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Posted: 8 years ago
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Tia your post are awesome as always. 👏

Neha coming back was much expected as from the start she mentioned she won't be able to adjust in Ranveer's house. Today she complained about Ranveer taking care of his family need before hers. Let her stay in Dixit house for some time, she will see that her newly wedded brother is doing the same.

I agree lack of money make life difficult and stressful but in Devakshi case they are wealthy but still Sona is trying to adjust and is having a hard time in her sasural with their constant taunts.

So Ishwari you don't have to be surprised if on one fine day you see Sona packing her bags and leaving your house. I guess that day you'll be the happiest person. Sona is trying all her best to adjust in your family and you are not helping her at all instead you are waiting for her to do some mistake for you to get a chance to lecture her on how you became a perfect bahu which she can't. Don't even be stunned if Bijoy or Dada come at your home shouting at you and your son for making Sona life miserable. Apnon ka dil hi apnon ke liye dukta hai. Woh log Sona ke apne hai, that's why they will feel her pain better that anyone.

Dev just be calm down and think. You think if Ranveer loves Neha then why he made her cry. They are in love right? How can you forget that months back you did the same with Sona, you broke up unexpectedly because of your mum, you were in love with Sona, RIGHT? What if Dada had asked you that question? In Neha's case, Ranveer is and was not at fault, he just wanted to become a self-made man without anyone support. Like for you your family comes first, for him it's the same. He has to take care of everyone's happiness.

Ishwari you should have some almond, it will help your brain. How can you say, you thought Dev will come to ask about Neha when you yourself you asked everyone not to question Neha at night? How can you forget just after Neha's wedding you asked Dev not to interfere in her life and let Ranveer & Neha deal with it? For god sake Ishwari, Dev is not a robot, he needs rest. In the morning you reached his room to remind him of his responsibility. Tell me one thing Dev has forgotten about his family after being married? As Sona mentioned before, she is not there to increase Dev responsibly but to share it with him, which she is doing and has done before. Remember how she managed to convince Neha to wear lehenga when no one could do that.

Why are you after Dev for giving Vicky a job? What has Vicky done for the family till now? Instead he encouraged Nikki to party and consume alcohol which I think no brother would do, Sona should tell Dev all this when the right time come. He himself he came home drunk several times and once Dev had to go to bailed him out.

Mamaji is Ishwari brother and Vicky is Dev's cousin brother, this is a different relationship. Mamaji helped them so Dev is doing the same by providing them shelter in his house. (It's not that I don't consider cousin brother as brother, it's just because Dev and Vicky don't share that real brother bond. Me myself counting my brothers and my mum's siblings children, I have 8 brothers and I'm their only sister, we share a great bond)

Now I got it why Ishwari said she has 5 kids, Vicky was included, he too needs to get a share of Dev property because his dad helped Dev during difficult time.

Neha was rude to Sona, not done at all. Ok let's take it that she is disturbed for now but still how can she, Sona is no longer the nutrition, she is Dev's wife, and Neha's Bhabhi, whom she should respect. Sona please stop helping everyone, let them handle their issues as they think they are capable of doing so. Let them come and beg for help.

Ilena asking Dada to lend her money. I guess Rs 10, 000 is a huge amount even if she is waiting for her parents to send her the pocket money.

Dev can't you just keep quiet. What was the need for you to mention that Sona gave you that idea? Hold on, does everyone in your office know it now that Rhea is your sister? I guess she was introduced as an intern and not your sister. How can you introduce then this useless guy as brother to your staff? Differentiating between your sister and cousin brother.

I'm just waiting for the pre nup track, to see how Dev will react and I would be surprised if Ishwari had already to get Sona sign on those papers.

How I wish Dev to get back in his Mr Obhodro avatar for everyone except Sona.

I guess in the upcoming episode, Dev will give Dada the Sales Manager post because he got the experience and this will surely lead to problems for Sona.

I guess I wrote a bit too much. Correct me where I'm wrong.

Today's episode was a balanced one but still wanted to point out some issues.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Waah Tia 👏 👏 👏

Great points...

But can I just add...Elena asking Dada for a loan has happened ..Especially since her parents are not in the same town! It's purely how close you are to your cousin!

But the others I too am on the same page with you!

Ishwari's double standards are unbelievable ... Let's see what her daughter is going to say and do, it's coming straight back to Ishwari... 'My husband neglects me, he doesn't look after my needs ...since his first priorities is budgeting his family's needs, and fulfilling all the requirements of his Mother, brother their kids..etc, and what about me' 👏


Sona it's time to wake up please.. Smell the coffee! Be wise and take care your husband and yourself! Go to work! Be the best nutritionist you are .. And please go on a honeymoon! Follow your agenda ... Please
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Excellent points. Actually, you followed the train of my thoughts. I was just analyzing the dialogues. Check it out.

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4731726

Originally posted by: romanticgurl070

Tia your post are awesome as always. 👏

Neha coming back was much expected as from the start she mentioned she won't be able to adjust in Ranveer's house. Today she complained about Ranveer taking care of his family need before hers. Let her stay in Dixit house for some time, she will see that her newly wedded brother is doing the same.

I agree lack of money make life difficult and stressful but in Devakshi case they are wealthy but still Sona is trying to adjust and is having a hard time in her sasural with their constant taunts.

So Ishwari you don't have to be surprised if on one fine day you see Sona packing her bags and leaving your house. I guess that day you'll be the happiest person. Sona is trying all her best to adjust in your family and you are not helping her at all instead you are waiting for her to do some mistake for you to get a chance to lecture her on how you became a perfect bahu which she can't. Don't even be stunned if Bijoy or Dada come at your home shouting at you and your son for making Sona life miserable. Apnon ka dil hi apnon ke liye dukta hai. Woh log Sona ke apne hai, that's why they will feel her pain better that anyone.

Dev just be calm down and think. You think if Ranveer loves Neha then why he made her cry. They are in love right? How can you forget that months back you did the same with Sona, you broke up unexpectedly because of your mum, you were in love with Sona, RIGHT? What if Dada had asked you that question? In Neha's case, Ranveer is and was not at fault, he just wanted to become a self-made man without anyone support. Like for you your family comes first, for him it's the same. He has to take care of everyone's happiness.

Ishwari you should have some almond, it will help your brain. How can you say, you thought Dev will come to ask about Neha when you yourself you asked everyone not to question Neha at night? How can you forget just after Neha's wedding you asked Dev not to interfere in her life and let Ranveer & Neha deal with it? For god sake Ishwari, Dev is not a robot, he needs rest. In the morning you reached his room to remind him of his responsibility. Tell me one thing Dev has forgotten about his family after being married? As Sona mentioned before, she is not there to increase Dev responsibly but to share it with him, which she is doing and has done before. Remember how she managed to convince Neha to wear lehenga when no one could do that.

Why are you after Dev for giving Vicky a job? What has Vicky done for the family till now? Instead he encouraged Nikki to party and consume alcohol which I think no brother would do, Sona should tell Dev all this when the right time come. He himself he came home drunk several times and once Dev had to go to bailed him out.

Mamaji is Ishwari brother and Vicky is Dev's cousin brother, this is a different relationship. Mamaji helped them so Dev is doing the same by providing them shelter in his house. (It's not that I don't consider cousin brother as brother, it's just because Dev and Vicky don't share that real brother bond. Me myself counting my brothers and my mum's siblings children, I have 8 brothers and I'm their only sister, we share a great bond)

Now I got it why Ishwari said she has 5 kids, Vicky was included, he too needs to get a share of Dev property because his dad helped Dev during difficult time.

Neha was rude to Sona, not done at all. Ok let's take it that she is disturbed for now but still how can she, Sona is no longer the nutrition, she is Dev's wife, and Neha's Bhabhi, whom she should respect. Sona please stop helping everyone, let them handle their issues as they think they are capable of doing so. Let them come and beg for help.

Ilena asking Dada to lend her money. I guess Rs 10, 000 is a huge amount even if she is waiting for her parents to send her the pocket money.

Dev can't you just keep quiet. What was the need for you to mention that Sona gave you that idea? Hold on, does everyone in your office know it now that Rhea is your sister? I guess she was introduced as an intern and not your sister. How can you introduce then this useless guy as brother to your staff? Differentiating between your sister and cousin brother.

I'm just waiting for the pre nup track, to see how Dev will react and I would be surprised if Ishwari had already to get Sona sign on those papers.

How I wish Dev to get back in his Mr Obhodro avatar for everyone except Sona.

I guess in the upcoming episode, Dev will give Dada the Sales Manager post because he got the experience and this will surely lead to problems for Sona.

I guess I wrote a bit too much. Correct me where I'm wrong.

Today's episode was a balanced one but still wanted to point out some issues.

Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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And I am done with Dev's countless Sorry's 👎🏼 When will he learn ? What does he think of himself as a baby ? Why to give so much responsibility on a Baby ??
I agree to all your points. I SO wish Vicky soon does a big scam with Dev's company and let Dev's reputation, hard work and money all gone to drain, we will see what Ishwari has to say then ! If not that, at least they can show Vicky doing some 10/20 Lakh fraud at least ! 😵

I am pissed off at Ishwari's double-standard on Rhea and Vicky's case. Will Dev have the guts to ask Ishwari that if Rhea can start from scratch, why not Vicky ? I hate Ishwari for poking her nose in Dev's business, sorry but it's all what Dev has built, and having an educated working wife is indeed an added advantage who knows how it works in work-life and gives good suggestion at the time of need. This is not any chullah or halwa solution for God's sake 🥱. Many husbands prefer to share their problems and seek for suggestions (of work related problems) from their wives and not mothers 😵

Seeing a dominating woman like Ishwari on-screen makes my blood boil like anything, hats off to Supriya ji for pulling it off like a pro 😎 This character is SO annoying because it is SO damn real 😵 Soon Sona is going to realize that Dixit family as whole are like blood-sucking vampires and Dev has no importance in his own house except for being an ATM machine. No one cares about Dev, no one thinks about his happiness, no one gives a damn about what he thinks. He himself is a toy of his mother, toh Sona kaunsi khet ki mooli hai 😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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As usual bang on post👏


Edited by SAPU - 8 years ago

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