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StarySKY

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Posted: 9 years ago

I was thinking about this lately .. about how Swara can forgive and forget very easily ..

Yeah I know alot of people do not believe that someone like her can be found in the real world .. but there is .. actually I am one of them .. me and Swara are similar in this matter ..

How can Swara forgive Ragini that easily ?

When I think about this .. I can understand her very well ..

Swaragini had been friends since long time .. and when Swara came to know that her best friend is actually her half sister she was very much happy .. she always carved for complete family which she get ..

She never believed that her sister that she trust could ever hurt her in any way .. but she did and she always wished it to be a bad dream ..

When Ragini got exposed .. Swara wasn't happy at all .. she wasn't mean person she was hurt to see her sister so much shattered and broken .. so she took a stand with her and forgive her even if she didn't apologize once ..

People like Swara can trust so easy never think of person in a bad way .. they always see the bright side of person not his dark side ..

Though Ragini did break Swara trust .. and the two did fight .. even Swara declared that she hate her .. but in the end she forgiven her .. after what she did .. she did forgive her and erased it from her memory ..

That kind of persons can not carry negativity for long time .. it not healthy to carry that kind of feeling for long time .. either they forgive and forget or just throw it away ..

Swara choose to forgive and forget what Ragini did .. she did not want to break her sister bond .. and she trusted her again ..

Many people don't have that kind of big heart .. it is not easy thing or weakness .. it is a gift form god ..

I am similar to Swara in some way .. I had encounters with many people in my life .. fighting, insulting, saying bad words , misunderstandings ... etc

Usually I would be in a depression for a day or two due to that .. but at the end I will forget that and sometime I would forgive the person even if he/she never apologize to me ..

People around me sometime took advantage of that .. I would be upset but I wouldn't mind it for long .. I don't see it as a weakness .. I am very happy that I can't carry that kind of thoughts for long ..

If I ever be in Swara shoes ( I pray to God that never happen )

I will do just the same as her .. though not as fast as she did or to trust her that easily but yeah eventually I will do it ..

P.S

I am just talking about Swara forgiveness for Ragini doing .. nothing else

This is just my opinion about all the situation .. and my thoughts about Swara character ..

Just my opinion and way of thinking

So please don't take it hard on me ..

Khushi

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dis_arshi

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Posted: 9 years ago

yeh such people are existing

my best friend is like that

i always ask her why is she forgiving people like that and the next moment help them

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StarySKY

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: dis_arshi
yeh such people are existing
my best friend is like that
i always ask her why is she forgiving people like that and the next moment help them

I think it is something in the genes ..

Something Impossible to change ever ..

Something is done involuntary like breathing .. 😊

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sumeetadeb

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Posted: 9 years ago

its not impossible to find character like swara in real.may be the possibiily is rare.but nothning is impossible

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Dipali

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Posted: 9 years ago

I also forgive people very easy and help them too. sometime my friends call me emotional fool but that's I am😊

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Fariza

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Posted: 9 years ago

My mom is like that she easily forgives & forgets and this is the only quality which i don't like or agree with her thoughts . I Very well know what happens with a nature of a person who forgives easily & forgets . Look because i think if we forgive undeserving people and try to forget than that will not help in any way that person can again break your trust.

I strongly belief from childhood trust is like a mirror if broken once then it can't be repaired as before some or other crack will be there.

That's why i belief in forgive but never forget take it as a lesson for lifetime

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akanksha

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Posted: 9 years ago

my mother is like that...
I forgive but I don't forget..

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akanksha

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Posted: 9 years ago

Actually it's not about forgiveness, even I would forgive my sister even if she becomes a mafia Don or something ( I hope she doesn't 😆)

Being forgiving is very brave and courageous, because u have the ability to let go.

My problem with swara is her ignorance and justification for ragini. She ignored ragini's obsession for lakshay many times, thinking she would be back and love her unconditionally and the truth is ragini can never do that. She is currently nice to swara because she has lakshay.

My problem with her is that in her desperation to have a perfect family she keeps no self respect.

Her justification for ragini that she did it for her first love is so irritating, I mean its natural to love your family unconditionally, even I love my family unconditionally but supporting and justifying wrong within family is harmful. I mean if I do something criminal my parents would be the first one to turn me in because they care for me. Caring is not all about protecting someone, it's about life lessons. And thanks to swara ragini has still not learnt her life lessons. Swara's delusional family with her so called father, dadi and sister ragini are completely balderdash. If u love them teach them to treat u with respect too. If u love them tell them that u r not ok with them hurting u. If u love them have the guts to tell them eye to eye that they are wrong. If u love them have the guts to accept them how they are but don't accept their criminality. Be brave enough to forgive but don't be mahaan enough to ignore.

Many women in indian society ( I am just giving an example) ignore domestic violence and live with it, because they are stupid enough to ignore the criminality behind it.

Ragini's deeds were criminal, OK u don't want her to indure jail that's fine but be responsible enough to make her realize that's it was not fine and the justification that u did this for ur first love is absolutely stupid and complete nonsense.

Family is all about teaching how to sacrifice your everything for someone u love and as a family swara has failed to teach ragini that. She herself knows how to make a sacrifice but no one can make a sacrifice for her in her so called family except sanskar.

Edited by luvakanksha - 9 years ago

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Juanita

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Posted: 9 years ago

Okay everyone get hurt by those who are closest to them be it family or friends.. and no one is exception.. I do too. Usually when that happens I prefer sometime alone to get over it.. It no use showing your anger to the person who caused it... And I sometimes take a few days to get over it, sometimes I takes a few minutes but I get over it on my own.. I first forget the hurtful moments then when the person genuinely apologize I forgive them.. Not because it easy but because not everyone is perfect.. We all have our faults and if we can't accept the faults in our family and friends they can't accept our faults either.. But if they don't regret the pain they caused me then I might forget those memories and might forgive them as well after sometime.. But if they are people I used to love.. I don't think that love will remain the same.. I tend to love those who love me back which means they care about my pain.. If they don't then they don't deserve my love either.. Just my pov..

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The.Lannister

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Mistakes can be forgiven. However crimes should not go unpunished. Sins should be repented for. What Ragini has done are not mistakes. They are crimes or even sins. From a legal POV, intention to murder, murder, drugging, harassment, kidnapping, threatening are all crimes. If all these were worthy of forgiveness we wouldnt need courts. We could just forgive all criminals & move on & maybe life would be simpler...or looking at Swaragini...maybe not?😊

Also forgiveness has to be earned. Anything that a person gets free of cost, he never values. Like Ragini, Daadi who do not value Swara...Swaraginiii & Rasgulla parties not withstanding.

Edit: Also it is great to be born kind. But if life puts you in a viper pit you need to learn to strike back in order to survive. A lion wont eat me because I am not eating the lion is just plain stupid. Life teaches you a great deal of things, the most important being that people change. Change is unavoidable. Swara too should have accepted that her sweet Ragini with whom she used to sing songs is long gone. Her place is taken by this snake whose head she needs to crush or it will poison her life. A person who doesnt recognize change & doesnt adapt DIES in the real world.

Edited by The.Lannister - 9 years ago

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