Do you belive in Love At First Sight

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@ashlok

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Posted: 9 years ago

Hey dehleezians...we know for Adarsh its love at first sight...but do u believe in love at first sight..do u think that by seeing a person for the first time will make u fall in love with him/her...how will u realize it is love at first sight...can people be able to differentiate b/n attraction and love at first sight...

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Sidhi

@ArtThouTheBest

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Posted: 9 years ago

Well for me its crush at first sight. Coz i believe in order to love a person, love alone is nt enuf. There has to be faith, trust, transperancy, adoration, comfort, sensibility, compatibility n of course understanding. Love is a really strong emotion n it takes time to happen n much mre time to grow strong. Love at first sight is actually l'il bit of liking, attraction n sudden interest on smeone who appealed to us at the 1st sight. N i believed thats wat happend with adhu! Love is YET to REALLY HAPPEN IN TRUE SENSE. Even if it did happen, it wud take time to take the rite angle n sense! Bt the CVs knew hw to mould the cncept of love at first sight into a cute, lovable n impressive track with streaks of comedy n sweetness overloaded. N i must say all r impressed
Cming to hw can love at first sight occur it can be due to beauty, positivity, nature of that person or his or her antics that the lover finds cute
Cncerning differentiating i guess its upto the person to knw hw to differ his emotions. One way cud be paying gre8 attention n interest to that smeone n if with time the initial feeling persists n in fact grows strong n kinda possessive (not over possessive or obsession) then its defo love. Or else attraction!
With love,
Sidhi

P.s: Dahleez, SwaDarsh n TriHar rockzz

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S.kitty

@S.kitty

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Posted: 9 years ago

no, i dont belive in love at first sight. there might be an attraction or u can call it a crush but these r feelings based on looks. i wouldt say looks doesnt matter coz in our daily life we meet so many people and only few capture our attention. whats equally important is personality too. Bad personality is a big turn off not matter how good looking the person is.

coming to adharsh i wouldnt call it love at first sight. its more of an attraction. he cares for her and he is also protective about her. he doesnt know much about her yet and love is more than just attraction. he needs to get to know her. maybe start from friendship? i believe friendship is a good start. u need to have a strong foundation based on trust and honesty too. love happens over time and not at first sight. it takes times to build a relationship. over the years attraction can fade away and u need something much stronger to keep ur relationship intact.

personally i havent come across people who realize love at first sight. yes, there might have been an attraction or a spark in their first meeting when they look back at it. but i think its too early to name it love.

But then whatever i have shared here is my personal opinion. there might b people who have fallen in love at first sight, but i have hard time believing in this concept. differentiating between attraction and love at first sight depends on the person who deals with it. i dont really think there is an answer to it. love is complicated.😊

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pomegranate

@pomegranate

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Posted: 9 years ago

no I do not believe in love at first sight. However there can be attraction or even lust at first sight. there has to be something that draws one person to another- it could be their looks, personality or mannerism. over many interaction, the attraction evolves into love. for adarsh is a strong attraction at first but now I think it is turning into love.

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 9 years ago

I don't think every "love at first sight" is love. A lot of times it might just be an attraction or lust. Also sometimes people are more in love with the idea of being in love that they latch onto the "idea" of someone which seems to be more infatuation.

But sometimes we can feel a powerful connection with someone almost immediately. If you look at brain scan research we have something called mirror neurons where we mirror the brain waves or feelings of a person we are in contact with. Its a brain-brain link (like a wifi connection) that allows us to have empathy for others. I think some people likely have an ability to immediately trigger those neurons very strongly. We often see lovers gazing in each other's eyes-- its probably those mirror neuron connections at work.

I guess for me love is when you start to include someone in your sense of self and feel what they feel very strongly. You feel a closeness with someone where you want to open up to them and want them to open up to you. Its about all those things the above poster said about friendship, trust, honesty, respect, admiration, adoration, understanding and of course a desire for physical intimacy. Obviously all these things can grow with time and be just as strong but I think in certain cases the foundation could start early.

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