AS's Feelings for SR: Love or infatuation?

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SHERlocked

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Posted: 9 years ago

Hello!

My post is about Adarsh's feelings for Swadheenta and how deep they are.

For starters, I don't think Adarsh is in love with Swadheenta as yet.

Love at first sight is a really cliche concept but it is a refreshing change from the regular "love-hate" stories. Adarsh may be deeply infatuated with Swadheenta and maybe he really likes her.

She's Swadheenta Ramakrishnan, what's there not to like? She is beautiful, she is smart and she is a lawyer! Whoa! A real package. But to love somebody, you need to know that person and that's why I believe that Adarsh is not in love with Swadheenta. Love at first sight doesn't exist because if it did, it would mean that Adarsh Sinha loves Swadheenta Ramakrishnan, the beautiful and hot lawyer with an amazing personality, not Swadheenta, the person.

I am not doubting Adarsh's feelings for Swadheenta. They are there, definitely they are there but those feelings can't be given the name of love. Infatuation is the first step towards love.

We start liking a person because he/she is smart, hot or whatever but we only love a person when we see beyond the smartness and hotness. This infatuation of Adarsh will take him to his love for Swadheenta.

I just find it really annoying that an IAS officer has to keep following her around and not do his work. He's not 15, for heaven's sake!

I love the character of Swadheenta and I really wish Simar, Swara, Ragini and Gopi will take a few lessons from her. No offence to anybody!

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 9 years ago

Dear agree to you. At this point Adarsh has strong feeling for the girl Swadeenta. Not for Swadeenta Ramakrishnan who is a complete package.

Because it is Adarsh who is going behind Swadeenta. But how will Adarsh Sinha deals with Swadeenta Ramakrishnan. Why I added the surname is because along with that surnames comes lot of obligations, responsibilities and these things can create moral conflicts.

And will Adarsh Singha able to traverse these conflicts for Swadeenta Ramakrishnan when she fights for what is right.

Love can only happen when Swadeenta understands Adarsh Singha and Adarsh understands Swadeenta Ramakrishnan.

The illusion has to break and reality has to check in. Adarsh has to stop seeing Swa using the camera of his phone and has to see her through his eyes. A person beyond that pretty face.

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pomegranate

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Posted: 9 years ago

it is not love but just infatuation or attraction. most love stories begin with attraction, then it evolves into something more once both parties get to know eachother. There are sparks, connection, attraction, lust, infatuation and "like" but all of this will turn to love with love. both just need to see eachother for who they are.

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DiscoDhokla

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
Dear agree to you. At this point Adarsh has strong feeling for the girl Swadeenta. Not for Swadeenta Ramakrishnan who is a complete package.
Because it is Adarsh who is going behind Swadeenta. But how will Adarsh Sinha deals with Swadeenta Ramakrishnan. Why I added the surname is because along with that surnames comes lot of obligations, responsibilities and these things can create moral conflicts.
And will Adarsh Singha able to traverse these conflicts for Swadeenta Ramakrishnan when she fights for what is right.
Love can only happen when Swadeenta understands Adarsh Singha and Adarsh understands Swadeenta Ramakrishnan.
The illusion has to break and reality has to check in. Adarsh has to stop seeing Swa using the camera of his phone and has to see her through his eyes. A person beyond that pretty face.

very well said!!

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