Asad's and Adarsh reaction to negative situation

On one side we have Adarsh who doesn't know whether Swa loves him, who makes an attempt to let Suhas know his inner feelings but is trapped in an engagement he doesn't want. Adarsh is disturbed mentally. And I simply cant understand why Suhasini doesn't see it or she thinks once marriage done everything will be fine. Nothing becomes that. But what we need to see even in this emotionally disturbed state Adarsh keeps his calm, he hopes for the better, and yes his duty is not affected. He is into the task of unmasking Bhanwari Lal's truth. At this point he is somehow managing both because he cannot do anything else. Reason being Swa has not said any feeling for him from her side. And I would say what Adarsh is doing is right. He doesn't have any right to mess with Swa's life without knowing what she wants.

Now Asad. He has not proposed Radhika. Radhika has not told him she loves him. Maybe they feel, but it has not been openly communicated. And Radhika is engaged. Asad loses it. He walks around like a maniac putting everyone in stress. His friends cannot do anything for him. His parents are worried like hell. And it is this attitude of his that is gonna backfire. He is going to to do something in an emotionally charged moment. And whatever that is it is gonna backfire and place him in trouble.

Yes we can say Adarsh is old enough to have maturity, and Asad is young and immature. But then sometimes law doesn't differentiate that. So it is always better to look at things in a wholistic perspective than do any harsh actions.

Asad's reaction looks more real, closers to reality to me..I don't know what he is going to do in future bt as of now Adarsh is wrong imo

Coming to Adarsh he did try to say he doesn't want the engagement at that time. And Adarsh is not a guy who shouts. But Suhasini overrode him completely. He was in a situation where the girl's family is waiting, his family has accepted the relation and he doesn't know what the girl he loves thinks about him. And Suhasini didn't give any positive vibes about Swa at a personal level.

And in Adarsh's situation at that point he doesn't have any other reason except telling he doesn't like Vanshika to stop the marriage. And yes everyone will be embarrassed when it happens later. But for me it is not Adarsh's fault, it is Suhasini's fault and Jaya's fault to rush into things before calling Adarsh in person, before talking to him in person, just call the bundela family and ask Adarsh to come for girl seeing.

So if everyone does things without understanding or waiting to hear what Adarsh wants, then I am fine with all those feelings getting crushed. Because they were going to crush his feelings, a feelings of a guy who wanted to give everyone equal space and their feelings got crushed.

At an age what Adarsh does looks wrong and what Asad does looks right. But there is a point in life where you will appreciate a man like Adarsh than a emotionally unstable Asad. Because life is not a bed of roses, it has thorns. And if you cant keep your cool when stepping on the thorns, then with such a man a woman can never be secure.

Mother in suhasini, for sure, has a hitler side to her n jaya despite being a victim is doing d same to adarsh bt Adarsh does go against his father bcz he feels it is d ryt way..it's not dat he doesn't hv guts to speak bt here he dint show d required resistance imo

Asad is deeply emotional n vulnerable at dis stage..I still can't call him emotionally unstable bcz one gets shattered knowing one's love is getting married to some other person.."he shud behave maturely" is an idealistic situation..dat is why I said his reactions luk closers to reality to me

Same with Adarsh. Vanshika could have guessed that body language. In today epi she felt something not right, when he outrightly refused to dance with her telling no mood.

Adarsh doesn't mind Swa's body language, Vanshika is not minding his body language. So he is also getting what he has done.

Interesting point is Swa is not there in the mess. Now with Ahuja and Simmi behind Adarsh she is gonna get involved in this mess. I will come to Swa's mistake when that happens 😆

@shrutiravi In adarsh's case, swadheenta has directly told him that she isn't interested in him..he is not minding her words forget her body language 😆

For Vanshika, if his dis behaviour continues(which ll surely continue) den i expect her to mind n at most i expect her to talk instead of simply calling d engagement off

Well surely Swa too wud b involved in d mess..she too ll do mistakes, nai to story aagey kaise baregi 😉 Now Adarsh is taking d story forward n den she ll 😆

Asad, on the other hand is still a child. his way of reacting is not the best but everyone has their own way of dealing with things.

@pomegranate Suhas is in utopian world. She doesn't understand her elder son has rejected her choice. And by pushing Adarsh she thinks he can have her way. But somehow I feel Simmi and Ahuja plan will make Adarsh break.