Nirmala Ahuja Ram and Sumo Adi Shrav - Page 3

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@sp Nirmala has done a mistake. She doesn't realize it. Ramnath is doing mistake. He is also not realizing it. Shravan's case is that of many children not only whose parents are separated, but whose parents are fighting day in day out at home over petty issues. I only said he should stop worshipping Ramnath and should not hate Nirmala to that extend. As a man he has to realize both of them have done their share of mistakes. His father was not completely right, his mother was not completely wrong. Once you reach that understanding it will be easier for him to handle his relation. Else he will suffer in his relation with Suman also. Because subconsciously a template of his parents marriage is inside him.

@Malika you have a valid point. As I said as long as Adi is in his limits I am fine with him. I do not have any qualms if he wants to impress Suman and his intentions are good of taking the relation in a proper route of marriage. The problem happens if he turns out to be a playboy thinking of just using and throwing Suman which I don't think he is hopefully.

Originally posted by: spnfan

Shravan has a valid.reason to hate her... He was very close.to her... One day he went to school and when.he came back his.mother was not at home and.his.father made.him believe she.left him for another.man.. Nirmala never tried.to correct.it... Infact by being with the ahujas she.kind og proved ramnath right.. Tikk date nirmala havent done.anything.to prove shravan's pov wrong... For.him both his parents hated each other but.only one left him and the.other stayed with him... He.is a very sensitive and emotinal guy who dont get attachef to.people easily.but when.he does he.loves them.with all his heart... He gave sumo a second chance.coz.she.proved she is not anymore the immature status conscious girl but nirmala.is still the lady.who left him behind.for new.life...

I know aditya.is.not.a.playboy and.his.intentions.are.not creepy but his actions.are... He is shamelessly cheching out sumo whenever she.is.not.looking at him and being all friendly and innocent in front of.her... Shravan was in love with her from.childhood but never watched.her.the way.aditya does.. Even when.he flirts with her he is in his limits...

Aditya is smitten by her.beauty.and.is.not looking beyond.that... If she wasnt an attractive.girl.he.would have left delhi after.sangeet itself..

Lets accept the fact that sumo is a.veru.difficult girl to handle.. She is very stubborn.and.headstrong and is very good ay hinding her feelings.. She is.different with different.people and.to figure.out her real self.is.difficult for a person who.knows her.only for a.short period.of time.. I guess out of her friends.only pushkar abd.shravan knows.her inseide.out and.only shravan could understand her and handle her..

Also aditya's overfriendly behaviour.with everyone not.only sumo is.quite.irritating... He has.no.right to hide.the.lenhga thing from her and pay for her dress without her.concern..

Originally posted by: spshastr

yes and she shows her real self only to Shravan no one else. I think Aditya is going to get her into trouble and Shrav might save her.. Shes also very gullible and a jhalli kind of person.

Waise Shravs concern for her was not jealousy but a true concern. I have had friends like that who have protected me and u need not be in love to have that protective streak

Originally posted by: spshastr

This will surely show Nirmala and Sumo are not the same.

Due to Ramnath Nirmala left her family and ran away due to the ahuja angle. She never thought about Shrav who was her own son .She had kept him in her womb and that relationship is stronger than Sumos where they have not confessed

Due to Ramnath Sumo has abandoned Shrav and she is keeping away but every time he hurts she hurts . She never went and told Aditya her story with Shrav. She just cut him off. For her he is a guest. Everyone forced her so she put haldi. She did not go freely putting that.

I know on the surface it appears to be the same and noone can see Shrav in pain thanks to Namiks fab acting but

This is far deeper .With Nirmala coming back this is going to peak I feel but end mein Sumo is not nirmala.

I trully want that shown clearly as every independent ladki is not nirmala and they dont fail iin relationships. Acc to me Nirmala has failed as a mom

Originally posted by: Fernweh

Whatever limited perspectives we have been provided of Nirmala, it certainly seems like she took a decision to leave Shravan with Ramanth rather than continue living a stifled life and she felt that by leaving Shravan with Ramnath she was providing him the chance to a better life financially.

What she never would have comprehended was the extent of poison Ramath succeeded (including destroying the love and respect Shravan had for his mother) and still does in feeding Shravan to addle his views of women in general.

For all her good intentions, err she did and big time. She could have stayed back and separated from Ramnath rather than abandoning her only child if she did not want to stay in a bad marriage but she could have ensured that Shravan was aware of the reasons for her actions- he was big enough to understand at that time. To that extent I would say that she failed spectacularly as a mother, since she was the primary reason for Shravan's hatred of women with the balance job being done by Ramanth.

Shravan has always been a gentle, kind and sensitive soul who hurts easily and certainly has more of his mother's traits than his father's- thank God for that. Hes no Ramnath junior for sure even though he may idolise Ramanth and Ramnath would like to think that Sharavan is his "parchayee"😲 Circumstances have made him the cynic that he is but hes a softie at heart.

Ramanth.. the less said about him the better. Even if he loves his son, what he did 10 years back and what he is doing now is reprehensible. He manipulated his wife into leaving 10 years back and he manipulated his son and continues to do so. We dont also know whether Nirmala did make any attempts to contact Shravan in the 10years which were nixed by Ramanth and that too adds up as a reason why he wants to keep her away from Shravan. Manipulative, chauvinistic and selfish is Ramnath for you..

I would like to assume that the purpose of the omnipresent and over chirpy Aditya is not only to bring Nirmala back (which the CVS could have done by way of Nanu inviting her to wedding or any other way saving us the Aditya sufferance) but to push shravan to actually confessing and show Ramnath's true colours.

I would also like to wish that given this show's past handling of tracks, along with Shravan's realisation of Ramnath's true nature comes an understanding of his mother's past actions and that Sumo is her own person with her own strengths and flaws and love is an-all encompassing acceptance of a person, flaws and all.

I also hope that they just dont show a filmy style superficial showdown between the 3 of them. There has to be a transition of Shravan's thoughts since his bitterness and hatred is deep-rooted and for that they need to show his POV post the confrontation and before the confession, which I hope they dont rush through.

Suman is an independent woman. She is no Nirmala- she stays to fight her own battles unlike Nirmala who chose to run away and does it in a rationale manner. She ofcourse has her flaws- who doesnt but then so does Shravan.

The only thing i cant understand about her is despite being the street savy girl that she is shown to be, why are the CVs showing her tolerating Aditya's silly antics and his over-familiarity.

Aditya again dont want to spend much time over him, hes there so he has to be tolerated. Whether hes the genuine nice guy or pretending to be one is not clear- the camera showing him lusting after Sumo doesnt help. So we dont know how his role in the entire confrontation saga and whether hes going to be a passive by-stander or an active instigator to Shravan.

I hope that the culmination of this track is handled in a rationale non-filmy manner and is well-paced in its execution since it is the crux of the whole story.

Phew...this has become one long post😲. apologies.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@sp Nirmala has done a mistake. She doesn't realize it. Ramnath is doing mistake. He is also not realizing it. Shravan's case is that of many children not only whose parents are separated, but whose parents are fighting day in day out at home over petty issues. I only said he should stop worshipping Ramnath and should not hate Nirmala to that extend. As a man he has to realize both of them have done their share of mistakes. His father was not completely right, his mother was not completely wrong. Once you reach that understanding it will be easier for him to handle his relation. Else he will suffer in his relation with Suman also. Because subconsciously a template of his parents marriage is inside him.

@Malika you have a valid point. As I said as long as Adi is in his limits I am fine with him. I do not have any qualms if he wants to impress Suman and his intentions are good of taking the relation in a proper route of marriage. The problem happens if he turns out to be a playboy thinking of just using and throwing Suman which I don't think he is hopefully.