantastic take...i personally liked that scene..

I liked it wen Sona asked if she can join the the clinic.
achha lagta hai jab aap apne elders ki blessings se kaam ki shuruwaat karo.



Thank you so Much dear...me really loved that scene..it's always a peace to star anything with the blessing of ur elders
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well the people who are opposing the idea of Sona asking permission to go back to work think that when you are independent you need not ask permission from anyone. That is true absolutely. It's your work. You start and stop when you want.
But that also does not give you the right to disrespect others. The permission wala scene showed no matter what she has to face in her In laws house, Sona has not forgotten her principles. Though she is definitely more educated than Ishwari, she is humble. And nothing will make her go against her principles.

This one act made Sona a bigger human being than Ishwari. It showed us that even though she did not have to, she did it just so that she can convey to Ishwari exactly how much she respects her, even after what she keeps subjecting Sonakshi to.

That's what I think.

Your post is perfectly correct Di! 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nice post ..I dint find anything wrong in it as well ..And y are people saying that she had no intention of working post marriage ...She anywayz wuld hav continued just that she wanted to re join it earlier than she had decided ..hence she asked ishwari ..nd dats y she also said that if u want me to stay back at home for a few days i will do so ..It surely doesnt say that she has no intentions of working..just that she is pre poning it she asked her mil.but my only concern is that she shuld hav discussed it with her husband as well
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think instead of asking Dev that whether she can go for work. He will ask his mom, only after Moms approval Dev will agree. So, to avoid any clashes. It is better sona asked Ishwari
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The whole idea of Sona asking Ish was shown prior to Sona asking Dev about working again was so that when Dev objects at first and then decides that Sona can very well works at his firm, Ishwari will have no reason to object to it.

This is the only way CVs can shown another small argument arising between DevAkshi about her job..

And Sona working at Dev's office is also the only way she can keep a watch over Vicky...who is all trouble. Vicky is not only going to create trouble at office but this will lead to more arguments at home.


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