The Process of Choosing- right or wrong? - Page 2

Originally posted by: S.Stephy

Thanks! That's the thing... in these brief meetings, people will portray themselves the way they want and it get's difficult to choose. And yeah, not just girls even guys can get affected. Like in this show also, if we see... in the first episode, Baa was against telling the guy and his family that Dharaa is a cricketer. But it was Dharaa who chose to be honest with Mihir from the first meeting itself.

Courtship will be a good solution but yeah, unfortunately conservative families are not as receptive of this.

Originally posted by: xPalkix

I agree with her. I'm not saying the norm is entirely wrong because you can find a good life partner through even one encounter but that is not a likely case.

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

Actually more than the guy's family, it is the girl's parents and the elders who stress about compromising with their careers. Baa had exactly done that. If Dhara had told about her interest, it is a good thing as any relationship has to begin with honesty. But Mihir has been dishonest. The conservative families believe in the concept of kanyadaan. That is once they give the girl to that family it will be their responsibility and they have every right over the girl.

Within the limited time, it is difficult to decide whether to go for that proposal or not. It implies to both, the boy and the girl. At least 5 to 10 days time should be given to them to know and understand each other before proceeding.