Shivam sinking to new depths everyday :-/

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Posted: 9 years ago
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What was with Shivams stupid utter lack of logic today? 😡This man is beyond the pale, he is sooo HORRIBLE! Whyyy does Riya want this loser?! Im so angry at him, at the writers- they have thrown him into a pit of sludge. Even when Bunty was trying to explain it to him for the second time he is giving the same regressive and utterly stupid responses. She was SO right when she said she wondered if he ever loved Riya. Ha! He loved her "truly"- yeah right! Hes made her life miserable- ALL she asked was that he support her and nothing else and he couldn't even do that. His version of "support" is to dictate to her how his family likes things done. Has he ever made any allowances for her? Those stupid keys to SS were literally forced on her, she didn't even want them, telling everyone clearly that she wasn't experienced enough to handle it. Shivam's response? "I know you will be able to do it, you'll figure it out" The di*khead. And then when it all went wrong he jumped down her throat. God, you wouldn't want this man to be your FRIEND never mind husband!! Forget about Riya being a complete and utter moron for wanting to be with this pig for a moment- we already know this. But seriously- HELLOOO you MAM writers??? Are you hearing this??? You are literally turning the male lead into the most useless, pathetic, immature, unfeeling, cold, passive, boring, idiotic, backwards thinking, UN-sexy, bully of a man-child!! 🤢🤢🤢You are wasting Karam Rajpal you complete idiots! Ugh. BLEH! Bunty should have laughed right in his face- this stupid big baby of a man is threatened by a girl and a friendship between two best friends. Grow up you fool, you didn't know what you had when you had it and still youre blaming others...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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i think shivam prefers chandu to chanda
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I so agree with you..
I more like the shivam of ur ff rather than the show one..why does riya want him? why?! He dsnt deserve riya..he desrves chanda..

You are right..they are destroying karam and the character..

MAM do read what we have to say and what we want to see..Please.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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What weed are the writers smoking seriously??? Coz I find no other reason that why would they make such absurd reasons behind shivam's anger. Like how the hell did the MAM writers come up with such utter BS , which he was spewing today. Shivam claims to love Riya yet not once has he asked his mother and gramma and aunt, to back off .Nor has he ever helped Riya with the responsibilities that has been thrust on her. Whenever she tried to share her problems with Shivam, he always repeated these two dialogues ''I don't know anything about that nor do I want to know. I just want you to become like my mother,see how she handles maturely , you also become like her. ''
And other one ''I don't know anything about all that. i DONT want to know. But I know you will handle it''.
Bas these two dialogues have become the trademark of shivam's contribution to shivya relationship😡. I AM beyond ANNOYED at Shivam. Riya may have 100s faults but she deserves a far better husband than a brutish insensitive cruel rude husband shivam. Karam deserves to play a better version of shivam.He is too talented to waste his potential in such a regressive show.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: savebookworm

i think shivam prefers chandu to chanda


He definitely doesn;t deserve a loyal wife like Riya. He is so far gone, that he doesn't even deserve a chandu or chanda. He ain't good enough for either.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i JUST caught up on some recent episodes. And oh my god, 30th may episode was both so funny and tragic. Funny coz of that riya searching for music learning steps on internet and tragic also coz how desperate she had become to win their approval. It sickened me to see Shivam act like so cold and so cruel towards Riya. And I just want to slap Preeti, the way she was blaming Riya and when shivam comes, she taunts riya that ''see here comes ur husband to take your side''. It was so cheap and so low of Preeti, I mean she is the reason coz of which shivya broke up, and she has the guts to stand there and accuse her brother of siding with his wife, I was like can't this idiot see how crude and mean is shivam towards Riya.
And the way Shivam asks Riya how are you going to manage yourself without money and threw away her resignation letter and asked her to get out, it was all so cheap so lowly so disgusting of him. Mr. SHivam had no qualms of taking away his biwi's hardearned money to give to his daadi and use it for the expenses of his good for nothing family, but has the guts to stand there and make such caustic remarks at his own wife.
The way everyone at SS, are treating Riya like she murdered one of their members. Her fault is the least yet she is getting the majority of hate,oh wait , not just majority but actually all of it. I am sick and tired of this show for real now. I hate shivam so much like actually hate him.

And yesterday's episode was even more disgusting. He was attacking Riya's friend Bunty and accusing him of being the reason why his marriage is broken. I am like, hello Bunty is the reason, Riya is still sane and has not succumbed to depression. You should be thankful that his wife has such a good supportive friend.. He is not even a good friend to his wife, forget being a husband. HE HAS NEVER BEEN SUPPORTIVE OF RIYA, ALWAYS HAS CHOSEN HIS FAMILY OVER her and always blamed her for other's actions. Any wife would jump off the cliff with a husband like this, out of frustration.

I am genuinely baffled as why the writers are promoting such a negative character as the lead male protagonist of the show. Even the most maa ka laadla obedient son knows where to draw the line and not be so crude to someone. Shivam doesn't even treat RIYA like a fellow human.

Riya is always taking care of SHivam and his family. But what about Shivam's duty as a husband??? Is wife a commodity, that can be thrown out anytime the inlaws n husband thinks that this ''commodity'' is of no use anymore or is defective. Is that what this show and show writers promoting???? Its degrading for me as a woman to even watch this show. I am personally offended with such a regressive show. Star PLUS brags about nayi soch. What Nayi Soch is this??? That a wife has no security inside her own house and the male protagonist of the show is justified to degrade humiliate demean her,coz he is supposed to be the ''cultured obedient loyal'' son and brother.

And no I no longer buy this excuse that ''poor shivam is being manipulated by his daadi and mommy''. Irrespective of how manipulated you are, you don't treat a fellow human with such humiliation. He doesn't even show humanity towards his own wife.

He claims to love his wife. But how come he feels no regret no pain no remorse seeing his wife sleeping on the floor in the aangan. How come he feels no pain seeing her cry and be miserable. Is he that heartless???

I don't get it as to how the f@ck are the writers gonna justify Shivam's behaviour and prove his claim of love for RIya. He sleeps with great comfort in his bed, eats his food happily, leads a normal life .And only time he shows some not so happy expressions, is when he sees his wife existing.

Coolbeans I think we should send these messages to Karam or Ekta or StarPlus or the makers of the show in Instagram in their comment section. Hopefully they will read it and understand what the viewers actually want. Because its saddening to see such a good cast waste away in this show. They have got such a great cast yet hired such idiotic writers.

Trust me , MAM writers are gonna be the reason why this show will drown.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Writers have turned (potentially) one of the best onscreen pair into loathsome characters..well not even worth loathing
Everybody at SS is so uncouth and evil and heights is that , the way evil duo of Shanti Sarla behave is being passed on as funny since the show began and moreover SP award for shanti as mazedar character.. whats so ' mazedar' about uncouth behavior?
I think Shivam never loved Riya , at all whole heartedly , he liked her only when she was in good books of his mom and sisters otherwise she's worst than trash
I found him asking Riya , how would she take care of herself , if she doesn't earn? He needs to be reminded that Riya was still his wife till six months passes away, so he is ssupposed to take care of her financial needs if noth anything else.. and what kind of a brother is he , who doesn't want to find out what really happened with his sister and what made her run away from her marriage ?
Shivya chemistry is beyond repair now , even if writers mend their ways , the freshness in their chemistry is all gone..
I really want Shivam to marry Chanda, only then he will realize Riya's true worth ; he right now is in self denial and has forgotten what all Riya has done for SS and how she loves her family unconditionally even at the cost of hurting her own father
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't even remember sarlas. Second daughters name but if they now show her riding riyas bike I will feel that Riya just needs a halo around her head to make her an angel.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Maverick_me

Writers have turned (potentially) one of the best onscreen pair into loathsome characters..well not even worth loathing

Everybody at SS is so uncouth and evil and heights is that , the way evil duo of Shanti Sarla behave is being passed on as funny since the show began and moreover SP award for shanti as mazedar character.. whats so ' mazedar' about uncouth behavior?
I think Shivam never loved Riya , at all whole heartedly , he liked her only when she was in good books of his mom and sisters otherwise she's worst than trash
I found him asking Riya , how would she take care of herself , if she doesn't earn? He needs to be reminded that Riya was still his wife till six months passes away, so he is ssupposed to take care of her financial needs if noth anything else.. and what kind of a brother is he , who doesn't want to find out what really happened with his sister and what made her run away from her marriage ?
Shivya chemistry is beyond repair now , even if writers mend their ways , the freshness in their chemistry is all gone..
I really want Shivam to marry Chanda, only then he will realize Riya's true worth ; he right now is in self denial and has forgotten what all Riya has done for SS and how she loves her family unconditionally even at the cost of hurting her own father



He is the type of brother who turns a blind eye to his sister's misdeeds. And he feels its better to not know how much of a b*tch his sister is and anyways RIYA RANI is always there to be his punching bag.
Shivam is not capable of having any feelings for anyone who is not his family. He doesn't even show basic humanity to his own wife, forget love. Asking your ''wife'' how is she going to feed herself if she doesn't work, as if you weren't the one who asked her to give away her salary to his daadi to feed his family. This show has reached the depths of low with their male protagonist. MOre than Shanti-Sarla, I DESPISE AND HATE Shivam and Kaushalya and Preeti
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Sana

Lol! 😆 I think the writers are smoking a special blend. You summed up exactly what Shivam is about; expecting Riya to be able to magically take responsibility of SS, learning everything without even being allowed to ask questions or seek advice- and that too with a psychotic granny cocking up her efforts left right and centre. It really baffled me as to how Shivam didn't even suspect that something was seriously up when literally everything with Riya would go wrong. Like dude? Have you been living in SS since childhood or did you get knocked on the head and just forgot who your dadi really is? Hes been a victim of her manipulations himself and still nothing seemed off?

As for Riya getting desperate- is there a word that is more "desperate-y" than desperate? Frantic, frenzied? She is like a bloody headless chicken jumping from one stupid ploy to the next to get them to simply like her. And do you know something else? The writers are actually making a comedy of it because if you watch her expressions when she is being insulted or when she has hatched an idea" she looks positively pleased with her situation. Shes actually smirking and laughing at dadi when the woman is spewing verbal diarrhoea at her!! I mean, what? What is THIS? Are we meant to be laughing along with her? Crying? Tearing our hair out maybe? As for Preeti- how low can you go? In her head she isn't to be blamed for any of it, its entirely Riyas fault because you see Riya should have been PSYCHIC and read her mind and stopped her before she escaped from her own wedding. It was probably Riyas fault that she aired her love life on the radio too *EYEROLL* And besides I don't even know what she was going on about Shivam taking her side. What side you imbecile? Have you not been seeing whats happening? Your brother loves his wife so much and takes her side SO much that he wont even give her the basic kindness of money to pay for her food, he treats her like a wayward dog (I wouldn't treat a rabbit like that never mind a dog) and throws her letter on the floor for her to pick it up. So what ""side"" you moron? Your brother is taking YOUR side. And Preeti isn't the reason for Shivam and Riyas breakup, Shivam is. The only thing Preeti's actions did was highlight in technicolour detail just how little shivam gave a damn about his wife to begin with. Prretis actions simply revealed the multiple cracks in the ShivYas relationship- HE finished the job and destroyed it by being the d*ckwad that he is and has been. Which you have quite aptly described Sana.

The only way we can now justify shivams complete lack of remorse over the way his wife is living in SS is that he simply doesn't love her. He doesn't. It was never there, the marriage was forced on him from the start and he really didn't know what he was doing when he agreed to marry her. He must have thought she would turn out to be just like his mum- even though she is a career woman with heaps of independence- I think he still thought she would turn into a slave for his family and all would be well in the end even though he expected her to solve ALL their problems and put Dadi in her place LMAO can you get anymore confused than that? He wanted her to be like his mum but also whip dadi into shape. Puh-lease. And when that didn't happen he started hating her- whatever love he had for her if you can call it that was conditional upon her fitting into his family and behaving like one of them. When that didn't happen he lost interest pretty quickly. Hes a jerk.

Anyway lol enjoyed your mega rant Sana, that was so funny. And MAM writers are already the reason why this show is already drowning- theres no future tense anymore- the MAM apocalypse is happening people 🤢🤢, its here, prepare yourselves for yet more barbarism and stupidity!We are the MAM zombies watching this tv vomit and unable to stop 😕 you gotta laugh at it or you'll end up foaming at the mouth 😆



@Maverick

Yep, I hope shivam marries chanda in the show. But now Im not even sure if chanda has ulterior motives or not. No one is that nicey nicey all the time, so I thought there was seriously something fishy about her. But now she and Riya are best buds, really? Im not sure what to think cuz MAM writers are confused themselves, so heaven knows whether chanda is going to screw riya over or be her bestie from now on. I dont care. ShivYa in mam are over for me. Lets start the next boring stupid ""romance"" with "ShivDa" now 🤢

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