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It was the most powerful dialogue of today and something every girl, every woman has to understand. When we talk for gender equality how many of us are willing to fulfill our duties as daughter, sister post marriage. I have seen women cribbing my husband doesn't like, his family doesn't like, so you just accept what they say. You just accept the fact that even when you are in a position to help your birth family you will not do it, because your sasural doesn't want you to.
If we women has to get rid of beti paraya dan concept this is something we have to learn to do. By helping your birth family you are not being a bad wife or a bad bahu. And with your actions you have to prove to your sasural this. It will be difficult in the beginning, but if you keep trying sincerely things will happen.
Look at Swa. By deciding to stand for the right is she not doing any duty of bahu or wife. She is. But no one wants to accepts her bahu or wife because she has taken a stand as a daughter for her family.
It's very tough for a girl to stand like that especially when even her husband is not supporting. That's why financial independence becomes utmost important. Respect has to be their in a relation and a woman has to do everything in her power to keep the relation stable, but without respect, trust of another's POV a relation cannot survive. It is better to break it off. I am sure it will happen. She will have to go from Sinha house. And it is better she goes and stay with that farmer where she had kept subaida.
That place she will atleast get some emotional support, care and genuine love from those poor people and at present Swa needs that. She needs some positivity than accusations all along to drive the case.
Let Adarsh Sinha live in his fools paradise till day 10 of the battle. And when on 11th day he comes she can tell get lost, she will win on her own. But let him go, go any extend for her because she needs Adarsh Sinha when most probably Suhasini Sinha will enter the battle field on 11th day when she aims at Manohar.
Understand 11 once again. If you look MB, Pandavas were the happiest on 11th day. Because they had brought down Bhishma on day 10 and they have all the positivity. Only Krishna knows the real battle is from then on. Yes the person guarding the system has fallen, but his power has not. On 11 th day Karna enters the field with the weapon Shakthi or power against which there is no defense in direct combat. Power of Karna has to be taken, which is only possible through Krishna and his illusion. Hardest part, suffering part, painful part is taking the power.
I will equate Suhasini to Karna. The most talented, eloquent warrior unfortunately on wrong side. But without Adarsh Sinha taking power from Suhasini Sinha is impossible for Swa.
Once again 11 bullets, Abhay holding Adarsh and Jai. Yes they are needed if justice has to be delivered not only for Asad, but also for him.
Note it was only Adarsh and Jai who saw Abhay alive. Not Manohar. Manohar saw only the dead body of his son. Abhay passed the baton of battle to his brothers. To complete what he left incomplete.
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