Originally posted by: sandiab
If Nandu was played by some1 really Handsome like I dnt know maybe a Mohit Raine, Anuj Sachdev basically some1 really hot and not so creepy looking. Would some of us be more sympathetic towards him basically he would be poor and pathetic bt still like hot. Honestly I would like him a lot more if he was hot
More often than not- if a person has a heart- even the most gorgeous panty dropping guy can seem like the worst orgre if he behaves like one. What if this guy was incredibly hot, but behind closed doors you knew he beat his wife or raped her or emotionally and mentally abused her? Would you really see his good looks, or would simply looking at him cause the bile to rise in your throat. Of course it depends on the severity of the abuse/crime/deed... everything is subjective really. But for me personally, Nandu isnt even THAT bad looking, Ive seen worse if we are speaking purely aesthetically. What I loathe about Nandu is the way in which he went about cornering Preeti into a marriage. I do admit that if she didnt want to marry him, she should have used her mouth- just as she is now. But...we're talking about Nandu here. He has played dirty throughout and taken every opportunity to take advantage of the situation with Preeti and Mohit. I think he tried to help them reunite once- and that was the one and only time I actually wanted Preeti to fall in love with Nandu regardless of his status and looks. I hated Mohit from the moment he stepped foot in SS- so when Nandu tried to help them even though he was so in love with her, I really wanted him to "get the girl" so to speak. But after that it all went down hill and he just turned into a major creepazoid. What kind of man insists on being with a woman who utterly hates him? I mean really truly hates him. When guys reek of such desperation and low tactics to get a girl because theyre not man enough to do it any other way- it is the most unattractive thing in the world. That and being a psychotic wife batterer. So nope, couldnt care less if he had the high cheekbones and smouldering gaze... if a man has to resort to what Nandu has been upto, he isnt a man. So how is that sexy no matter what they look like?
I admit at first you would see only his looks if he was attractive and you might forgive him a few mistakes... human beings are mentally and physically wired to gravitate towards beauty and the current standards of beauty as deemed by society in the hopes to reproduce...but we're not just hormonal animals. We can also think and consider how a persons personality would affect us and our children in the future once looks wear off. So in the end, I hope that those "lust goggles" would quite quickly wear off for most women? I would hope so anyway!