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Posted: 8 years ago
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Okay , so Dev's sense of entitlement that is shown quite clearly in the precap kind of disturbs me. 😳
Because it disappoints me.
Seriously how can I defend this guy when the guy is not taking the steps that I hoped against hopes from him ??
Do Dev even knows the damn meaning of break up ?? He seriously needs a guide book or manual or at least an article explaining this phenomena called a clear brutal break up , which was all his doing.
Um.. what exactly he expected Sona to do ?? More importantly what he wanted her to do ?? Live and die a spinster ?? Isn't that an extremely selfish thought towards a genuine good person whom you claim to love ?? You don't want her to move on and be happy ?? How could you possibly not ?? The least you could do wish from the bottom of your heart for you beloved to be happy.
You've no plan n no desire to bring her back in your life , well you want to be forever doomed , that's fine it's your choice . But you want her forever doomed as well ??
It's a completely different topic whether Sona should and could move on or not ! This post is NOT at all about it. It's about Dev and what he wants to happen with Sona post-break up.
It confused and shocked me that he kinda want her to keep pining for him n probably remain broken hearted and alone for the rest of her life ??
Please don't tell me that Sona won't ever be happy without him . Yes it's true. But Dev don't know that , shouldn't he at least hope and prey for her happy n bright future.
How does that make her any different than Ishwari with her extreme possessiveness towards Dev yet doing nothing to secure Dev's happiness ??
I was feeling so so bad for him whole of the time since he saw Rithik n Sona together , from him sitting n weeping in rain , to his restlessness and shattered condition at home . I was close to tears.
And then came the precap and dashed all my hopes to earth . I was so damned pissed off and frustrated with him .
I expected his reaction that of pain n hopelessness , n NOT anger , what right does he have to be angry ??
KIS HAQ SE ???????????????????? 😡
It just shows he's not at all guilty or remorseful ! He doesn't realize what he's done to Sona n how extremely wrong he was, or his reaction would've been along the line of, " Mere sath aisa hi hona chahiye !! "
How could he ever redeem himself ever for Sona n for viewers if he doesn't even know he is supposed to redeem himself ??? 😲

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I was waiting for your Post!..By reading your thoughts I almost feel they may portray Dev as Dark before redemption if any
Unres

I decided to start writing even before I watch...could not resist that is the power of the TM makers post😆

I think the issue most of us are having is the disconnect first from the Promos aired to what is being shown. I decided that they aired the Promos wanting to show reality but maybe Drama only sells hence took the dramatic route hoping people will forget the Promos😆

Dev Dixit has till date not been portrayed to understand human emotions if he had he would have not mercilessly fired Sona from her Job to get her to care for his mother.

Then there has been several instances including bouts of anger shown by him which we thought was cool. Then came Natasha by that time Sona was head over heels in love with him which everyone and their cat could sense but he did not and behaved even callously by trying Natasha engagement ring on Sona. Then he realizes that he loved Sona and broke engagement with Natasha and suffered in Business...we thought it was romantic but here again showed he is not able to process consequences .

He was like a giddy teenager with Sona and gave some dialogues and promises which for some us we found school boyish or cheesy it was saved of course because of the amazing chemistry between the leads.

Then came the brutal breakup I dont think he thought it was brutal because he thought he needed to put his mother first..if we think back we rooted for his break with Natasha because we wanted him with Sona but that was brutal too.

Now that he saw Sona again he wants to pursue what he lost not understanding that he lost it because of his actions. Now he is also faced with the reality of Sona moving on he is angry at her because he does not still understand it was a consequence to his actions.

This makes me think that the makers now have changed the track to show a broken, depressed Dev who needs fixing and it can be only done by Sona with Easwari realization..that way Sona will be the FL who fixes everything and Easwari character will be redeemed...In all this they not only strayed far away from the promo, reality and characterization of Dev and this is what leaving us all confused.


Only silver lining I see is Shaheer gets a great chance to emote different emotions
Edited by gemini54 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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by throwing the laptop, is he going to get Sona?

When will he come to senses?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: telly_buff

by throwing the laptop, is he going to get Sona?

When will he come to senses?

No by throwing his laptop he's going to lose all the pictures of Sona saved in his laptop, just wait and watch. It's karma punishing him for not yet , let alone lifting a finger to change and gain back his love or face his mother , even not feeling genuinely guilty and remorseful with a feeling that he deserves it and at least Sona has some one who can make her laugh and happy n not broken hearted and pining. 😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gemini54

I was waiting for your Post!..By reading your thoughts I almost feel they may portray Dev as Dark befor redemption if any

Res I will come back after I watch

Ki..ki...Kiran...you mean ?? 😉 😆
It made me laugh out loud when Saurav talked about horrow wala feeling , when Sona sensed some one is watching them.
Was it romantic ?? Yes yes hell yeah ! 😃
Was it adorable ?? That too ! 😳
But it was also creepy AF ! 😕
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Completely agree with your words.
This was exactly the same question came to my mind after watching the episode. What he was expecting from Sona after break-up?

Even got confused about Dev's anger and jealously, whether it's for seeing his love of life with other person or for the fact that Sona is moving on..

And, i am just thinking that Dev rightnow missing Sona badly, but not yet felt his decision of break-up was wrong one. No guilt on his mistake yet.

Don't know why CVs are choosing this way, no idea how they will redeem his character.
Rightnow, not much convinced in Dev's character shaping. Hope they show solid reasons for patch-up.😕
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes agreed completely. Dev neither wants to meet Sona face to face & apologize, nor does he want her to be happy with someone else.

This is not correct.

The makers are portraying Dev's character very badly.

I hope they fix this within next 1 or 2 episodes.

Like Sona said even we feel sorry for Dev that he is incapable of making his own decisions.

If he doesn't want to go against his mother, he should atleast let Sona live her life peacefully.

Just read an article which said - Dev does everything in his power to seperate Sona and Ritwik.

This is getting really ugly :-(
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rithu0203

Completely agree with your words.

This was exactly the same question came to my mind after watching the episode. What he was expecting from Sona after break-up?

Even got confused about Dev's anger and jealously, whether it's for seeing his love of life with other person or for the fact that Sona is moving on..

And, i am just thinking that Dev rightnow missing Sona badly, but not yet felt his decision of break-up was wrong one. No guilt on his mistake yet.

Don't know why CVs are choosing this way, no idea how they will redeem his character.
Rightnow, not much convinced in Dev's character shaping. Hope they show solid reasons for patch-up.😕

Yeah now that Sona is happy and laughing , shouldn't that at least bring a reluctant but happy ( for her ) smile on his face that she's smiling , when he was the reason that robbed her of her glowing smile .
You won't do any thing to keep her , you won't even respect the memory of your love in front of likes of GKB when they insult it , you'll hide the signs of your love hastily in a pen stand hastily as soon as your mother enters as if a 12 yr old teenager about to get caught smoking in front of his parents and hiding it in the readily available place and later forget about it totally !!! 🤬
Yet you've the temerity to get mad that she's moving on !! 😡
Let Ishwari ask him the reason of his laptop breaking , what'll be his answer ??
Let me guess ... " No mother , Tu chinta mat kar , galti se gir gaya hai. Toot gaya hai ! 🥱
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: SoniSoni12


Yes agreed completely. Dev neither wants to meet Sona face to face & apologize, nor does he want her to be happy with someone else.

This is not correct.

The makers are portraying Dev's character very badly.

I hope they fix this within next 1 or 2 episodes.

Like Sona said even we feel sorry for Dev that he is incapable of making his own decisions.

If he doesn't want to go against his mother, he should atleast let Sona live her life peacefully.

Just read an article which said - Dev does everything in his power to seperate Sona and Ritwik.

This is getting really ugly :-(


Though I strongly want Dev to fight for getting back Sona now that it's clear that he won't ever get over his love for her , his inertness regarding the same yet his sense of entitlement is very annoying.

Ok so he's surviving on a glimpse of Sona every day by stalking her , that's fine , but is he thinking how'd Sona survive ?? By stalking him back ??

Chal tu mujhe stalk kar , mein tujhe karti hu. 😳 😃 It'll be the most romantic creepy stalker story ever. 😳 😃




Edited by AnnaPaquinFan - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Okay iam not defending devs actions
But you can't really forget the person you loved so much too easily ..
Dev, as for now can't even think of another girl in his life ..
So it might be unacceptable for him to see the girl who broke up just a few days ago, with another guy .. that too so happily laughing
Again, am not defending dev here and blaming sonakshi
But in real life .. there don't exist such mahaan people who gets happy witnessing their Ex with some else .. and happily congratulate them. The fact that sonakshi is moving on and he cannot is pinching his heart for sure!
Dev wouldn't have even thought ki she would actually move on ( she didn't but he feels so ) Cuz even she did promises like 'I would never leave you, even if you leave me'

Just my opinion 😃

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