About Swara forgiveness ... - Page 2

Originally posted by: Fariii

My mom is like that she easily forgives & forgets and this is the only quality which i don't like or agree with her thoughts . I Very well know what happens with a nature of a person who forgives easily & forgets . Look because i think if we forgive undeserving people and try to forget than that will not help in any way that person can again break your trust.

I strongly belief from childhood trust is like a mirror if broken once then it can't be repaired as before some or other crack will be there.

That's why i belief in forgive but never forget take it as a lesson for lifetime

Originally posted by: luvakanksha

Actually it's not about forgiveness, even I would forgive my sister even if she becomes a mafia Don or something ( I hope she doesn't 😆)

Being forgiving is very brave and courageous, because u have the ability to let go.

My problem with swara is her ignorance and justification for ragini. She ignored ragini's obsession for lakshay many times, thinking she would be back and love her unconditionally and the truth is ragini can never do that. She is currently nice to swara because she has lakshay.

My problem with her is that in her desperation to have a perfect family she keeps no self respect.

Her justification for ragini that she did it for her first love is so irritating, I mean its natural to love your family unconditionally, even I love my family unconditionally but supporting and justifying wrong within family is harmful. I mean if I do something criminal my parents would be the first one to turn me in because they care for me. Caring is not all about protecting someone, it's about life lessons. And thanks to swara ragini has still not learnt her life lessons. Swara's delusional family with her so called father, dadi and sister ragini are completely balderdash. If u love them teach them to treat u with respect too. If u love them tell them that u r not ok with them hurting u. If u love them have the guts to tell them eye to eye that they are wrong. If u love them have the guts to accept them how they are but don't accept their criminality. Be brave enough to forgive but don't be mahaan enough to ignore.

Many women in indian society ( I am just giving an example) ignore domestic violence and live with it, because they are stupid enough to ignore the criminality behind it.

Ragini's deeds were criminal, OK u don't want her to indure jail that's fine but be responsible enough to make her realize that's it was not fine and the justification that u did this for ur first love is absolutely stupid and complete nonsense.

Family is all about teaching how to sacrifice your everything for someone u love and as a family swara has failed to teach ragini that. She herself knows how to make a sacrifice but no one can make a sacrifice for her in her so called family except sanskar.

Originally posted by: NitaReid

Okay everyone get hurt by those who are closest to them be it family or friends.. and no one is exception.. I do too. Usually when that happens I prefer sometime alone to get over it.. It no use showing your anger to the person who caused it... And I sometimes take a few days to get over it, sometimes I takes a few minutes but I get over it on my own.. I first forget the hurtful moments then when the person genuinely apologize I forgive them.. Not because it easy but because not everyone is perfect.. We all have our faults and if we can't accept the faults in our family and friends they can't accept our faults either.. But if they don't regret the pain they caused me then I might forget those memories and might forgive them as well after sometime.. But if they are people I used to love.. I don't think that love will remain the same.. I tend to love those who love me back which means they care about my pain.. If they don't then they don't deserve my love either.. Just my pov..

Originally posted by: The.Lannister

Mistakes can be forgiven. However crimes should not go unpunished. Sins should be repented for. What Ragini has done are not mistakes. They are crimes or even sins. From a legal POV, intention to murder, murder, drugging, harassment, kidnapping, threatening are all crimes. If all these were worthy of forgiveness we wouldnt need courts. We could just forgive all criminals & move on & maybe life would be simpler...or looking at Swaragini...maybe not?😊

Also forgiveness has to be earned. Anything that a person gets free of cost, he never values. Like Ragini, Daadi who do not value Swara...Swaraginiii & Rasgulla parties not withstanding.

Edit: Also it is great to be born kind. But if life puts you in a viper pit you need to learn to strike back in order to survive. A lion wont eat me because I am not eating the lion is just plain stupid. Life teaches you a great deal of things, the most important being that people change. Change is unavoidable. Swara too should have accepted that her sweet Ragini with whom she used to sing songs is long gone. Her place is taken by this snake whose head she needs to crush or it will poison her life. A person who doesnt recognize change & doesnt adapt DIES in the real world.

Originally posted by: zapdos

yes you are absolutely right. Drug dealers and mafia gang members should be the first ones to rot in jail😉

Originally posted by: zapdos

first of all tell me, kaun si saanskaari ladki apni hi behen k hone waale pati par dore daalti hai ??? ... if swara wouldnt had fallen for her sister's fiancee then all this mess wouldnt had happened

ragini atleast had a reason to harm swara.

But tell me what reason sanskaar had to harm swara and give her drugs and defame her. He wanted to ruin laksh's life and take revenge from his family. But what wrong had swara done to him, that he targetted her ?

When swara can forgive that druglord who harmed her without any fault of hers , then why shouldnt she forgive ragini, where in fact she herself was somewhere responsible for the latter turning negative against her

Originally posted by: luvakanksha

Really if my sister fell in love with someone I love and he also loves her I would have happily sacrificed my love for my sister. Unfortunately ragini was and never will be capable of that kind of sacrifice.

Besides as far as sanskar is concerned yes she forgave him but he was caring enough to respect that forgiveness, he never betrayed her again, n now pls don't bring up kisan here because that was not betrayal.

Swara forgave ragini after truth revelation but she betrayed her yet again, she forgave her after kidnapping but she turned into her malkin avtar.

Swara's basic nature is forgiveness, only sanskar has respected her forgiveness. What he did was wrong no justification for that.

Originally posted by: zapdos

@bold madam its not just Indian law but many countries laws state this .ask any lawyer.

criminals even 4 murder r let off after few yrs if they redeem themselves.luks like u hav never been in contact wid lawyers or never rea d newspapers leave alone law books.

criminals who accept their crimes & turns witness r pardoned by state.

go & do sum research on law.

Originally posted by: tiny15

Criminals who show good behavior in jail are released early too, and this is in indian law.