Changes !!! Changes !!! Changes !!! - Page 4

Originally posted by: desigirl987

Thank you so much dear , you are so kind !!! Yes agree with what you have told about DIL's and MIL's ... But even though its not very visible guys also go through the changes ... Have you ever thought why normally guys are being reluctant to the idea of marriage , if you think about it all these changes are mainly for girls right , then why ... As much as difficult it is for girls to adapt , guys also face difficulty in opening up their space to someone else... As per our society I strictly say this in reference to ours , for a fact I know this doesn't applies to western society , it is expected that guys after marriage should take care of the wife and children , they should be able to provide for them , and be able to attend to their every need. It doesnt matter if the wife works or not primary responsibility and security lies with them . I know this may be changing with modern times , but still our society look at a guy as irresponsible and lazy if he lives off his wife , where as here in western society depending on their convenience , either of the partners work or stay at home sometimes to babysit ... My point is because of this outlook , they think they are responsible for some else too after marriage .. Its not very visible change , but they do take it seriously !!!